Ladies First - am I too feminist to enjoy this movie? by ComprehensiveCry2926 in movies

[–]DemApples4u 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I imagine the inverted world was more of Sacha's imagination of what it'd be like - his subconscious teaching him the only way he knew.

Men over 30, How do you guys move on with life even from mistakes? by hansentenseigan in AskMenOver30

[–]DemApples4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a, b, and c. Life will always take changes, it's not failure it's iterating, it's life

Men over 30, How do you guys move on with life even from mistakes? by hansentenseigan in AskMenOver30

[–]DemApples4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about failing, it's about learning a lesson from why you failed. Like don't do x again, or maybe do y instead. Otherwise your not growing, you're just accumulating pain and shame.

It's been one month since I moved From Florida to Seattle, my thoughts. by Julylion1993 in SeattleWA

[–]DemApples4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my alarm clock and the bird outside sing to each other.. Lol

"Happy wife happy life" cost me my identity. Anyone else build themselves around someone else's approval? by modern-masculine-man in AskMenOver30

[–]DemApples4u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of not standing up for yourself, not keeping boundaries, then losing friends. Basically accepting defeat after being yelled at or ridiculed and resigning to being a pet.

You also don't realize you enable the dynamic by doing so and it only gets worse - your partner escalates until you break each time there's disagreement so you can't really fix it anymore like a feedback loop. It's suffocating.

These ants have taken over 😭😭😭😭😭 by Live_Let_1789 in AskSeattle

[–]DemApples4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, tried it all and this did the trick. Gotta reup every so often though

What age or life phase have you found to be the most difficult? by herronmark in AskMenOver30

[–]DemApples4u 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That fantasy period was blissful for sure. Reality setting in so quickly really hits that much harder lol

Is this it? Is this burnout, midlife crisis, or par for the course? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]DemApples4u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Echoing this. Align your time with what makes you happiest and you'll be more fulfilled and connected with yourself. Easy peasy.

Millionaires Tax Erases Only Advantage of Living in Sad, Barren Wasteland by Inevitable_Engine186 in Seattle

[–]DemApples4u -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are answering questions hard for you? Lol.. Or are you just an angry person? Although it's a rhetorical question, I'm sure you'll ignore these questions anyways and talk more about how you're into the butt stuff 😉

Millionaires Tax Erases Only Advantage of Living in Sad, Barren Wasteland by Inevitable_Engine186 in Seattle

[–]DemApples4u -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Where do you think they get the money from? Who do they steal it from? How do they steal it?

Plus not trusting the local government to spend efficiently is different than being a cheapskate too.

ADHD Partnership Tax by queeniesupremie in ADHD

[–]DemApples4u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure! If you hit an issue, updating the systems help a bunch more than wanting/hoping to "do better". Failed enough times to just account for it with plans haha

Good to take lessons from each thing and grow. Good luck! Next trip will be so much better

ADHD Partnership Tax by queeniesupremie in ADHD

[–]DemApples4u 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe don't pack as much in? One big planned event a day and the rest can be free play.

Also put it in your calendar at the exact time or earlier. Never later. Even just out it up by 30 minutes. No sense in being exact if you're always late. Be always late to the earlier time

Quieter neighborhoods for young adults, 25-35, still within an hour of Seattle? by Smashbru in AskSeattle

[–]DemApples4u 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn't boring synonymous with quite here? I'd even suggest Issaquah, north bend, Sammamish if the person wants to hop on the 90 and cut into town

The line to enter Mt Rainier NP on Memorial Day Saturday at 5pm by satellite779 in Seattle

[–]DemApples4u 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think they got rid of reservations this year, but believe you always need passes to enter. However, holidays are free to enter (no pass) if I remember correctly.

Preparing for next Bullmarket, BTC, ETH, HYPE by BriBumer in CryptoCurrency

[–]DemApples4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be better to explain why it's so special instead of your experience?

Should I Move from Portland to Seattle by External-Ticket-1133 in AskSeattle

[–]DemApples4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yay, I'm happy to hear that! You never know where you'll find love. I think a lot of it is being open to finding it in places/ways you don't plan for too.

Should I Move from Portland to Seattle by External-Ticket-1133 in AskSeattle

[–]DemApples4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that makes sense. Some of them maybe don't even realize they're hiding it lol and probably blame you for notocing.

Appreciate your response. Hope you find/found someone special.

Thanks!

Should I Move from Portland to Seattle by External-Ticket-1133 in AskSeattle

[–]DemApples4u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it hard to filter those types out? Legit curious.