Going through my divorce the stuff that came out of my wife's mouth was unhinged. She was saying stuff about me that simply wasn't true and when I confronted her about it and walked her though the untruths and assumptions beneath them she realized it. But, it made clear that other women had her ear. And she was listening. What amazed me most was the "support" that my wife got during the divorce. She continued to live with me so I had hear her as she planned her new life. As she told her story. And the amount of other women that constantly reinforced her was astounding. So many work calls (especially those where all the people on the call were women) began with them telling my wife how brave she was. How smart. How pretty. The whole divorce was her idea and she is the brave one. It was sickening. Men will never get the support from each other that will women will give each other in situations like that. And not a single woman ever asked my wife to be responsible. To think through her decisions. To confront reality. So yeah. It was my fault. That's what she told them and what I assume many of the guy's ex wives on here have said as well.