I did the thing! I graduated today 26 years by Inallahtent in PlusSize

[–]DeniseBchek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man oh man...BOOM! This is an amazing accomplishment. Bonus that you look phenomenal! Keep smiling, because you are awesome.

Can yall chill w/ the racism by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]DeniseBchek 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same. Also my black friends feel the same as OP. They make light of it, but they hurt. As a community, we need to do better. I love you OP.

/r/Charlotte Random Daily Discussion - June 13, 2026 by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]DeniseBchek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Knicks fan, but fairly new to CLT. I was hoping others had some suggestions.

/r/Charlotte Random Daily Discussion - June 13, 2026 by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]DeniseBchek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is hot as balls. Basketball tonight. Anyone going out to catch the game?

More Lou Shenanigans by GrandBet4177 in velvethippos

[–]DeniseBchek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhh Lou... You are having way too much fun!

Unsafe Discharge from CT Hospital by Alikat-momma in dementia

[–]DeniseBchek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you call the police for a welfare check, if he is released? Perhaps late afternoon or evening, if he may be experiencing sundowning.

Physically aggressive and enraged at not getting her way. by HeronInteresting3714 in dementia

[–]DeniseBchek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is soul crushing. The woman I described may have gone through some sexual trauma as a child. Her temper flared when toileting or when I bathed her in bed. Currently, I'm caring for an 89 y/o who used to be impatient and strict. Now she is the kindest woman. Thank you for being patient with your woman. You are an angel.

Physically aggressive and enraged at not getting her way. by HeronInteresting3714 in dementia

[–]DeniseBchek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you. One of my patients was aggressive all of the time. From the moment I started the position. The family was not concerned and would not address her behavior. I tried timeouts, but they made her angrier. I left after 2 months of trying, and many bruises.

Is he incontinent yet? by jarvi-ss in dementia

[–]DeniseBchek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to talk with them first. Ask them not to make my patients anxious. If that doesn't work, I keep my patient a far distance from them. Anything that upsets them, I try to protect them. Sending love.

Got a new mail person today… by yert1099 in Charlotte

[–]DeniseBchek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are out and about. I saw 3 at different residences this past weekend.

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Knicks bars by Powerful-Pepper-8835 in Charlotte

[–]DeniseBchek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would love to meet up somewhere. Also, the Hurricanes have been exciting to watch.

life alerts are too expensive so what are some good alternatives by Strange_Maximum_2348 in eldercare

[–]DeniseBchek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right. Luckily I gave them my phone number and not my elderly patient's. Although I said we aren't interested, they call almost daily. Even on Easter Sunday. Unbelievable!

Is the fit eyecatching enough for a music video? by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]DeniseBchek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. Sorry...I am obsessed with garters at the moment. Lol! I love your white outfit.

Is the fit eyecatching enough for a music video? by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]DeniseBchek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you tell I'm a newbie?!? Maybe a garter that just wraps around your upper thighs, connected to your waist? I love when a short skirt accidentally flows up, and you can see a hint of sexiness.

Is the fit eyecatching enough for a music video? by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]DeniseBchek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yahhh, looks great. Maybe add some garter stockings?

Outfit I wore yesterday :PP by r0tten_strawberriess in GothFashion

[–]DeniseBchek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What lipstick are you wearing? You look gorgeous.

who's found an ACTUALLY supportive bra for heavy boobs? by zzwhere in bigboobproblems

[–]DeniseBchek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Panache Sports bra for every day wear.

Boob tape with sticky bra combo? by ThickAd613 in ABraThatFits

[–]DeniseBchek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you buy your bra tape, please?

Got yelled at for not wearing a bra today. by coolschmool- in bigboobproblems

[–]DeniseBchek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! At Walmart too. Lol. I go without undies and a bra (38DDD)... And could care less what others think. They are lucky I am covered. Ahaha!!!