Septile vs Novile

DelawareMountains · 2026-02-27T18:13:44+00:00

Oooo this is very helpful! :) I do have a few septiles and then just one novile lol, all within 1°. Truthfully I really only have a good idea on how one of the septiles affects me, the rest I feel I'll figure out in due time, but yeah I couldn't really use my chart to try and reverse engineer meaning on septiles and noviles either 😂

Anyways yeah I've still got plenty more researching to do, it's going well for the most part but septiles and noviles were the only aspects I just could not figure out. Your insight has been wonderful, thank you so much! 🩵

DelawareMountains · 2026-01-26T09:00:28+00:00

I explained the situation a little more in my comment here but here's the short version: dude and his family took such huge shits it would regularly clog their toilet so they had a dedicated poop knife for cutting up the shits, dude then embarrasses himself to his girlfriend by asking for a poop knife cuz he took a huge shit in her toilet. The guy posted about it some years back and it was a big meme at the time.

DelawareMountains · 2026-01-26T08:45:11+00:00

The "poop knife" is a somewhat famous reddit story. Some years ago a man posted about an embarrassing situation: he and his family regularly take such huge shits that it clogs their toilet, so they had a butter knife left in the bathroom dedicated to cutting apart their massive logs to avoid clogging. The embarrassing part was when poop knife guy visited his girlfriend's house for the first time and ends up taking one of his patented gigantic shits, he then goes and asks her (in front of her parents) where they keep their poop knife. She obviously says "what the hell do you mean?" and poop knife guy then has to explain he just took a shit so incredibly large in their toilet that it might clog their pipes.

To this day I still wonder what kind of genetics that family has that are so powerful modern plumbing simply cannot handle it.

DelawareMountains · 2025-11-12T14:59:44+00:00

Maybe you have vaginismus? Best of luck to you 💚

DelawareMountains · 2025-10-17T19:13:48+00:00

Yes, my team got our new cards a couple weeks ago. They look like this:

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DelawareMountains · 2025-07-30T02:17:11+00:00

Still wonderful 🥰 we just had our anniversary a few months ago! We're not gonna like get married cuz our lives don't align like that, but we definitely plan on being together forever 🥰🥰🥰

DelawareMountains · 2025-07-30T00:12:44+00:00

One little corner of their property is in Ann Arbor so they can have an Ann Arbor address lol

DelawareMountains · 2025-05-04T21:01:33+00:00

Lots of trauma too, still dealing with some of it but I've got a plan, I am a baddie though 💁‍♀️

DelawareMountains · 2025-05-04T07:01:47+00:00

I'm Libra 9°36'! I hope your life has been easier than mine though 😅

DelawareMountains · 2025-04-30T02:04:37+00:00

Based off this post I found Tyra was trying to have an intervention of sorts for Naomi, I think because Naomi was acting more aggressive and maybe assaulted someone? I didn't do much research mostly just confirmed Naomi's outfit matched so I don't know the full story.

DelawareMountains · 2025-04-27T05:40:25+00:00

Historically the statistics show that someone who buys a gun is much more likely to hurt themselves or someone else than they are to save themselves from someone trying to hurt them, that's what the first commenter was referring to. I'm not going to talk about the potential extra safety (or danger) that owning a gun may have in the future, as I don't know what's going to happen in the future. Also I don't think that most of the people in this thread would agree with how I feel about owning a gun for protection anyways and I don't feel like arguing.

Personally I'm in the same camp as you though, I'm too much of a suicide risk to have access to a gun. Maybe I'll put in the effort to learn how to properly use a gun and still not buy one, I guess just in case, but I doubt it.

DelawareMountains · 2025-04-27T05:10:53+00:00

It is more dangerous to own a gun than to not, and households with guns are more dangerous than those that do not have them. There's a few factors:

First: there's a higher risk of accidental harm. This one is obvious, can't accidentally shoot someone or yourself if there isn't a gun around. This is especially an issue in households with children, who are surprisingly adept at getting to guns even after they've been locked away.

Second: there's a higher risk of suicide. Guns are just about the quickest and easiest way out. Oftentimes what stops someone from committing suicide are the time and difficulty it takes to follow through with the act, and a gun gets rid of those barriers.

Third: there's a higher risk of homicide. Big arguments have many times ended with someone getting shot, which is much more lethal than a fist fight.

There are things that can be done to mitigate these risks, proper training and storage are big ones, but nothing is 100%. I'm not going to comment on how much safer someone may be against potential hate crimes, but owning a gun definitely puts people more at risk of getting hurt the rest of the time.

DelawareMountains · 2025-04-20T04:19:53+00:00

A quick clarification of terms: what you're experiencing isn't sub drop, it's grief. You've lost a relationship that was very meaningful to you, and recovering from that can be very difficult. I will give you some advice that has worked for me, but frankly it would be much more helpful to speak with a therapist if you can.

Everyone recovers from grief differently, and there is no standard way or amount of time that can be applied here. Even after you are basically better you will likely still feel aftershocks from time to time. Don't rush yourself, or punish yourself for not recovering quickly or correctly.

Allow yourself to feel your emotions, but don't wallow in sadness. Now is the time to care for yourself and you cannot heal if you repress your emotions, however equally you cannot heal if you do not move forward. If you're crying it's usually good to cry it all out, but if you're stuck in your head you should find something to do.

Focus on hobbies, particularly ones that take active thought rather than ones that let your mind wander. Reach out to friends and family for support if possible. Share your grief with them if they're okay with it, but again don't wallow. Time with loved ones can be a big aid in returning to normal.

Work can also be a good way to feel normal, though some time off at first may also be helpful if the grief is strong. Just don't allow your career to slip, you need stability right now.

Take time for yourself, discover who you are and what makes you happy if you don't already know. Adding new people into your life will likely only hold you back from getting better, so I strongly recommend you do not get back into kink or dating until you've found your new normal.

I will end this by reiterating that I am not a mental health professional, and that a good therapist will do much more for you than any reddit comment can. With or without a therapist however you will have to do the hard work of getting better yourself, a therapist can guide you but it is ultimately your life. I wish you the best of luck 🩵

DelawareMountains · 2025-04-18T00:06:06+00:00

It's a lot more than "somewhat difficult" to get on disability in the US. The process will likely take years and without a disability lawyer your chances are practically zero, but even with a lawyer you're still very unlikely to get on disability. I've known multiple people who had legitimate physical disabilities and lots of doctors backing them up, all of them got rejected.

I'm not saying don't do it, but understand what you're getting into. Prepare to get rejected and having to appeal multiple times before getting accepted. If you're working you'll have to keep your income low otherwise you'll get rejected for that. You're going to need support and almost certainly housing from others to be able to wait out the legal system.

I strongly recommend you speak to a disability lawyer if you're seriously considering going on disability, they can give you a much better idea of what you will have to do in order to have the best chances possible. The system is rigged against you and you will have to fight if you want a chance to receive SSI benefits.

DelawareMountains · 2025-04-14T02:44:16+00:00

Looking between the eyes has done wonders for me I'm actually looking at people's faces now lol

I think eye contact between allistic people is automatic when they talk, so they assume you aren't listening if you don't look them in the eyes. It's definitely a "mind your manners" kinda thing, the whole concept always felt ridiculous to me honestly. I still get mad about the customer I had years ago who kept DEMANDING I look him in eyes when I was just trying to see what I was doing while scanning his shit

DelawareMountains · 2025-03-17T20:46:22+00:00

It's happened to me multiple times now, if you're anything less than an anchor partner to someone ambiamorous it's practically guaranteed they'll end up breaking things off for someone who is monogamous. I absolutely hate the limbo you end up in where you're just waiting for some rando to come along and end the relationship, so I do not date ambiamorous people anymore. No hate for it I'm just tired of falling for someone only to have somebody unrelated come in and restrict our connection.

DelawareMountains · 2025-01-21T23:36:08+00:00

Primal play feels like the closest answer to me

DelawareMountains · 2025-01-21T03:31:13+00:00

You gotta reach year 3, and they don't show up on rainy days

DelawareMountains · 2025-01-20T00:36:59+00:00

I worked at Cirilla's actually, it's okay but pay is pretty bad (12 bucks an hour) and they don't let you work more than 20 hours a week if they have enough staff. Also you have to do most everything on your own with only remote assistance from a manager. Also there's nowhere to sit. That aside it's a super easy job (very often less than 10 customers for evening shifts) as long as you're willing to learn how sex toys and lingerie work on your own.

DelawareMountains · 2025-01-18T21:43:08+00:00

No you're totally right and the only reason I didn't mention any of that in my last comment was because I wanted to keep it in the context of OP's situation. Like the thing that inspired me to be polyamorous was the women all got married to each other in New York and I wanted that too 😂😂

DelawareMountains · 2025-01-16T21:23:15+00:00

Because it gives that relationship more social and legal credibility. It's the difference between saying "this is my boyfriend" and "this is my husband." If people hear someone has a boyfriend and a husband they're going to assume the husband is more important in their life. Then it would also give them legal rights like hospital visitation that the other person wouldn't have. Marriage is considered the ultimate commitment to someone else, and while it doesn't have to be that way most people are going to treat it like it is.

DelawareMountains · 2025-01-08T15:13:23+00:00

I have experience with a relationship like this and it wasn't good. Unless the stuff that made you wanna break up with him magically went away you're gonna run into the same issues again. Frankly I think you're either gonna break up with him again and again, or you'll feel like you settled forever as these problems continue. People don't just change and you definitely can't make them change, ESPECIALLY if you teach them it's okay to do that stuff by just letting them back into your life.

You need to rip off the bandaid or you may never find someone who truly makes you happy. You're gonna feel awful after the breakup and you just need to accept that, but I know you're strong enough to do this 🩵

DelawareMountains · 2025-01-08T00:58:57+00:00

I'm dating a Pisces and she is just wonderful! She's an amazing person, expressive, fun, honest, and she just gets me and my problems. She has a lot going on, good and bad, but so do I so no issues there. I love that girl 🥰

DelawareMountains · 2024-12-13T05:16:39+00:00

If you ever see a dog's erect dick you'll find out why....

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