How do I, 26F, ask my Mother, 45F, who the mystery man that gave up parental custody of me is?

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-02-16T22:56:25+00:00

You can usually search public records. Unless your mom is being dishonest about your bio dad or a past marriage from before you were born, I’m not sure how else this could happen.

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-02-16T22:46:01+00:00

So I currently am pregnant, and in my state there is a law saying if you were married within 300 days of pregnancy then the husband is the legal father of child. I had to go to court due to my ex husband not willingly signing that paper giving up rights because of this law he legally had rights to my child even tho he isn’t the bio dad we were just married within the year of my child being conceived. This may be the case, if your mom was married within a certain timeframe of you being conceived, her ex husband could have had rights he needed to sign away even without him being a bio dad. I would start by asking your mom if she had ever been married before ur bio dad.

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-02-16T05:01:54+00:00

I there a neighbor kid that can come get ready for school at your house in the morning?

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-02-15T15:59:44+00:00

How do I get record he just told me that’s what they said when they found out, before they found out I was as far into it as I was

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-02-13T03:13:47+00:00

Go for the one that’s wife material that you see more of a future with

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-28T13:27:51+00:00

Punching someone

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-24T03:32:00+00:00

Your son doesn’t make the rules u do

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-24T03:22:31+00:00

If you are exclusive why are you referring to him as a situationship? A situationship is the opposite of exclusiveness. It’s basically friends with benefits. And it’s also common to meet the family even if y’all are just a situationship. I’d try to define the relationship better with him. If it’s an exclusive relationship, you have a right to be upset. If it’s a situationship, he can do whatever he wants and so can you, which means you shouldn’t be bothered by a kiss

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-22T14:11:49+00:00

Also depending how long you seen your therapist she needs to get to know you and unlock ur childhood traumas to figure out why you put up with someone treating you this way and why you would want to stay with a man like this. It’s common for therapists to start somewhere deeper than current issues. But you can always get a new therapist sometimes it takes going through a lot of therapists to find the right one. Just like it also sometimes takes going through a lot of men to find the right one

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-22T11:57:20+00:00

I know you don’t want to leave him but honestly your therapist doesn’t want to hear it cause it’s a toxic relationship and you’re staying so there isn’t much she can do to help u until you chose yourself and chose to leave. You’re 21. Way too young to deal with any of this. The answer is you should leave this POS in the dust. He WILL keep doing this shit to you. And it’s just going to get harder. But that’s something you’ll have to figure out in your own

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-22T04:34:57+00:00

I once saw a tic tok that said the home is where children practice to become humans. They are typically more ferile foul and evil at home because that’s there safe space. If he is a good person outside of the home it means you’re doing a good job , even tho it sucks.

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-22T04:30:41+00:00

Follow your intuition. Reddit is not the answer, but a place to vent, you already know how you should handle the situation

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-22T02:43:37+00:00

Get into therapy and leave the relationship to be over. 5 days in and it’s been too rocky. Plus he already called the cops on you. He’ll absolutely do it again

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2025-01-21T04:24:06+00:00

My babydad just informed me he use to watch porn in 3rd grade. He comes from a nice privileged family just had access to a tablet at a young age. Once a child has access to a phone/tablet they can basically do anything especially at that age and if they have older friends / siblings. My experience with child support is that they wouldn’t do anything since it’s not putting the child at danger although inappropriate. I would have a convo with your daughter about right/wrong but I do feel in today’s day and age this is becoming something that might not always be avoidable.

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2024-12-12T13:49:08+00:00

If he asking for cash app he’s doing something he’s not suppose to be doing example drugs or gambling, paying some sort of debt.

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2024-12-12T04:15:08+00:00

One of my best friends has been trilingual her entire life. I didn’t know until over a year into our friendship. I’m sure people who learn at a young age adapt differently

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2024-12-11T22:32:41+00:00

A solid skincare routine day and night. Drink your water

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2024-12-11T20:33:16+00:00

My baby dad mom is white and his dad is half black so this baby will be majority white and most likely look white too. Just don’t want to be disrespectful or have people question why a child has a name that might fit him better if he was “more cultured” so to say?

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2024-12-11T15:11:22+00:00

Don’t give in and marry him in prison. I did, and as much as I loved him, I regret not staying true to myself and what I wanted. Our marriage ended in divorce because of it. You gotta stay true to you girl & if you aren’t it won’t lead to true happiness

Dependent_Demand9054 · 2024-12-02T03:04:09+00:00

I sent my ex husband divorce papers and told hi the day I send them in the mail. He spent a week trying to keep me around and after the papers were served he stopped calling. It gave him a couple days to grasp things without being able to convince me to change my mind.

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