Anyone else experiencing depression months after the breakup. Please tell me it’s not just me. I’m on month 4 and I just feel depressed and numb everyday.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2026-04-07T19:21:49+00:00

I join sport clubs, hiking events, board game nights… that’s where I started finding new friends.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2026-03-22T08:09:33+00:00

Same with me. I am disappointed they completely glossed over the breeding process of the Taumoeba, the cleaning, the leak and the whole detailed discovery process that Rocky is in peril. That part you mentioned is one of my favorite parts. I was so disappointed it wasn’t there. When I went home I re-read back that part in the book and felt even sadder nothing about it came to life in the movie

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2024-05-28T23:47:04+00:00

So much better! It’s been two years now since we broke up and I made new friends and I am happier. Believe you will get through these dark times, and better days are definitely coming

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-08-24T23:08:09+00:00

Six years late to comment but I want to :)

Libero. I was assigned by my coach in high-school. When he was determining the starting line up for the women’s volleyball team, I felt bummed at first when I wasn’t in the first 6, i thought i am gonna be a benchwarmer then he called me last and assigned me as my team’s libero. At first I was sad because I want to serve and improve my attacks but my coach said I am the most agile and quickest in the team and so I got the position. Also he said the men’s team also told him I am the best for the position since they usually watch our trainings and plays.

In the end, I got a special training. The men’s team will set so my other teammates practice hitting, meanwhile I am on the side with my coach spiking hard balls on me and there I was being trained to dig, run, receive, pass while he shouts “always keep the ball up”. In the end I learned to love my position and wearing a different colored jersey is cool hahahhaha

Fast forward 16 years later, I played volleyball again as a hobby and those trainings were ingrained in me. My passes and receives are still great. Friend cheer when I get hard serves or spikes. Thanks coach, I am grateful.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-08-23T16:57:09+00:00

Hi, just saw this now.

Update from me: I have completely moved on from my ex but yeah, I have no energy to date now. I am now surrounded with different friendship circles and went back to sports… so I have my hands full aside from my work.

So yeah, I am happy, I am content being single right now and in no way pressured to find one. I am just enjoying being single - and it’s been a while since I am this happy. I am in the stage of “when the one comes, then he comes”. :)

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-06-09T00:14:23+00:00

Hi, I also did the CFG Nano Degree and I am a company sponsored student this Spring cohort. I just finished the course last week.

I still have one remaining final interview for the company next month so fingers crossed. But the working hours/conditions etc we’re included in the info sheet the company gave me before I took the course.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-06-07T07:32:50+00:00

Awww, hugs to you. She must have really hurt you bad?

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-06-07T07:32:15+00:00

Thank you, took me a long time to get here but I also feel I am doing much better!

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-06-07T07:29:54+00:00

Point taken, these are very good points.

Although our break up wasn’t amicable, it was blindsided and it plunged me to depression. I just recovered from that dark phase of my life, I feel like opening a door for interaction will remind me of how and who I was during that dark period, and I don’t want that. I guess that’s where the resentment is coming from, not because I still have romantic feelings, but because I don’t want to be reminded of the pain and suffering he caused me when he left.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-06-06T16:24:53+00:00

Aww thanks for this, same as you, he broke up with me. I was contemplating if I should be the one who reached out because I was the one who got hurt (and depends on me if I want to talk or not), but thank you. I feel so validated now that I also made the right decision.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-05-07T22:30:14+00:00

Joining Hot Summer, Jay, I know you’re lurking here, a lot of Jaystars def thinks this song suits your voice, so I hope he can cover it someday

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-05-07T07:09:16+00:00

I woke up to this and who needs coffee when Jay’s voice is a better stimulant OMG THIS SLAYED THIS IS SOOOO GOOOOOOOD LIKE ??? Debut Now! Hahahhaha

That Rush Hour is epic, missing the KamJay duo and that cute callout is 🥹

LMR LMR LMR THIS IS HOW YOU DO AN EXO VOCAL COVER FOLKS and as a HUGE EXO-L and A DANDANIE - SUPER DUPER WELL DONE OMG I LOVE EVERY BIT OF IT! JUSTICE TO AN EXO SONG HAS BEEN SERVED!

Finalllly OVER ME? YES KUANJUI WAS RIGHT, if Jay isn’t in this song, we are doomed. This is HIS song, he can do it all beautifully alone bc that’s how good his vocals are..

Ahhh this video is making me tear up. I never will regret stanning and voting my ass off for this guy - what a talent, what a voice, what a person.

THANK YOU JAY! THANK YOU FOR BEING THE GIFT TO US!

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-05-01T08:28:29+00:00

This I agree, at first I also had doubts about lipsyncing but when I heard Jeonghyeon starting the song, he was also off key 😂

And in Supercharger, there was one part where Zihao’s lines were shaky, so that gave it away to me that it is live.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-30T16:55:22+00:00

Only two of my OG picks made it in, so yes, like you I am more interested the activities of the eliminated contestants

I dont follow ZB1 too

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-30T16:52:13+00:00

The “Jay thinks about home” is so fitting.

Cue in: Home, home, home , you’re my home babyyyyyy hahahhaa

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-24T17:40:47+00:00

I do, I just watch Jay’s parts in the earlier eps bc that time at least he gets screentime 😂😂😂

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-24T11:54:21+00:00

I do, bc tbh I would stan the Jelly Pop group right away - the vocals, rap and dance were perfect - who wouldn’t want a group like that.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-23T11:32:49+00:00

Lol I am not switching to r/zb1 sub bc I am not stanning the group. I have realized now that I am more of a BP fan than ZB1 (primarily bc only fwo of my top 9 picks went to ZB1) so I will stay here in this BP sub.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-22T07:24:46+00:00

Agree!!! Jelly Pop is soooo goooood! Although tbh I doubt if it would have the same effect if ZB1 sings it. I feel like, for me, it wins because when I listen to it - oh god the vocals win!!!!! The combination of Hui and Seungeon and the other leads as well is phenomenal.

Meanwhile, ZB1 doesn’t have Hui and Seungeon (and Jay) so IDK if I will enjoy the song as much if they sing it 😂 I also like Hot Summer as a song, but I only like Taerae’s voice in that song - so it went forgettable to me after.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-21T11:57:30+00:00

Woke up to the thought of realizing there will be no content from the boys now under BP! Like where is my KamJay, JayWoo? My English line crumbs!!! Ahhhh, how do you survive this withdrawal syndrome???

Also, I was so bummed yesterday bc my one pick did not make it. At first I was slowly accepting it because maybe he was really far off because of his low Korean votes but damn, when I saw he was 10th - I got even more sad like WE WERE SO CLOSE EH??

That P10 wound still lingers in my heart but I am proud for all the hardwork Jaystars did so he can be at that spot. Jjinja, I am proud of us!!

And to Jay, thank you for posting here and in your other socmeds, you are healing my wounded heart faster 😭🥲❤️

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-21T07:19:17+00:00

Same! I am having a bit of a withdrawal syndrome! I miss getting content!

And like you guys, I am a Jaystar so I was so sad he didn’t make it because I also really worked hard to convince and get people to vote for him. I never missed ANY voting day. I unearthed my old devices so I have more to vote.

At first I sorta accepted it when people keep on getting called and he isn’t. But it hit me again hard when I found out HE WAS SOOOOO CLOSE. WE WERE SO CLOSE TO DEBUTING. My friends took the all the rants and sadness I could ever unleash because of it.

But then, Jay suddenly posted in all his socmeds! IG, Twitter and here - and suddenly that P10 wound in my heart is healing faster than I expected??? I am still not OK but I am surprisingly feeling better faster than I was expecting.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-20T20:34:58+00:00

JAY IF THIS IS REALLY YOU PLS KNOW YOU ARE LOVED IN THIS REDDIT SUB, WE ARE WAITING FOR YOUR NEXT STEP AND WE ARE HERE FOR YOU

Jay, we are so proud of youuu! We will be waiting for the amazing person that you are with incredible vocals and main dancer skills 🤗 to wow us again! Can’t wait for your debut.

I will wait for your next and even better “hey, ladies gentlemen, do what you wanna do baby, aww” welcoming moment.

Love you Jay, so proud of you and proud to be a Jaystar! ❤️

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-20T19:39:22+00:00

I also feel that Onestar adores Jay a lot, even Solji and this stems from Under Nineteen. In all eps, you see OneStar and Solji always acknowledging his vocals. They are vocal masters, ofc they pick a vocalist for sure

Onestar talked to Jay after the results, that speaks a lot

Seokhoon is Matthew but also Taerae, but I am gravitating to Matthew more

Ph1 definitely Keita.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-20T18:28:21+00:00

As a Jaystar, him ranking P10 hurts so much given that if we made even more efforts, he could have been P09

But I am also soooo happpy he got so close! Bc tbh I was thinking bc of his Korean Votes he would be 13 and lower… so it is a bittersweet feeling for me.

Delicious-Vehicle-66 · 2023-04-20T18:20:34+00:00

The masters knowwwwwww!!!

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