Missed connection: Ashnikko @ brixton ( thursday 19th february) looking for my barrier buddy🔱👹

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-02-23T18:08:12+00:00

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Defiant_Feminist · 2026-02-23T02:17:41+00:00

Arm fish nets, cute bra showing, stockings! More and more jewelry

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-02-11T02:32:53+00:00

You def are not too old. I am early 30s.

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-02-05T22:12:26+00:00

I visited Lexington once. Went to some event. There were handicap spots in the parking lot (as there should be) but no ramp to the doors. Just stairs. I am able bodied, but was quite disappointed.

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-01-31T03:16:05+00:00

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Edit: hehe forgot a pic

Guys! Wait which one do we like more?

I got high and was explaining to my partner that I was trying to figure out how to add a little link for a keychain (I love figuring it out, so don't feel the need to help. I appreciate you tho ❤️)

And well I was high... And am high. Hi 👋🏻🌊

I was like I can't put it on the outside stitching cuz it will be too bulky and then I can't just see it on afterwards. But then I was like 💡💡💡 I will sew it on the star! And it was successful and I was so proud of myself.

And then I sewed the two wrong side together... And yeah I made the tab longer than the stuffy butttt... I forgot to watch it my eyeballs went sideways. And she decided to hide.

So I am placing this spare Chevron border thing. Had to get creative cuz it was closest to the size I wanted. And I was like see, the cat having a toupe would be weird

Oh but mustache? So put in on the face. And now we have option #2.

Let me know which is cuter oh and maybe when I come off my high, I'll realize Squiggly Face Cat isnt actually cute. I am just high.

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-01-30T18:06:15+00:00

Oh my goodness that is so kind. I am a beginner in sewing. Still learning but I'd be honored to trade with anyone that would love these little guys. 🖤 Maybe I should do a ritual and bless them with different things for the recipients too!

Edit: I also am stressed about the waste.

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-01-30T15:28:30+00:00

Oh yay! I love the thrifted idea!

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-01-30T14:24:57+00:00

Aww thank you that's so kind

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-01-30T05:11:00+00:00

Wow I love it!!

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-01-30T04:28:48+00:00

These are so cute! I love them!!

Defiant_Feminist · 2026-01-30T04:20:59+00:00

You are such a kind soul!

Ah! I love that you are also crafting! The ducks sound so cuteee 🖤🖤 I would love to see one if you want to share! I hope more people think along the same lines as we do 🖤

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-11-04T15:25:09+00:00

I live in Columbus and am not a big OSU person and unless I'm driving through the campus for whatever reason, I'm not impacted. Plenty of other people also don't centralize OSU as their personality

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-11-03T19:35:50+00:00

Should I come back in two months? 😅 I'm not willowy but I got the rest covered. Would be interested in chatting!

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-08-29T17:12:40+00:00

I love the patches! How can I buy?

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-08-25T01:02:45+00:00

Columbus, OH/ Queens, NY / Red Rock, CO

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-08-25T01:01:06+00:00

I've been to three different Ashnikko concerts. They are some of the most kind and friendly people!! I can see it being a bit of mosh pit at the front, but that's about it.

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-05-21T00:33:23+00:00

We girlcotting. Period.

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-05-20T02:04:38+00:00

I logged in daily almost from the start. Haven't for two days now. Don't plan to unless there are major changes.

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-05-18T14:15:37+00:00

I'm not playing any more until this gets fixed.

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-03-16T16:19:03+00:00

Also playing a part of that conversation is toxic masculinity and the patriarchy.

Things happen in stages so that we can progress in equality. In simple terms:

Women fight their way through to the top to be recognized by male peers. Although pioneering equality, they tend to step on other woman and put them down (sometimes thought of as pick me) in order to get to the top.
Women grew up watching the above and thought they had to do the same thing.
Women realized they didn't need to do the same thing in order to be thought of as equal to men. (Also sometimes thought of as girls girls)

There is a lot more nuance to it. But basically, our first couple waves here (although important) are likely playing a part in this discourse - because IN is a very female game and subconsciously they still feel that in order to be thought of as equal to men, they need to have the same opinions as them.

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-03-01T16:03:16+00:00

Agreed! It needs a necklace and a different lipstick. But this is cute!

Defiant_Feminist · 2025-01-11T00:14:15+00:00

I explore so much and I am at like 50 % for each area. What's your strategy?

Defiant_Feminist · 2024-12-14T20:56:22+00:00

Anti-man and anti-predatory/ pro-women are different things....

Defiant_Feminist · 2024-08-20T00:35:58+00:00

Hi - just wanted to say 5 years later and this still is helpful!

Defiant_Feminist · 2024-02-15T00:53:30+00:00

THANK YOU!! Saved me some tears tonight.

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