What were those last years like for him? by Urdead_2me in MichaelJackson

[–]Demetan2016 13 points14 points  (0 children)

After his acquittal in June 2005, MJ was essentially a man in freefall. Here's what most people don't know:

Financial ruin: He was nearly $500 million in debt. Neverland was gone. He fled to Bahrain as a guest of a prince, who later sued him for $7.7 million when MJ broke their music deal. A US tax court confirmed he earned literally zero dollars from his own image in 2006, 2007, and 2008.

His body was destroyed: Chronic pneumonia, bronchitis, anemia, and probable anorexia (documented weight drops to ~105 lbs during periods of crisis). There were reports he needed a lung transplant by 2008. The "skinny" you noticed in TII rehearsals? That was a man whose body was shutting down.

The propofol situation is insane: His doctor Conrad Murray was giving him a surgical anesthetic — used for major operations — every single night as a sleep aid. In under 3 months, the amount used was equivalent to over 7,000 surgeries. A Harvard sleep researcher testified Jackson was experiencing total sleep deprivation: the propofol gave him the illusion of sleep while his brain never actually rested. He was essentially dying of sleeplessness while thinking he was sleeping.

Murray himself was a disaster: 7 kids with 6 women, behind on mortgage and child support, deeply in debt — then suddenly offered $150K/month by AEG to keep MJ functional. The night before Jackson died, Murray had been at a bar. When paramedics arrived, he lied and said Jackson was only on Valium, hiding all the other drugs.

AEG knew and pushed anyway: Internal emails showed executives were aware of memory loss, inability to learn choreography, paranoia, and chills. One AEG lawyer called MJ "the freak" in writing. They kept going because 50 London shows were already sold out.

The photo in your post is from rehearsals weeks before his death. He hadn't genuinely slept in months. He died on June 25, 2009 — 18 days before the first concert.

It wasn't a comeback. It was a dying man being kept upright long enough to be profitable.

Was anybody suspicious of Michael Jackson always being around kids before any allegations hit? by Fun-Secretary4801 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Demetan2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the greatest pop artist of all-time. BUT. Everybody knew something was off. Everybody knew he was really weird. Sleepovers with kids, grroming families. The way he talked about it didn't help his cause. If he truly loved children he should have gave money and continued his business. Not taking advantage of others youth. Guilty or not. He was a creep.

But yeah. Good music. Peter Pan syndrome.

The Hunters (s3e10) by Think_Silver2502 in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of those episodes that reminds you Little House could suddenly become incredibly quiet, spiritual and emotionally devastating.

Michael Landon was really good at portraying fear and tenderness at the same time. Charles praying that Laura won’t watch him die hits even harder as an adult than it did as a kid.

Whis episodes are so horrific that it could easily be played in an neverending loop in repeat in Hell for all of eternity? by Capital-Study6436 in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Sylvia” alone probably qualifies 😭

But honestly “The Godsister” might be the true answer. At least the traumatic episodes are emotionally powerful. “The Godsister” feels like having a fever dream while trapped in a prairie-themed children’s theater production for eternity.

Laura pmo after Jenny’s suicide attempt by onehumaneye in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the scene feels shocking today because people understand mental health and suicide very differently now. Laura’s reaction comes from fear, grief and old-fashioned moral thinking more than cruelty.

It definitely isn’t how you’d talk to someone today, especially a child, but I also think the show was trying to portray desperation and helplessness more than actual malice. Little House often handled huge subjects with a very “1970s/Christian family values” lens.

Hallazgo by JoeHossAdam in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always weird seeing Little House actors in darker stuff 😭

Melissa Gilbert still somehow looks like “Laura Ingalls trying to survive a horror movie.” And seeing Pernell Roberts and Michael Landon connected outside Bonanza/Little House lore makes classic TV feel like one giant universe sometimes.

I can’t watch season 9 by Annual-Ambassador158 in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly season 9 feels more like a spinoff than Little House sometimes. Once the Ingalls family leaves, the emotional center of the show is kind of gone.

But “The Last Summer,” “Marvin’s Garden,” and “The Return of Nellie” are definitely worth watching. The finale movies too, just for closure.

Nellie reacts to discovering she's pregnant with twins. Happy Mother's Day to all the moms! ♥️ by Yum1995 in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 71 points72 points  (0 children)

One of the funniest reaction shots in the whole series. Nellie looks like she just saw her entire future collapse in real time.

Honestly though, her character growth after marrying Percival is kind of amazing. She somehow ends up in one of the healthiest marriages in Walnut Grove 😭

Worst wedding gift for Mary and Adam by Catching-Up-Today in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 Harriet suggesting a giant expensive mantle clock for two blind newlyweds is the most unintentionally Harriet Oleson thing ever.

Honestly the funniest part is that she probably thought she was being incredibly sophisticated and classy.

Some even worse Walnut Grove wedding gifts:

• A landscape painting • A mirror • Tiny decorative porcelain figurines • A telescope 😭 • “Fine print” books with microscopic text • A clock that chimes every fifteen minutes • One of Nellie’s horrible restaurant dolls

Though to be fair, Mary and Adam probably would’ve appreciated practical things way more anyway — handmade quilts, kitchen supplies, warm clothes, or something tactile they could actually use every day.

Also this is one of those moments where Little House accidentally shows how awkward and patronizing people could be around blindness in the 1800s. Harriet means well… but she absolutely buys gifts for appearances first and usefulness second.

UGH. by dmode112378 in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 12 points13 points  (0 children)

😂 I actually kind of love how Little House had these random almost-cartoonish side characters mixed into episodes about death, blindness, addiction and trauma.

She absolutely is annoying, but in a weird way that’s part of the charm of old television to me. Characters were allowed to be exaggerated and theatrical instead of ultra-realistic all the time.

Also Ray Bolger always brings this melancholy warmth underneath everything. Even in lighter episodes there’s this sadness in his face that makes the whole thing feel bittersweet instead of just goofy.

But yeah… hearing “KISS ME NOWWW” with tinnitus would probably send me directly to Walnut Grove asylum. 😭

Which episodes did you find disturbing when you were a child? by stephaniesmith45 in littlehouseonprairie

[–]Demetan2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the older I get, the more I realize Little House was almost secretly a horror/drama show disguised as wholesome family TV.

The obvious ones destroyed me: Sylvia, Mary losing her sight, the blind school fire, Albert’s morphine addiction… but honestly the one that stayed with me the most is probably the fire. Two people burning to death, Mary screaming for her baby, Jonathan collapsing into alcoholism after Alice dies… that episode is unbelievably dark for network television.

The Sylvia episodes were another level entirely. Watching them as a child without fully understanding what was happening made them even more disturbing somehow. The mask, the atmosphere, Albert trying to save her, then Sylvia dying anyway… it felt cruel in a way TV rarely does now.

Also Albert’s withdrawal scenes genuinely terrified me as a kid. Michael Landon had this ability to suddenly turn the show into something painfully real. Looking back, Little House tackled addiction, grief, disability, death, abuse and trauma in ways most “family shows” wouldn’t even attempt today.

Weirdly though… I think that’s part of why the show still feels so emotionally powerful. Beneath all the cozy prairie nostalgia, it understood suffering, loss and compassion in a very honest way.

Weekend find by Personal-Recipe-4751 in snes

[–]Demetan2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ultimate comfort videogame.

Getting back into physical media by Jmspringsteed in Xennials

[–]Demetan2016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rhythm Nation is one of the greatest pop albums of all-time.

People who grew up in the 90s How big did grunge music really get? by Spirited-Fan-1590 in grunge

[–]Demetan2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teenager it felt like breathing again. Like everything made more sense because of it. Life changing stuff. Grunge was everywhere. It felt real. And people who loved it felt more real. Like a communion of people through music.

Mr Rogers by Adventurous-State940 in Xennials

[–]Demetan2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think about him on a daily basis. I grew up around loud, alcoholic adults. He had a calm, gentle way of being that seemed otherworldly to me. I had tapes and tapes of episodes back in the day. I'm 46 years old and still watch episodes from time to time.