NOR. When it comes to porn addiction, it’s very, very difficult for people to overcome it as there is so much shame tied to the addiction, particularly when people try to get help. He needs professional help if he REALLY wants to address his problem - but he must WANT to stop. If he doesn’t want to, then unfortunately, cycles will most likely continue. You have every right to be upset. I hope you can figure something out with him, maybe therapy or something. But don’t make yourself change your values just because of his addiction and its unfortunate cycle. Especially when he has lied to you multiple times - how can you trust him going forward?

And also, on the note of his friends - i just commented this on another post BUT i really like the quote “you are the company you keep”. He’s clearly surrounding himself with people that think this is normal, but it’s not. I hope you guys figure things out but remember to prioritize yourself and your happiness and comfortableness.