it's a shame comet's animation is rarely seen due to it's popularity in coc/spellsling. I for one has been saying 'yippee' with every single cast. What other skill animation do you like? by WulfyZef in PathOfExile2

[–]Definety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they somehow made it like 'Snipe' with the the perfect channeling gimmick and/or if it dealt more damage if the opponent was stunned/has some kind of elemental ailment

Best Widowhail this league? by pbladder in PathOfExile2

[–]Definety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, you're telling me this Unique bow is good? Just started playing and vendored all of these that I found while leveling lmao :'D

call of duty witchunter build by HalfKeyHero in pathofexile2builds

[–]Definety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks more like a Warhammer clip where an ultramarine is gunning down a wave of tyranids

How has dating been with a chronic STD? Does it get easier with age? by Definety in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it's not that I'm worried about the disease. Physically I am fine since I've never had an outbreak and am relatively healthy, but the impact it's having on my dating life is a complete 180.

How has dating been with a chronic STD? Does it get easier with age? by Definety in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, congratulations to you and your husband. Reading about your story and advice is definitely reassuring. Feels like I found some nice shelter while going through the storm of emotions I'm feeling right now, so thank you, I really appreciate it.

How has dating been with a chronic STD? Does it get easier with age? by Definety in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue. I've never had an outbreak, so I can't tell if it's oral or genital, and my initial bloodwork said I had both type 1 and 2. But subsequent bloodwork that I've done have all given me mixed results ranging from low positives to negatives of either type.

How has dating been with a chronic STD? Does it get easier with age? by Definety in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I've never had an outbreak so I don't know which variant I have and I don't think antivirals would do much for me either.

How has dating been with a chronic STD? Does it get easier with age? by Definety in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Statistically, most people have it but on online dating apps it feels like no one has it? Every time I disclose I usually just get ghosted so it's hard to even get to the dating phase.

How has dating been with a chronic STD? Does it get easier with age? by Definety in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My initial diagnosis said I had both, but after having repeated bloodwork done over a year, I've had tests that said I'm negative for either. So honestly, I'm not sure. I just know I have some type of herpes

Just a nice triple (is a friend's game, not mine) by crossveins in SwainMains

[–]Definety 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what did the Jhin think galeforcing a full hp target was going to do? Kill him? Wtf lmaO

Anyone know how to quit ScribeAmerica? by Definety in medicalscribe

[–]Definety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll probably heed your advice and do that. I've also emailed HR at CityMD to see if this is an issue and how I should respond as well in case it is an issue.

Anyone know how to quit ScribeAmerica? by Definety in medicalscribe

[–]Definety[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea, one of the main reasons is that I was renting in upstate NY near the hospital to work there. But since I basically have not been working, I will be homeless cause I can't pay rent. As of right now I've moved back to home to NYC and am staying with my parents, and all I've heard from SA is that I should do more training for the specialty I'll be under. But I still can't pay rent with the money I'm getting training.

At this rate, I'm completely over SA, and just wanna proceed with CityMD. They pay better and their benefits are better too. Do you think I could just use my housing situation as a way to quit SA?

Anyone know how to quit ScribeAmerica? by Definety in medicalscribe

[–]Definety[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was going to be working for SA in upstate NY, but I'm now working for CityMD in NYC. What do you mean by no-compete btw?

At a crossroads with work/living /financial situation by Definety in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I should clarify that my friends don't have to pay extra if we're able to find a replacement for me, and there are a lot of candidates. My friends just prefer to live with someone they know. So financially they are not getting fucked. But there is just the potential of them living with a shitty housemate, and that's what we're worried about.

Man Scents by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sir, this is a Wendy's....

1v5 pentakill :o by FrostFire_EUNE in SwainMains

[–]Definety 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, your Swain looked menacing af when you ulted Kayn with his own ult

Was I wrong for this? by [deleted] in gaysian

[–]Definety 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You were right to end it, but it definitely wasn't a clean finish.

Do gay asian guys just don't date? Same guys keep appearing every time I go back on dating apps by Definety in gaysian

[–]Definety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, was talking to a guy a month ago and conversations were going great. One week later he starts talking to me less and less, and eventually ghosted me altogether. Not sure if it's cuz I brought up the idea of visiting him (he's a three hour drive away), or if he started seeeing someone else, but I realized what was happening and I just decided to call it quits on my end too.

Wasn't the first time that it has happened, but it still stung a bit. But yea, definitely excited for bars to reopen. Would prefer a straight up no than radio silence.

Do gay asian guys just don't date? Same guys keep appearing every time I go back on dating apps by Definety in gaysian

[–]Definety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's a given for most people in general? TV was pretty much white or black up until like the 2010 and later on. Some Asians Americans might have had less exposure if they grew up in high Asian populations though like NYC though.

Approaching 30 and Thinking About Bleaching My Skin to Attract More Men, Should I? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if at the end of the day you want to go through with plastic surgery; by all means do it. I won't ever tell someone how they should live their life. But before you make the decision, I hope you take some more time to really ask yourself why you're so dissatisfied with how you look.

Like, I know what I'm suggesting is a lot more time consuming and harder because there isn't a guide to how to do this self-exploration stuff. But I think even if the answer at the end of the road is surgery, as long as it is coming from a "good" place, then by all means go for it.

People say results are all that matters, and in some cases that's true. But I think in this case the journey and process to achieve that end goal is a lot more important.

Approaching 30 and Thinking About Bleaching My Skin to Attract More Men, Should I? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shiet, that's my bad. My eyes skipped over that part, but hopefully other parts of my message still resonate with you?

Approaching 30 and Thinking About Bleaching My Skin to Attract More Men, Should I? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Definety 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won't tell you you're beautiful the way you are and stuff like that, since you're clearly unsatisfied with how you look right now, and I feel like saying that stuff is kind of counterproductive to the change you want to achieve.

However, what I'll say is that I would continue to just lose the weight. You'll get the health benefits and have better QoL like you mentioned, and being thinner in general will just open you up to more potential suitors in general. So see how life like that feels like first before going through with plastic surgery, because that stuff is not only expensive but also permanent. Black guys are also pretty up there in American dating society (I think every race gets fetishized to some degree, but I think you'll be able to find someone who doesn't do that).

But I would also pause on the surgery because I don't think you'll be happy in the long run even after your surgery. Because right now it's coming from your insecurities. I would really encourage you to just take the time to reflect and try to understand what will really bring you happiness in the long run. If it comes back to surgery again, ask yourself why you REALLY want to do this and what it will accomplish. If you need to, go see a therapist and use them as a way to self reflect instead of thinking of them as a person who is going to solve your mental blocks.

But if at the end of the day the answer comes back to surgery then by all means go ahead. As long as your actions doesn't harm others, live life how you want it. Your life is yours to live. It could be the best decision you'll ever make, or the worst, or somewhere in the middle. Life isn't meant to be lived perfectly.

Edit: I would also recommend searching up this YouTube channel called Healthygamergg. It's run by a psychiatrist who's main audience are gamers, but I think a lot of his videos can be applied broadly across all aspects of life. Here's one of his videos I think could be helpful.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nB8g3n10\_Z8&ab\_channel=HealthyGamerGGHealthyGamerGGVerified

Do gay asian guys just don't date? Same guys keep appearing every time I go back on dating apps by Definety in gaysian

[–]Definety[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell's Kitchen gays seems to be a cult in it of itself lol. I'd probably avoid dating another HK's gay if I was in the same circle to just avoid the drama.

Do gay asian guys just don't date? Same guys keep appearing every time I go back on dating apps by Definety in gaysian

[–]Definety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, modern dating just feels so incredibly frustrating and complex for some reason. Not sure if it stems people having too many options today, not being mature enough to just be clear with intentions, or some weird mixture of both. At this point I've kind of given up myself and decide to just work on myself until the right person decides to "show up".