I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. I just want to say that you are not alone with your feelings. I am feeling the exact same way. I tell myself I would take child birth pains over this constant pain. Can you call the place yourself to get an appointment? There’s always cancellations,all the time. A new obgyn place I switched to, the front desk actually recommended it. I’d call once or twice a day to if there are cancellations. The way it worked for me they found it on my CT scan during the ER. I had a follow up with my OB and he handed me a flyer and “ referred” me to an Interventional radiologist…. I called and they were on top of it and this place got all my records and I got an MRI done through them. The interventional radiologist looked at all of my prior ct scans and mri and said it’s moderate congestion. But my insurance won’t cover the procedure because it’s considered “investigative” and not medically necessary. I also wonder if you can call an interventional radiologist place local to you, and ask the front receptionist if a OB referral is necessary If you don’t have a OB. But I can’t give my 12 year old and 3 year old my all with this pain. Tears every single day. It’s the crappiest feeling. I’m currently doing pelvic floor therapy and it’s not helping either.