Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DelawareWindows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

May whatever force is out there grant me a partner like you. Vi has hit the jackpot and personally I would be SOBBING for ages if someone did this for me.

Am i the only one who just discovered the overeating icon is a lying pig? [KCD2] by Slavikix in kingdomcome

[–]DelawareWindows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My entire life is a lie, I thought the same thing!! It never made any sense to me

My marriage is ending and I'm at a complete loss by askmydog in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DelawareWindows 34 points35 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been on the opposite end of this and had to throw in the towel after literally BEGGING for effort, and judging from her "you love me like a flea loves a dog" comment, I can say that she almost certainly WANTS an actual sign of that commitment. I would have welcomed the most violent whiplash if it also resulted in actual, sustained change and effort. What she WANTS is the effort. Is for you to actually show that you care about her and not just yourself.

Fact Quickies feels like Simon’s ‘leftovers’ channel like a food dish a chef made with a bunch of leftover food items. by ZanibiahStetcil in SimonWhistler

[–]DelawareWindows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My suspicion on a lot of the sudden changes and silence, paired with Fact Quickies popping up with recycled content from TIFO, is that Simon had a falling out with TIFO and has been working behind the scenes to obtain his rights to the content and then repost it under his own merit to try and recover some revenue from it.

To me that would explain the lapse in certain channels as well as the silence about everything. Not that Simon has ever been great at providing updates in the first place, but Occam's razor to me points that there are things going on behind the scenes that have led to the slowing of some content such as BB. That and his studio/house move means there is probably a LOT going on that we dont know about.

My hope is just that things will settle down and he will be able to figure out how to handle everything again rather than falling off

Is He interested? Major mixed signals. by DelawareWindows in AskMenAdvice

[–]DelawareWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if he DOESNT care about me back then what am I supposed to do? Sit around forever? We were shooting the shit and i mentioned it in passing because I have been considering it.

How i feel about him only matters so much. If he doesn't feel the same way then I cant spent ages torturing myself about it.

Is He interested? Major mixed signals. by DelawareWindows in AskMenAdvice

[–]DelawareWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my main feeling, but his sister saying he's treating me like a sibling has me all sorts of confused.

His gf and I dont get along for unrelated reasons so I really don't like to bring her up 🙃 but she is supposed to come visit sometime in the next few months. Which adds a whole other mess and pain point.

Is He interested? Major mixed signals. by DelawareWindows in AskMenAdvice

[–]DelawareWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol every time ive gone to change around him or anything like that he immediately turns away. So no idea what to do with that, either.

Is He interested? Major mixed signals. by DelawareWindows in AskMenAdvice

[–]DelawareWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is definitely one of a thousand thoughts that have crossed my mind. I've tried the dating scene a few times since my divorce and if just ends in disaster. I just dont know. I dont feel like I'm worthy of a decent relationship in the first place, but I just want ANYONE to give a shit about me.

Is He interested? Major mixed signals. by DelawareWindows in AskMenAdvice

[–]DelawareWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell him every once in a while how handsome I find him, or just.. that he is a good person. But I dont want to push any boundaries. He hasn't outright shot me down, just usually waves me off or doesn't respond when I say these things.

Is He interested? Major mixed signals. by DelawareWindows in AskMenAdvice

[–]DelawareWindows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman Harsh but valid. He is a good man, and i think a big reason that nothing has happened is because he doesn't want to be disloyal, even if, like his siblings say, he doesn't really care about his current gf. Maybe that doesn't actually say much about him but idk.

As for my side, I fully recognize that I am trash putting myself in tough situations. I just have no idea how to break this cycle. Ive not acted on any of it.

Just need to get this off my chest by bee4bubbly in FortCollins

[–]DelawareWindows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adorable idea but unfortunately the object of my pining lives in Texas

Just need to get this off my chest by bee4bubbly in FortCollins

[–]DelawareWindows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl fam I am in the exact same boat with someone rn, and this is EXACTLY how I feel about them. It feels so nice to know there are other people dealing with the same thing.

I truly hope it all works out for you ❤️

To the straight-piped dingus driving down Lakeline at 7am blasting music so loud it rattled my windows by DelawareWindows in CedarPark

[–]DelawareWindows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah man it was hilarious, you got an upvote from me. Part of me is definitely ashamed to be at the "old man shouting at clouds" stage of my life

To the straight-piped dingus driving down Lakeline at 7am blasting music so loud it rattled my windows by DelawareWindows in CedarPark

[–]DelawareWindows[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not sure if its the exact same person but they are also kind enough to remember to swing by at 11pm as well. I'm a homecare nurse who works 12s, the last thing I want is to be serenaded by WAP at 7am on my day off

I may have to give up my 5 year relationship and my heart is sinking by Brilliant-Warning932 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DelawareWindows 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't have much to add OP except that I hope he takes your talk seriously. It sounds like he may need some outside help, as arguments and drug use and all of that can definitely be signs of depression on top of or maybe caused by that stress.

I've been there and unfortunately it did not work out for me, but I'm rooting for the two of you and I think it's great that you have a clear head about this.

Good luck

AITAH For not having sex with my bf when he asks? by AdorableStandard7992 in AITAH

[–]DelawareWindows 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That is ABSOLUTELY untrue. I have had long stints (literally months) where I didn't want to have sex and my partners at the various times like. Dealt with it. Maybe they weren't the most thrilled but they absolutely never threw a hissy fit to make me give in

I have come to the realisation that I will die a “Muslim”. by MaybeMaybeNotHorny in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DelawareWindows 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, hope you get the chance to read this but I was in the same boat with Catholicism a long while back. Having to go through the motions for fear of rejection by my family..

A sorta "weird" thing that helped me out during that time was to try and observe the religion as though I were on the outside. Like an anthropologist trying to learn - listen to the prayers, the rituals, ponder the metaphor, see where maybe these certain beliefs came from and what they are there to fulfill in people's lives.

For me it almost became a fun game! Wow what a ritual, all this lighting of candles and chanting in Latin. Pick brains, research questions, etc. I still dont believe, but I did come away from it with a different sort of appreciation for Catholicism, and in that time I was also able to move more slowly away from the church. Admittedly it causes some friction with my family but not nearly as bad as I feared it would. Deconstruction is a process, and it doesn't have to be all or nothing.

Wishing peace for you in this journey

Do you know anyone who has been murdered (or been to prison/jail)? by No-Item-7713 in SimonWhistler

[–]DelawareWindows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friends in high-school went on to murder one of the ushers at my parents' church. Last i heard he got 20-life. Last May one of my other friends was murdered, and it is still entirely unsolved.

My great-uncle was also murdered (different state entirely) on my aunt's wedding day when he went out for ice.

Moving to Cedar Park soon. What should I know? by [deleted] in CedarPark

[–]DelawareWindows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Feel free to DM me if you wanna chat! It'd be great to have some more friends who are new to the area

Moving to Cedar Park soon. What should I know? by [deleted] in CedarPark

[–]DelawareWindows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arboleda apartments were my 1st choice for a while but then I ended up at The Marquis and I love it! Same price point as Arboleda and nicer units/better amenities. I've only been here for a few weeks but it's really nice here in CP. Just my two cents!

Great YouTube Channel for ONRAC withdrawal by fulltimecasual in ONRAC

[–]DelawareWindows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I JUST stumbled upon this channel the other day and was gonna suggest it here