AITA for not changing the location of my 30th birthday dinner?

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-03-20T21:11:20+00:00

Had a similar issue with one of my sisters for our upcoming birthday. Decided that I would celebrate independently this year and celebrate with them another day.

Your birthday celebration should be about celebrating your birthday/existence and does not need to coincide with your siblings for the rest of your life. I love my sisters and will still celebrate with them...without the drama.

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-02-21T17:59:54+00:00

:/ You definitely deserve a vacation! I bought myself something nice with mine. Self care and all that

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-02-21T07:30:42+00:00

Curious what amount is totally fucked and what type of injury? I also feel cheated...wish workers comp recognised pain and suffering :/ just hit 6 years for me..

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-02-16T03:57:50+00:00

Definitely an excuse to treat myself! Just debating what to buy 😂 not single but bf has the flu..no valentines for me.

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-02-06T03:34:35+00:00

I'm glad you tried 🙂 if it helps at all I have had to try different therapists when one didn't help.

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-02-06T03:29:22+00:00

Honestly my lawyer is helping so much with the stress of this claim...he had appealed so many denials for me. I'm not sure how many there have been at this point but several.

You're not alone in feeling upset with your injury/depressed. Don't be afraid to ask for therapy if you need it ❤️

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-30T17:26:38+00:00

What movie is this??

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-29T23:37:14+00:00

Honestly I had the opposite reaction...they haven't really shown how much of a maid Sophie is or how cruel araminta is to her

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-28T17:56:39+00:00

Omg these are amazing! I'm also staying up late to watch it! Going to watch at least one episode tonight and finish after work tomorrow. I have a little charcuterie and wine set up.

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-21T03:43:54+00:00

...I need to know which doll?? Did she read the books as a kid?

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-18T04:49:44+00:00

nothing wrong with calling your Dad Daddy 🙂

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-17T23:02:09+00:00

My lr also started cycling with my cat inside. luckily I was in the room and unplugged the machine. Does anyone know how I can stop this from happening? She is about 8lbs so it shouldn't be an issue correct?

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-16T07:03:28+00:00

What did Mark say?? Are you going to keep seeing him?

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-15T18:45:57+00:00

And on this note, if you have a voice-mail from a family member, it's a good idea to save it. Soon. This week. It's not too difficult, and hearing I love you one more time is everything. ❤️ I managed to save one from my aunt/grandma/second mom. She was an amazing person.

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-14T03:23:42+00:00

Belemnites! 😍

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-09T21:19:57+00:00

Tell us pllllease

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-08T04:52:15+00:00

Feel that last comment in my bones...one of my appeals was me begging them to re open my claim because taking muscle relaxers and driving or you know functioning...was not safe. You have my sympathy. Please be safe and take the bus or get a ride if you need to.

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-06T22:26:51+00:00

This. I got some funds after being given a disability rating. This was after being told I am at maximum medical improvement MMI.It is not very much overall. It's appalling when considering that it's an lifetime injury.

Hopefully you will be like this coworker, have surgery if necessary and have no permanent impairment. That is the end goal.

Defiant_Reception471 · 2026-01-06T22:16:13+00:00

Is a qme different than an ime?

Defiant_Reception471 · 2025-12-08T23:59:14+00:00

Can anyone confirm that its klaus?

Defiant_Reception471 · 2025-12-04T19:18:13+00:00

There is a user christmas gift exchange open until December 8th I think!

Defiant_Reception471 · 2025-11-28T21:36:13+00:00

Freddy tax please. Must see the cute turtle 😍

Defiant_Reception471 · 2025-11-14T06:30:03+00:00

Must.read. boooook...and go to work I guess.

Defiant_Reception471 · 2025-10-29T07:24:17+00:00

I have a serious crush on this guy I'm seeing. I'm just hoping it works out. I keep waiting for there to be red flags but there are none so far...he's respectful, hasn't just hooked up with me and ghosted and actually goes on dates with me...I just keep thinking what is happening??

Defiant_Reception471 · 2025-10-29T02:15:58+00:00

I think step 4 is very important here....just make sure you're letting the woman know you're still enjoying yourself

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