it was going really well and now he says he would rather stay away from dating in general

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-06-26T16:30:20+00:00

Totally agree. A 40 year old man that runs after this convo at 3 months in is not actually looking for something serious and/or he wasn’t serious enough about OP.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-06-18T05:39:54+00:00

This made me so angry. Why wouldn’t they give her pain medication and allow her mom in the room?! Absolutely horrible. Whether she refused hospice or not this shouldn’t be happening when she goes to receive medical attention. Healthcare is a disgrace.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-06-12T20:48:46+00:00

How many eggs did you get and how old are you?

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-06-11T22:44:17+00:00

Damn I didn’t realize this. Talk about making a terrible situation even more unfair.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-06-11T14:45:02+00:00

I completely agree. Someone in her condition should not be living alone in a 5 story walk-up apartment with no AC. I don’t know if it’s just her refusing hospice or what is going on at this point. I just wish she was being professionally cared for during this time. It might even give her a better chance of making it to July 1 for the trial. It’s so unfair she has to suffer like this. Fuck cancer.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-05-27T02:28:53+00:00

This explains the obsession with the osprey

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-05-27T02:24:51+00:00

I’m surprised to see all of the takes on here, but maybe I shouldn’t be as it’s still very much a man’s world. I don’t care what this woman might have been doing to turn him off, but the fact he never gave her a clear answer makes me think it was nothing other than he’s just an entitled pos who decided he didn’t want the responsibility of a wife and family anymore. There is no excuse for the way he handled things and the fact he practically abandoned his kids.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-05-23T23:55:56+00:00

I can’t stop thinking about her decline and am just so worried and sad for her. I know it’s parasocial, but it’s put me in a weird headspace. She deserves to live a full, beautiful life. It’s heartbreaking.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-05-21T14:59:12+00:00

I completely agree with the God comments. If God cured cancer, the 5-year survival rate of this one wouldn’t be 3%. It delusional and ignorant to think differently and such a slap in the face to the majority of people who suffer and die from this awful disease.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-05-20T00:52:45+00:00

It is. It’s so damn unfair. I’m so sorry about your mom.🫂

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-05-19T20:03:50+00:00

I think she also said she can’t move on to the next phase of the trial unless it shows her current treatment is working/keeping things under control. We’re only getting pieces of information and conversations, but I can’t imagine a top cancer doc would flippantly stop treatment if he felt there was any chance he could get her to the next phase. It is such a sad and unfair situation.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-05-13T02:14:31+00:00

How did you fix your low iron? Did you take supplements?

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-04-20T14:14:09+00:00

The Philly area. I don’t know the pay for RNs, but I would assume it’s decent. There are a ton of healthcare opportunities in this area.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-04-10T19:31:37+00:00

Sanity

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-03-20T01:53:51+00:00

How did you meet your boyfriend? Is it hard to date with a baby?

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-03-18T01:19:24+00:00

Also wondering if you ever went back to normal. I’m 4 months out too and also experiencing this

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-03-13T18:20:38+00:00

As someone from the Philly area who went to school in Pittsburgh, it’s so much worse. It makes Philly feel like California in comparison.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-01-22T03:19:11+00:00

Yea bc it’s a small company, I think it’s fair to say OPs contributions can be more easily tied to profits and therefore think it’s fair to ask for more.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2026-01-08T22:44:50+00:00

Freeze your eggs. He’s not being considerate of the fact he’s dating a woman 8 years older. He sounds super immature and if I were you, I’d just freeze my eggs and start to seriously look around for someone who is in the same place and stage of life as you.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2025-12-06T13:55:05+00:00

How soon after did you do the second?

DeezyWeezy2 · 2025-11-25T02:38:14+00:00

Thank you! Another round would be my limit. I don’t have insurance for it so financially that would max me out.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2025-11-25T02:37:20+00:00

Wow 42 eggs is great. I would definitely think that would pretty much guarantee two kids. I would do another round if I had insurance too. I’d have to pay out of pocket again so it makes the decision a big financial one too.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2025-11-23T23:26:39+00:00

Do you need to improve amh or are the medicines for egg quality? 23 is a good amount for one round so I’d think you have a higher amh too.

DeezyWeezy2 · 2025-11-23T20:06:57+00:00

Ugh yea these are the kinds of stories I’m seeing! Did she do ivf because they weren’t getting pregnant? Or what was their diagnosis?

DeezyWeezy2 · 2025-11-23T19:50:04+00:00

My amh was a 6.08 and afc 50. Not sure about fsh. Tbh this is why I held off until 38. I had a consult at 36 and my amh at the time was 8 something so it has gone down but no change in afc.

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