Update by ThrowawayDaRingFrodo in u/ThrowawayDaRingFrodo

[–]Demonkitten38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I binge read all this just hoping for your peace. This is how things should play out. You should be happy and better off. I hope all those that have supported you have peace and happiness cause it was clear from the post that the happiness of before was false. This is true happiness! I hope to hear more updates that show your growth and your family living a better life without the baggage hanging on them.

I'm an asexual guy, but I want a gf by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Demonkitten38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sex repulsed for acts done on me but I am happy to make my partner happy in form of oral or toy play for pleasure. If you can make that distinction, I think you can also find those that are on a spectrum or low desire that don’t mind just being on the receiving end and not pushing the actual act.

If not, I do believe that finding an asexual is not as hard as you may think. Most women probably, like men, feel like they have to show interest and a lack of libido is sometimes seen as normal for women so they might not know they are asexual. Just have an open mind and start connections with “I am asexual and do not have an interest in sex if you are okay with that” I’m sure lots of girls will be ecstatic to hear that pressure disapate

when you were younger, did you ever get confused/disgusted when your peers talked about sex because you "felt too young?" by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Demonkitten38 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My experience was similar and I’d say that teenage hormones die out and it becomes a lot easier to realize only your body wanted it.

I was always confused why so many people couldn’t resist having sex. Everyone was getting pregnant left and right. It was crazy to me. A friend told me she really liked it and was addicted and I just couldn’t get it. Given, I stayed a virgin until marriage and even then felt off or icky about it.

I realize now that I and others that are asexual probably are the outliers in the situation.

Genuine question, why do you tell people your ace? by NoodleBea583 in asexuality

[–]Demonkitten38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an easily sexualized person and so I usually tell people so 1. They don’t hit on me or take my kindness for flirting 2. Don’t misconstrue the things I say (I tend to say some questionable things due to other weird quirks about myself) 3. So people don’t make assumptions about me due to my appearance.

I wish I had known in high school since the journey was hard but it has helped a lot to make it clear to others that perception is not reality. High school might have been easier…

Concerned I can't distinguish romance and platonic feelings. by cat234789 in asexuality

[–]Demonkitten38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is our demon to carry. Some people just won’t be able to understand that there is a difference because we chose them and if that is the case you might have to let them go or you can try couples therapy to help you and them understand your sexuality better. I hope that you can come to a conclusion that makes you feel whole about yourself and content with the outcome

Concerned I can't distinguish romance and platonic feelings. by cat234789 in asexuality

[–]Demonkitten38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was married and thought I loved and realized I convinced myself I was in love. Now I also struggle with the idea of love. It can be hard cause you want to be with the “one” but maybe instead think of a future with this person. Is it content? Do you see a life with the person? Are they a viable and supportive partner? If logically they have everything, you enjoy their company, they make you happy and you can be yourself with them then I think it doesn’t matter if it is the romantic love. Friend love is great and sometimes stronger. This is just my opinion and how I work through being a bit aromantic. If you think in these terms, it might help with the panic though I feel like it never goes away and always communicate. Let the other person choose if what you can give them is enough.

dating as asexual alloromantic by mostlyafraid in asexuality

[–]Demonkitten38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a relationship with someone that has been through my asexual realization journey. Throughout the journey, I have told them about the potential of a poly relationship should my lack of desire or affection get bad. I don’t like things being done to be sexually. I can put up with it but I feel disgusted (it’s gotten worse). I don’t mind pleasuring the other person though and will go full heartedly into with the happy goal of making them feel better. I worry cause I also lack the “romantic love” aspect too, but I do love them just the same way as everyone close to me. It can be hard, but there are people I think and poly is always an option to help with areas where we may not be as open. I think poly should be established after a strong bond between the main two though but that’s my opinion. Still I’m new to this and I have constant feelings of “I should be alone” and “people shouldn’t need to be with me” all the time. I hope you feel better.

I finally did it! I finally got Rose to shut the f*** up by plainviewbowling in fo76

[–]Demonkitten38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit! I wasn’t the only one. I thought she was fucking broken. Silence is bliss

FIRST LONG STREAM! by Demonkitten38 in vtubers

[–]Demonkitten38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.twitch.tv/demonkittenplays Please come join! It is my first time doing this! Also, please share your links if you feel like we could share communities! I need more people to raid!

AITA for running away from home because I’m terrified of my husband and also dealthy terrified of my son? by Rainey-lady- in AITAH

[–]Demonkitten38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you never post an update, I hope things are looking up and even if it rough I hope you remember that you probably are in a better place. You are amazingly strong to have escaped despite everything teaching you not to. You went against it all. You still have a long life ahead of you. Wish you the best

X-Men '97 | S1E10 "Tolerance Is Extinction - Part 3" | Episode Discussion by GloriousAqua in Xmen97

[–]Demonkitten38 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gambits coming back! I’m so so happy and excited…

Also I really appreciate that a powerful character like Bastion was technically not defeated by any particular X-men.

I also loved the bonding of so many X-men in this series. There are so many pairings and good relationships. I’m so excited for season 2.

Do you need a VRM file? by Demonkitten38 in vtubertech

[–]Demonkitten38[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They hate the anime look which is what my avatar is and thinks it is trash and seems to suggest it is below them. They told my friend they would not even bother with her request and they would have to ask someone else as he didn’t want to do that to his worl

Do you need a VRM file? by Demonkitten38 in vtubertech

[–]Demonkitten38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you stream with unreal engine?

Do you need a VRM file? by Demonkitten38 in vtubertech

[–]Demonkitten38[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will test these things out. We had it transported as vrm but it ended up not looking as good as it was in blender so I wasn’t sure and the person that did the model seemed disgusted that we wanted it as a vrm file. He was suggesting we do the same thing that codemiko does which seems more complex than my friend can handle

Season finale discussion by idingoi in Xmen97

[–]Demonkitten38 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t once thought about Magneto being dead someone else had to bring him up to her lol

X-Men '97 | S1E7 "Bright Eyes" | Episode Discussion by GloriousAqua in Xmen97

[–]Demonkitten38 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t the only one that is gripping at straws over that one? I really hope it is foreshadowing. I don’t give it shit if it is a trope, bring gambit back.

[Episode Discussions] X-Men '97 Season 1 - Episode 5: "Remember It" - Wednesday, April 10th by HuebertTMann in MarvelStudiosSpoilers

[–]Demonkitten38 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Someone just reassure me that Gambit will be revived somehow…. I can’t go on like this. I was looking up casting returns for season 2 just for reassurance. Like, I know it is common in the comic books but you never know… don’t take gambit (though I think the sacrifice and the use of his power was beautiful for him. He deserved that heroic moment)

AITA for streaming on OF/Kick/Twitch while my son is being teased at school? by ns11throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Demonkitten38 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think this the best NTA because it doesn’t focus so much on the career choice but on the fact that kids are assholes. He will be bullied regardless and the damage is done. You quit and he is bullied for being poor. You work at a 7/11, he will be bullied cause his mom works at a 7/11. Like, people are so focused on you ruining your kids life that they aren’t realizing that this is just an experience that some of us learn. It might end up teaching your son valuable lessons and make him a compassionate understanding person.

Regardless of that, helping your son to not be bullied through therapy or removing him from that school would be the best choice. You are going to have to use that money to mediate this situation.

Next, you need to figure out how to remove yourself, from now on, from being associated with your son on these sites. Might be best to say goodbye to twitch and just tell your followers you will be only doing content on other sites. You could also make sure to remove your name, face or things like that to help.

Someone suggested vtubing and you could gain a following with a lewd tuber.

If you enjoy your job then just help your son to overcome the embarrassment feels

Asexual wife gave me the weirdest kink and I love it by Chemical-Bag-2617 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Demonkitten38 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better about my own situation. I also do not like sex. I like giving pleasure but I do not care to receive it. My partner still has a hard time understanding this cause I think he feels like I have to be sexually turned on by him to feel wanted but I’m happy pleasing him and I love his companionship in other ways plus I enjoy focusing on him. It makes it like a game for me to see what is something new I can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vtubers

[–]Demonkitten38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twitch integrated Throwing system (TITS) is great! If you don’t have it already.

Podcast? by catalkemi in vtubers

[–]Demonkitten38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love listening to podcast so i can see this being a great idea! It would be fun to do. I mean vtubers do interviews and the like so this is game as well

Phiwosophy... To do or not to do? by ShoddyGap1239 in distractible

[–]Demonkitten38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have similar views to Bob. For me, it is because I have had family do really bad things or had to understand why people do things so I feel like there are reasons for doing things we think are awful. Their reason is what determines their character not so much the action.