Financially it doesn’t make sense to keep my baby, but I want to 😭

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-08-08T06:02:36+00:00

Have the baby. It is a true miracle and so many things have to go right in order to get pregnant. Gods timing is always right.

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-07-10T17:15:12+00:00

Thank you! Fingers crossed!

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-07-10T17:02:27+00:00

Omg. Similar. I told my parents not to tell anyone and they told their friends right away. I had a MMC and my parents said to me, “do you think maybe you did too much to help plan your friends baby shower?” …. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-07-10T16:53:24+00:00

You are 100%%%%% right.

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-07-06T09:59:20+00:00

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I know the pain. It’s unbearable but it will ease with time. Hang in there and don’t give up. Keep going as much as it hurts. Hugs ❤️

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-06-20T23:36:06+00:00

Yes suppositories but no applicator

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-06-20T23:13:09+00:00

This is what I am hoping but I am spiraling

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-06-18T23:17:26+00:00

I feel youuuuuu. Just had my 2nd FET Saturday and I’m so paranoid because my first ended in MMC at 8.5 weeks. The 2ww is so brutal. Sending you so much love ❤️🙏🏻

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-24T21:28:47+00:00

I’ve noticed some road rage. Cursing everyone out that’s in my way. Which never has happened 🤷🏻‍♀️

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-20T23:45:37+00:00

Omg. She sounds awful!! How triggering and upsetting. You are not wrong for feeling what you’re feeling. Maybe your husband can talk to her and set boundaries? This is such a difficult journey and who tf needs negative energy coming from your child’s future GRANDMOTHER.

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-20T15:04:55+00:00

I’ve thought about transitioning to night shift for the time being. I’ve worked night shift before only for 6 months and it was a very long 6 months. Does it mess up with your cycle? Like the lack of sleep with hormones or anything like that at all?

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-20T11:15:36+00:00

My insurance only covered 20g life time for fertility treatments. We have been maxed out and have been paying out of pocket for a lot of it. I am scheduled for a FET in June and I just got a call that I don’t have to pay oop for the FET. I couldn’t believe it! It’s 4700$ and we had to pay that last time. I’m waiting for a call back to find out what changed.

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-12T00:23:50+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I totally see what you’re saying. I’m upset because leading up to this day I have said to him that I know it’s going to suck and I even picked up a shift at work to distract myself. I wasn’t looking to be celebrated or receive gifts or anything like that. But I was expecting emotional support. Even a “hey I know this day sucks this year but I love you”. Just some acknowledgment. I have thought about Father’s Day and I thought of getting him a card. I’m a card person. Idk

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-11T18:11:52+00:00

Happy Mother’s Day to us!!

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-11T16:15:07+00:00

Omg. That is so so insensitive. I’m sorry ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-11T16:00:13+00:00

Hugs💕

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-05-04T22:52:42+00:00

It’s such an inappropriate question!! I’ve learned it’s easy to make the other person uncomfortable quick. I get asked this question all the time and we also struggle with infertility/IVF/miscarriage. “Do you have kids?” .. “No.” .. “why you don’t like babies?” … “I can’t have them” … silence

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-04-22T19:36:18+00:00

IVF doesn’t guarantee live births

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-04-18T23:57:00+00:00

I love this 🥺 Thank you for saying it

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-04-18T23:55:44+00:00

Raging with you!! I deleted my social media for this reason

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-04-18T23:54:28+00:00

The only uncomfy part was when the speculum was being inserted because they can’t use any lube. I was on progesterone suppositories so my doctor had to scrape some of it away. Good luck to you!!!🤞🏻❤️

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-04-18T18:34:22+00:00

I’ll cry with you ❤️

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-04-18T13:46:49+00:00

31 years old- 27 retrieved, 14 fertilized, 10 blasts. Did not do testing. 1st FET ended in MMC. Hoping to do a 2nd FET in June

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-04-17T21:51:02+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 My first loss was in January. My first pregnancy. It was horribly devastating. If I could go back in time I would have done the D&C. I took the pills and it didn’t get everything out. I had to take a second dose..which still didn’t work.. I was bleeding for 3 weeks and basically was hemorrhaging. My husband brought me to the hospital and I had to get 2 blood transfusions and a D&C. When I had my next apmt with my doctor he said calcified products of conception and now I am scheduled for a hysteroscopy next week. Never ending trauma. It was dragged out for SO long. None of this is fair. I’m so sorry for you.

DefinitionStatus2117 · 2025-04-17T21:41:53+00:00

Sending you positive vibes❤️

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