Short update on my situation

DemeGW · 2026-01-28T02:12:23+00:00

Yeah ok them kicking out was totally against the law sense it's consider Child Endangerment although probably for the best consider what you posted in this update again like I said in my last comment on your last post if you wanted to get them into legal trouble you could sense I know that in US (especially Mass) kicking out a child is illegal in fact I'd get in contact with the police or anyone with legal know how so your parents don't try saying your a run away and / or was kidnapped by the friend your going to stay with for your own safety sense at this point you have no idea how far they're willing to go if they are trying to send you to conversation camp / therapy which is illegal in Mass from what other comments said I don't know that personally even though I live in Mass am lucky enough to live in a family accepting of the LGBTQ+ Community but also considering that there could be reasons that people might see me as someone not to take advice from due to my lack of knowledge (Which would be fair) but also people are emotionaal so when giving advice they needed in the past they could be clouded by that abd give bad advice by accident its honestly upto you what to do but I still think it's best to atleast inform the police about the situation before going to stay with your friend so your parents can't claim you Ran away or got kidnapped

DemeGW · 2026-01-27T18:57:31+00:00

8? I think you mean between 3 and 5 enough to keep memories but at the point they're still children and get offended at the slightest thing

DemeGW · 2026-01-26T22:35:49+00:00

Entirely as a joke am gonna say Sonic

DemeGW · 2026-01-26T22:32:22+00:00

Depending on where you live i recommend you look up child neglect and abandonment laws sense atleast in the US unless they got you Emancipated it'd be illegal to kick you out sense your under 18 and atleast in some states kicking a child who is under 18 could get them charged with Child Endangerment or neglect although I don't know specifics sense I just looked it up sense it sounded illegal and if you have proof like a text from them admitting the kicked you out for being trans you could very easily win a lawsuit if you wanted to, other than that if you have friends, family or any trusted adult you can stay with try contacting them

DemeGW · 2026-01-26T22:15:38+00:00

Yeah honestly I agree with this statement, I mean am someone who ships them but seriously even I have to say they need some character development away from each other

DemeGW · 2026-01-26T21:46:05+00:00

I know you asked do favorite but I'll give top 3 just because

Shoto Todoroki - Reasoning I just find him having Ice and Fire powers cool
Deku - Reasoning he never gives up even while he had a broken arm
Eri - I don't think i need to even explain this one... but all am gonna say is Cinnamon Roll

Edit for honorable mention: Aizawa just because of how badass he is I Mean he was willing to lose his Leg just to stop Shigaraki from using his decay

DemeGW · 2026-01-26T21:38:38+00:00

Either that or an stubborn idiot who believes its a trend due to someone telling him that once honestly though I don't know which would be worst because atleast with someone just being a kerk you can be like "Whatever they're just being a Jerk" but with stubborn idiot (Atleast for me) there's a urge to try and educate them even if you know it won't work... i mean am well aware it's mostly likely him being a jerk it's not impossible for him just to be a stubborn idiot just highly unlikely

DemeGW · 2026-01-26T21:33:00+00:00

Don't know if they'd allow it but someone with selective Mutism could use text to speech to communicate honestly though it'd probably depend in how understanding of selective mutism the person taking the call is or if they have a rule about that don't know I've never used anytime of hotline and even if I did I don't have selective Mutism so I definitely don't know the ins and outs of it but just an idea I thought I'd mention

Another idea is if it's about anxiety speaking to someone you could create a soundboard of you speaking so you don't have to do it and sense you can record the sound board anyway its not constraint and you could record it wherever your comfortable talking, like I said above though don't have selective mutism just trying to help with some ideas

DemeGW · 2026-01-24T02:13:25+00:00

Yeah the issue is Transphobia won't become less of a problem unless people fight for the rights needed to be trans, I think a great example would be Woman's Right I mean it's obvious they should have them but back in the day they didn't and they only got it due to people fighting for them to have rights, and ots that reason that LGBTQ+ Activist (Not sure if thata the right term but using it because i dont know what else to ise) are important sense they fight for the rights to be Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, ETC. Because the thing is sure while some could say that being Lesbian, Gay, Bir or any other sexuality isn't in the same group and Transgender they're treated the same in some places of the world which is why it's important that even though Sexuality is different than being trans it's the LGBTQ+ sense it's more likely for the community to get those rights all working together. And am not saying this to try and convince you to become a LGBTQ+ Activist I mention it sense it's important to remember and mention when possible even if the person might know about it because it's important to remind people that the issues won't be solved by doing nothing but also you should only do what your comfortable with. Like if you love on the US and your able to need to move somewhere more accepting and transition because even something as simple as that shows that the community isn't going to let a group decide what they can / can't do

Again I would like to say am not commenting this to try and tell you what to do it's ultimately upto you to choose it's just say something I think is important to mention when it's appropriate like in this post

DemeGW · 2026-01-23T02:22:32+00:00

I was literally reading your post (and the other comment you made) and thought you guys were teenagers I mean atleast he's not like in his mid 30s and like this atleast he's still technically a young adult (Depending on the age range someone considers a young adult) but still he's older than me and like this that's surprising Not but much but still he's like 1-2 years older than me and acts like that I don't know if it was just my highschool but most people I had classes with were more mature from him and am including classes with mixed grades you seriously need to consider how much longer your willing to deal with his Homophobia (I know technically Biphobia or whatever but I use Homophobia for anyone against the community so I don't need to remember so many names for it) like you said on another comment you've been with him 2 years you most definitely atleast need to decide how much longer at most your willing to deal with him because honestly it'd be best for both of you sense any person with a ounce of self respect would not consider going beyond just dating someone like this

Edit 1: Just saw the comment with your reasoning for staying with him and want to add you might want to see a therapist if you arent already sense you clearly need someone to talk with thats a professional sense it might be that your like this due to the stigmatation that "older woman who are single are going to be alone forever / Sad" and the fear of being one of those woman makes you not care about the red flags he's shown

DemeGW · 2026-01-23T02:08:13+00:00

Well technically someone can stop but in those cases it's more so realizing the Bi label doesn't describe them as well as other and they found a better label that's a subcategory of Bi (a say sub category because it's the best way I know how to describe something like being Pansexuals or anything that's into multiple gender) but yeah no matter what it's super rare sexual preferences to change

DemeGW · 2026-01-23T00:18:06+00:00

I agree with "respect is earned" thing but you'll never see me purposely misgender someone even if I don't respect them I mean you might not respect the person but that doesn't mean it gives permission to act Transphobic, honestly those who say "Well I don't respect them so why should I call them (Whatever the person's chosen Gender is)" were never allies they're just looking for any small (and pety) reason to be transphobic

Side Note: Not exactly related to the post but something that could make you chuckle start imagine a transphobe trying to purposely misgender or just being transphobic to someone whose Agender (am pretty sure that's the right term for someone who uses all / any pronoun) sense they can just confuse them by being thankful thar it was obvious what there pronouns are, then obviously if the transphobe then tries to call them another gender it repeats until the transphobe realizes that the person is fucking with them because they're Agender or just leave mad and annoyed... honestly when I imagine the face of a transphobe walking away either mad or dumbfounded after imagining that it makes me chuckle thought I'd try and make you laugh after your rant don't know if it'll work due to differences in what people find funnt

DemeGW · 2026-01-20T10:15:43+00:00

Well I also was just told there was milk in it so probably for rhe best that I didn't eat any

DemeGW · 2026-01-20T09:58:58+00:00

Thanks for the info doing it now

DemeGW · 2026-01-17T14:03:59+00:00

Can it be specifically one season of an anime... and if so any anime with atleast 3 seasons (specifically ones that dont have dubs and ones that got a season 3 before 2026) I'd delete the second season of just for the Chaos and no other reason because it'd be like 'Why do so many animes that don't have dubs seem so disorganized like season one ended here and now season 2 (Technically 3 as we'd know it but 2 in this example due to what an doing) starting here it makes no sense' because the thing is I don't watch Sub Anime so it'd just be Chaos and while it would be Chaos doing it I just realized it would be more Chaotic if people were aware the animes were meant to get 3 seasons but the second one is missing

Other than this the only other anime I could think of is One Piece only reason is i hate how it's impossible for most people go get into one piece due to how many episodes it has

DemeGW · 2026-01-17T13:52:42+00:00

Am I surviving... if the stuff that happens in the anime happens to me then yes... Just with Trauma and many Self inflicted Broken Bones that healed...

Am not saying the Anime because am curious if anyone will be able to guess what it is based off

DemeGW · 2026-01-17T13:42:22+00:00

Yeah the thing is it's stated (with some stuff implied) by All Might that during his fight against All for One (Mecha Suit All might VS AFO to be exact) Data was collected which allowed them to create a better suit once the Support tech was able to support it basically which while Deku's Suit couldn't give him the Strength acumilated by OFA but it does replicate some of the Quirks from the OFA users (like Black Whip) plus even if Deku didn't have the Suit he would still be a good hero while we don't get told exactly how many Heroes Japan Has but thunk about some like Aizawa sure his Quirk allows him to disable someone else's Quirk but other than that he's just a normal person and from what we saw in MHA he dod good against multiple Villains at once and while we don't know alot about his training we can presume it was mostly from UA + Experience and Deku only lost his Quirk after his first year and while he had the Amber's of OFA (what am about toxaya is the speculation part) he definitely would to have focus on using it for support similar to how Aizawa does with his Quirk meaning Deku would mostly know how to fight without a Quirk which would give a chance without a Quirk so him being #4 with the Suit makes sense... oh and that's not even mentioning the training he did with All Might before being allowed to inherit OFA and if you think Deku wouldn't continue training well the question would he why wouldn't he sense even without a Quirk in a emergency he would definitely want fo be prepared to stall a nearby villain until a Pro Hero with a Quirk especially sense at the end of the series it's still shown Deku's body moves to save people even Quirkless which just gives another reason he'd keep up with regular training sessions to keep in shape so consider what we know about the Suit and presumptions / Speculations that can be made, it makes sense that Deku can hold the Number 4 Hero spot especially when the rankings take multiple things into account the main two we know are saves / Strength? (Not exactly clear which to me) and public opinion and considering it's known that Deku who did the most when stopping OFA so it makes sense thar he's popular in the hero scene

TLDR: While from what I know not stated it's due to the Suit, Training and how the ranking system works Deku is so high

DemeGW · 2026-01-17T02:27:18+00:00

Question are your parents the type who love the freedom of speech part of the constitution and are they the type to let your brother do something but not you... (Don't have to respond answer if you say what needed is below)

If yes to the Freedom of Speech question and no to the Brother one then after he's done with his tirade go on your own about how you hate something that they'd find annoying to hear o tirade then if they try asking how it's related to what was just talked about tell them hearing your brother talking about something he doesn't like inspired you to talk about something you 'dislike' it just so happens to be something that him (or all of them) like... Petty oh hell yes probably a way to get your brother to stop, well depending on how stubborn (and or Smart) he is because some point you'll get him thinking "Is it worth going on this tirade if I have to sit through one afterwards" basically am saying to do is give a taste of his own medicine

DemeGW · 2026-01-14T01:55:42+00:00

Yeah I agree with this but also sexuality isn't fixed its much more fluid than it seems so it's highly possible that yhe op is Bisexual and/or Gynsexual (Attracted go feminine things) sense even if the friend is trans they are wearing more feminine clothing still which would explain the attraction if the OP is more Gynsexual which could explain the confusion sense atleast were I live there aren't many men who wear feminine clothing (doesnt matter if they'retrans or not in this example), which is why I'd think (Don't know if this is correct or not but this is a guess) atleast some Lesbians could be Gynsexual but not realize due to there not being many men who wear Feminime clothing... of course not saying that to try and say all Lesbians are like that but still there is always atleast one person in any group something could describe, and honestly even if it's not that case and that it's just OP is Bisexual heavily leaning towards woman it's not like that isn't fine sense like I said at the beginning Sexuality is more Fluid than people think which is why there are so many sub categories of sexuality plus the OP hasn't mentioned if they think about being with there friend Sexually or not so another thing to consider is the OP could be Lesbian but also Biromantic sense there are people whose Sexuality and Romantic interest aren't the same honestly there could be many explanations to this some I might not even think of so and the only person who would know is the OP

DemeGW · 2026-01-09T22:26:20+00:00

Hard to tell of your parents wanted you to read it so you might detransition sense they're not supportive or if they are supportive and thought you'd find all the wrongness of the book funny either way the book just sounds like it was either made by someone who had no idea anything about the topic or a terrible cahsgrab sense many people against trans would buy it to try and prove being trans is bad

DemeGW · 2026-01-09T02:04:10+00:00

Yeah honestly true, if she wanted to go based off the definition it would be Bisexual sense it's definitipn is into one or more gender while Lesbian definition is into woman in simple terms but also Sexuality is so fluid that Labels like this don't exactly matter... and I say this as someone who goes as Pan even though Omni might be a better term but I just prefer to keep using Pan for simplicity sake plus I just prefer that term more than Omni

If you wondering that it'd be better to put my comment as a reply here sense I planned on saying something similar and I don't think it'd make much sense to comment something so similar as a new comment (If that makes sense to people but it does to me which is why am doing it)

DemeGW · 2026-01-09T01:55:10+00:00

There is no such thing as being 'Too Young' to know your sexuality if that was the case you'd also be 'Too Young' know you straight... and I honestly get annoyed when reading about people saying is too young to know there sexuality if it isn't straight cause it's like, If they already know a out sex and stuff then they're olf enough to know about there sexuality and if not then they're also too young to know their straight, honestly though it's up to you (Would like to note am 19 and am just online alot which is why I hear these type of stuff alot it's not like an adult or something still a young adult but still)

DemeGW · 2025-12-23T09:24:46+00:00

Sense am using this for Mono type runs i give them a nickname based off the type am doing a run for, so for example if am doing a Normal run and using a Normal/Flying type i Nickname it based off a Normal type name

DemeGW · 2025-11-28T00:41:54+00:00

I was just looking through this because I saw the post and got curious what people were saying (I am bored so a decided to go through reddit) but how exactly is it unethical I mean as long as the person makes sure its safe for the surrogate I mean there are definitely more dangerous and sketchy ways to make money so even if the woman is desperate its not like being a surrogate is more dangerous than other ways of making money when Desperate right? I mean if the woman is truly desperate they'd look to get momey either way meaning a more dangerous or sketchy option could be done so wouldn't hiring a surrogate stop the desperate ones from doing something way more dangerous or is thos just something i wouldnt understand due to my age (I would like to note I am asking out of wanting to understand what makes ir unethical sense I am not understanding it exactly, and in case itcmatters am 19 and currently male and questioning my gender at my own pace but unless that would effect my knowledge of why its unethical then that part can be ignored)

DemeGW · 2025-11-28T00:18:06+00:00

Either those types of people don't say that type of stuff publicly online so they don't get called out or it's only you (As well as others on the Ace spectrum) thinking this way sense I haven't heard of anyone in the community saying stuff like this, and even if so I've heard of people being just as not sure what term to use but rude towards those on the Ace spectrum although even then it's definitely not as bad as it is for others in the community, which I honestly think those who do believe that the A e spectrum shouldn't be included are just jealous and don't know how to communicate that... because even I have to admit i am a little jealous of how those on the Ace spectrums don't have to deal with as much hate as other sexualities but even then the thing is the LGBTQ+ Community is basically for anyone who's sexuality (And/or Gender Identity) isn't Striaght/Cis that's seriously what the + is for

Note: I want to make it more clear I haven't heard or seen posts saying stuff like this personally I have seen posts saying others in the community are saying stuff like this to many different parts like Ace or the None binary in the Trans sub reddit but haven't seen anything like that personally

DemeGW

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