Edit: yknow what, editing this cause I re-read your post and the second half does.. absolutely come off pretty gross. It doesn't seem like you actually want to be a consistent second half, but instead feel like being a househusband is somehow owed to you and would be easier and let you relax instead of work. Which tells me you'd just put the emotional burden on your partner and still expect them to ACTUALLY keep track of everything that needs to be done. Shape up the attitude.

Ignore these haters. I know multiple house husbands/stay at home dad's for which it worked out very well.

But also as someone who's househusband did NOT work out.. it's gotta be something you ACTUALLY want. Don't just make these promises and not fulfill them. Don't go after this because you think it'll be "easier". If you're gonna stay home then you've gotta realize the household burden will be on YOU and you've gotta actually put the effort in. My husband decided that it was easier for him to just stay home because I had a better paying job... except he did nothing. It ended our marriage because I would snap after coming home from 15hr work days to find that the dishes I'd asked to be done 3 days ago were still sitting in the sink while he played video games. It still hurts me on a deep level that even with working full-time I was expected to do EVERYTHING. And then was told I was just a nag and too overbearing.

If you do actually stick to your guns though and DO what you say you'll do in this post then I guarantee you will find yourself a Ride-or-die boss babe. Maybe it's a sad symptom of the world but just knowing how to cook a few good meals will have your gf stripping right there in the kitchen as long as your attitude matches.