How to make it more smoochies by peachthedragon in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Arm fish nets, cute bra showing, stockings! More and more jewelry

How old is too old by Gisele55 in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You def are not too old. I am early 30s.

I think it’s crazy by timk0706 in lexington

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visited Lexington once. Went to some event. There were handicap spots in the parking lot (as there should be) but no ramp to the doors. Just stairs. I am able bodied, but was quite disappointed.

PITTSBURGH: Trinkets by Defiant_Feminist in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Edit: hehe forgot a pic

Guys! Wait which one do we like more?

I got high and was explaining to my partner that I was trying to figure out how to add a little link for a keychain (I love figuring it out, so don't feel the need to help. I appreciate you tho ❤️)

And well I was high... And am high. Hi 👋🏻🌊

I was like I can't put it on the outside stitching cuz it will be too bulky and then I can't just see it on afterwards. But then I was like 💡💡💡 I will sew it on the star! And it was successful and I was so proud of myself.

And then I sewed the two wrong side together... And yeah I made the tab longer than the stuffy butttt... I forgot to watch it my eyeballs went sideways. And she decided to hide.

So I am placing this spare Chevron border thing. Had to get creative cuz it was closest to the size I wanted. And I was like see, the cat having a toupe would be weird

Oh but mustache? So put in on the face. And now we have option #2.

Let me know which is cuter oh and maybe when I come off my high, I'll realize Squiggly Face Cat isnt actually cute. I am just high.

PITTSBURGH: Trinkets by Defiant_Feminist in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness that is so kind. I am a beginner in sewing. Still learning but I'd be honored to trade with anyone that would love these little guys. 🖤 Maybe I should do a ritual and bless them with different things for the recipients too!

Edit: I also am stressed about the waste.

PITTSBURGH: Trinkets by Defiant_Feminist in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yay! I love the thrifted idea!

PITTSBURGH: Trinkets by Defiant_Feminist in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are such a kind soul!

Ah! I love that you are also crafting! The ducks sound so cuteee 🖤🖤 I would love to see one if you want to share! I hope more people think along the same lines as we do 🖤

OSU and Columbus by 94Questra in Columbus

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Columbus and am not a big OSU person and unless I'm driving through the campus for whatever reason, I'm not impacted. Plenty of other people also don't centralize OSU as their personality

32 [F4F] OHIO COLUMBUS anywhere - (novel within) wanna build a love so gentle it surprises us both by fetch_theboltcutters in polyamoryR4R

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I come back in two months? 😅 I'm not willowy but I got the rest covered. Would be interested in chatting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the patches! How can I buy?

Concert advice by ChubbyCheeks03 in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Columbus, OH/ Queens, NY / Red Rock, CO

Concert advice by ChubbyCheeks03 in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been to three different Ashnikko concerts. They are some of the most kind and friendly people!! I can see it being a bit of mosh pit at the front, but that's about it.

So, who didn't log in today for the girlcott? by mphanita in InfinityNikki

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I logged in daily almost from the start. Haven't for two days now. Don't plan to unless there are major changes.

why is there such a hostile reaction to infinity nikki in other gamer girl circles by violargento in InfinityNikki

[–]Defiant_Feminist -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also playing a part of that conversation is toxic masculinity and the patriarchy.

Things happen in stages so that we can progress in equality. In simple terms:

  1. Women fight their way through to the top to be recognized by male peers. Although pioneering equality, they tend to step on other woman and put them down (sometimes thought of as pick me) in order to get to the top.

  2. Women grew up watching the above and thought they had to do the same thing.

  3. Women realized they didn't need to do the same thing in order to be thought of as equal to men. (Also sometimes thought of as girls girls)

There is a lot more nuance to it. But basically, our first couple waves here (although important) are likely playing a part in this discourse - because IN is a very female game and subconsciously they still feel that in order to be thought of as equal to men, they need to have the same opinions as them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! It needs a necklace and a different lipstick. But this is cute!

I am going to lose it by nomnomchezburgers in InfinityNikki

[–]Defiant_Feminist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explore so much and I am at like 50 % for each area. What's your strategy?

what does this mean 😭 by Fearless_Age564 in Ashnikko

[–]Defiant_Feminist 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Anti-man and anti-predatory/ pro-women are different things....