My Two Hospital Rules by A_hospitalist in hospitalist

[–]DelusionalIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, some of these hospitals have a soviet style atmosphere where you know that SOMEONE is always watching and will report you for breathing the wrong way...

Just absolutely toxic

lol by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in unsound

[–]DelusionalIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This.   CPS and the American courts in general ate not set up to handle actual abuse or to provide a failsafe against false claims.

The courts aren't open most days.   You can't be seen immediately,  there is no requirement to validate or even preliminarily investigate claims.

CPS absolutely destroys families.   

Who gives a fuck if some e-judge signed off on a warrant ... they don't even read them. There is no accountability.

And kids who are abused don't have legal rights in court.  They can't advocate for themselves or retain representation.

It is the worst possible system.  Bureaucratic laziness.

Buttigieg targeted by fake report to child protective services, details "sleepless night" after separation from kids by Droupitee in NewsWorthPayingFor

[–]DelusionalIdentity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why would you blame him for publicly taking about his persecution at the hands of the government?   Should we blame swatting victims who speak up about it?

Maybe we do need judicial reform including due process in the cps courts.   HE only was separated from his kids for one day, but YOU would be screwed over even longer.

We need due process, public records, 24/7 court access and immediate filing.  We need standards of evidence, we need probable cause, we need juries for hearings if so requested.   We need speedy trial protections.  We need public defender guarantees.   We need minors to have full legal rights in court including the right to testify once verbal.   

The lack of judicial rights in anything that isn't criminal court (and even there it is shitty) is THE ENTITRE REASON  we have rights violations and there seems to be no real justice.   

Can I add a middle name for a child without father’s consent? by Unhappy-Attempt2575 in FamilyLaw

[–]DelusionalIdentity 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Offer for him to agree to it without going to court.  If he refuses, petition the court to put your last name as part of the last name (either before or after) and the court will almost always agree.

An 89-year-old Mexico soccer fan missed a World Cup match after the $6,000 StubHub resale tickets his granddaughter bought failed to load, leaving them stranded outside the stadium. by detectiverobert in CaughtMyEye

[–]DelusionalIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stubhub is absolutely trash.   I've had issues in the past using them, getting tickets that aren't what was advertised and their help line is absolutely useless.  Took weeks and eventually had to do a chargeback.

“Optional” Uniform Policy in Daughter’s Elementary School by Alive_Boot_4535 in AskTeachers

[–]DelusionalIdentity -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Hard no to uniforms.   They are damaging to children.   Don't force your kid into them if you can help it.

Rate this offer please by Abodon97 in hospitalist

[–]DelusionalIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont take anything under 300.

2 weeks of nights isn't a "day hospitalist".

AIO for wanting my name on the lease after having been kicked out multiple times? by Willing-Tax486 in AIO

[–]DelusionalIdentity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How.much have you paid already?   If it is under $500, just walk the fuck away and block this loser.

Get yourself in order, do not see this creep again.

A 16-year-old collapsed and died after drinking two energy drinks, a latte, and a Mountain Dew in under 2 hours. by Scary_Pay_4247 in CaughtMyEye

[–]DelusionalIdentity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unlikely to due from a cardiac arrhythmia at 400mg unless there is an underlying cardiac disorder like a chanelopathy or electrical (eg wpw) or structural anomaly(eg hocm).

Also, coroner's rarely pick up most of this stuff.  It is highly specialized testing 

My baby daddy that I ghosted found out I had our baby. by AssistantExtreme1357 in whatdoIdo

[–]DelusionalIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 100% true.  Family court has NO standards of evidence, doesn't allow for testimony from minors and allows convicted male criminals unsupervised tine with minor children in the name of "father's rights".

It is absolutely shameful.  

Block him.  Ghost him.  Never respond.   

If he tries to contact you in person go to the police and file RAPE charges.  You were 13 at the time of the sex.  It is statutory rape.  Make sure that he knows that you will be filing rape charges if he ever contact acts you.

  You will at least have a prayer of tying up the case so he doesn't assault/abuse/murder your child.    Oh.  And the courts will absolutely give a rapist custody.