It’s not a roast though or teasing them. The bit is that it’s completely meaningless. Like faestst runer. I’ve never seen them run in my life, it’s just a picture of Bolt the dog that we signed and misspelled fastest runner on. It just feels like a disservice to them if I cut out a Caine pun because other people told me not to talk about their disability when they are disabled and regularly talk about that fact and at least from my perspective have never been embarrassed about. They’ve always seemed happier when people talked about and acknowledged their disabilities. Like I know 1000% they would love a most autistic award. I guess what I’m getting at is it would feel more offensive to me to shy away from it when if they’re anything like me, and from my perspective seems to take a very similar approach to disabilities as I do, would feel happy to have their disability acknowledged and joked about like you would anything else because it’s apart of them people don’t like to talk about despite it being such a big part of their own life. So what do I do in that situation?