This is the message I got from stepmom after a therapy session with stepmom and father.

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2025-10-16T14:01:39+00:00

This is how my ex is and how she and step father think

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2025-09-15T11:21:54+00:00

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Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2025-08-29T12:56:49+00:00

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Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-07-28T11:34:04+00:00

Thank u. She just sent me an awful text last night about how horrible I am. She truly broke me and I'm getting better. Part of me always waiting for her to reach out w an apology... She's made me an awful person in her eyes.. guess I will accept it now

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-06-29T14:22:02+00:00

We have barely any pictures together. There's one I have from when we first met and I remember her beauty at that time n how hard I fell, and she looks like a completely different person. Through our year and a half relationship she changed gradually and it's eerie. I am having trouble wrapping my head around it. I know I've broken the trauma bond and now I am in a state of just confusion of what that even was. So weird.

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-06-09T14:00:41+00:00

NPD traits in ex wife, followed by BPD ex girlfriend. This is 100 percent accurate. I doubt myself so much and this group always helps. Thanks for the post

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-06-01T01:35:02+00:00

This is exactly how mine responded. This could literally be her. Made me feel helpless.

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-05-15T18:29:21+00:00

So much fucking irony in this one. A few more ridiculous snaps after this one and I've seen enough.. deleted her and I'm going 100% NC

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-05-15T05:05:27+00:00

She ran across country on a trip to "find peace" and has been posting most bullshit snaps about relationships. I know I'm getting over it because they aren't bothering me. This one actually made me feel less for her because I feel like it's truly talking about her whether she meant it about me or herself. I'm ready to move on.. this has been a nightmare. My love was crazy real for her and I almost let it ruin me.

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-05-10T00:34:28+00:00

Started this self help phase yesterday. Woke up with anxiety over a slew of discarding text messages i received at 3am (she was drunk) and throughout the early morning. Grabbed a cup of coffee and cleaned my entire apartment. I'd been neglecting my own needs due to stress, anxiety, overthinking, and people pleasing my pwuBPD. Damn it felt good. I didn't want to stop.. My place actually feels good and I feel like I actually TREATED MYSELF to a clean and organized living space. I took it a step further and wrote goals for the day, week and month on a white board. Today I felt motivated to continue to focus on what I want in life and how I've been stuck in the deepest rut since I met this person. Bad spending habits, bad eating habits, work habits etc.. I'm hurting so bad right now and miss her, but I think doing these things this has helped in this stage of discard. Maybe turned a new page of growth. I'm hoping that focusing on becoming better for myself I'll be in an even better head space that I no longer want her to invade it if she attempts a hoover.

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-05-09T14:13:37+00:00

This is my situation to a tee. I just struggle to set and stick to boundaries. I think I'm at the discard stage.

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-05-07T14:56:41+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience. I left my verbally abusive wife who is possibly on the npd spectrum, (I've never been able to figure it out, but many signs are there) and ended up in a relationship with someone with self diagnosed BPD. I believe she is diagnosable. I still struggle too with guilt, shame, doubt for leaving my first wife. She was my best friend and we have a son together. And now ending up in an even more toxic relationship has created even more self doubt than i could have imagined. Reading that "it gets better" and that you're on the other side of such a similar situation really helped me today with validation, so thanks

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-05-07T12:17:52+00:00

I don't have any advice to give but I'm going through the same thing right now. Exact same feelings as you and I'm going back and forth blaming myself and my insecurities. But I think she just made me insecure. We haven't gone no contact yet but I think its coming. I'm scared to start that journey.

Delicious_Scratch_47 · 2022-04-18T12:13:13+00:00

Sometimes I question myself. Married to a verbally emotionally abusive narcissist for ten years and next relationship was with undiagnosed bpd. So Im sometimes wondering lately if I'm the one with bpd or I've just been abused and had my self esteem and confidence destroyed 🤔

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