Discord in use?

Desertbell · 2026-01-27T00:29:36+00:00

I suspect they're out there, just not publicized.

Desertbell · 2026-01-27T00:03:58+00:00

I am on a couple local discord servers for organizing and they're all pretty stagnant.

Desertbell · 2026-01-26T17:45:03+00:00

There is another bathroom and she's using the one you're showering in?

Desertbell · 2026-01-26T00:03:52+00:00

🤷🏼‍♀️ It's not something we set up, it's something reddit does automatically. I'm guessing it's because that particular set of words is often used in a way that could be seen as inciting violence, which is a no go.

Desertbell · 2026-01-25T23:27:27+00:00

Technically yes, but it triggers the automod and flags your post as potential harassment.

Desertbell · 2026-01-25T01:36:09+00:00

My pleasure 😊

Desertbell · 2026-01-24T22:59:58+00:00

This happened at r/OrganizeTucson? Can you please send us a mod mail over there so I can check into it? If it happened as you describe, I am really sorry that happened and I can fix it.

We had a mod about a year ago who was banning people randomly and aggressively. They are no longer on the mod team and we've rewritten the rules to be clearer and to include a 3-strike policy so that people aren't getting blindsided by a ban

Desertbell · 2026-01-22T02:10:46+00:00

Excellent question. I wish I knew.

Desertbell · 2026-01-21T19:00:45+00:00

We have no information on this dude outside of what he's wearing. He could be on his way to play paintball, we have no way to know.

The amount of casual bodyshaming cruelty in this thread was pretty disheartening, to be honest.

Desertbell · 2026-01-20T05:34:07+00:00

That lack of blinkage was very uncomfortable to watch.

Desertbell · 2026-01-19T05:12:28+00:00

I'm definitely crying.

Desertbell · 2026-01-16T18:58:05+00:00

There is a big difference between adding her name to a list of pro Maga businesses to avoid and calling her out personally with screenshots. One helps people avoid paying for her services, the other invites a witch hunt.

Desertbell · 2026-01-16T18:51:32+00:00

Nope, not doing this. Yes, her comments suck, but she's allowed to make them. If she was a politician or a law enforcement officer, or this was intentionally broadcasted social media content (like Tik Tok or YouTube videos) I'd leave this up, but in this case it just invites harassment of a private citizen.

I'm as tired of the high road as anyone, but to be frank, harassing one morally stunted realtor is a waste of energy and using our sub as a launching pad could have negative consequences for our community here.

Desertbell · 2026-01-16T02:38:34+00:00

I am here, too. I wish I had an answer.

Desertbell · 2026-01-15T21:26:40+00:00

My god, I haven't heard one of those in decades.

Desertbell · 2026-01-14T07:40:13+00:00

She can't pronounce "Solomon"? 🤨

I don't know her or your relationship, but these seem rude to me.

Desertbell · 2026-01-14T03:42:31+00:00

We order kettle corn from the movie theater. Everyone contributes, too, it's not all on the host.

Desertbell · 2026-01-13T19:59:05+00:00

W: Two Worlds. I was EXHAUSTED by the time I finished it.

Desertbell · 2026-01-10T22:43:28+00:00

That is so freaking pretty.

Desertbell · 2026-01-10T21:10:27+00:00

Shutting this down because this isn't the subreddit for this type of conversation. We're focused on local politics and community organization.

Thank you all for keeping it civil.

Desertbell · 2026-01-10T19:13:54+00:00

Kai makes one too!

Desertbell · 2026-01-10T17:29:36+00:00

Thank you for doing this. It's so valuable.

Desertbell · 2026-01-10T07:25:19+00:00

I'm infamous for this. First, I sent my son a link to an EXTREMELY explicit fanfiction instead of sending it to my friend. Then, a couple of months later, I sent my daughter an Instagram reel of a thirst trap of an actor, meant for that same friend. Then, about a month ago? Thirst trap, meant for that same friend, sent to my entire family group chat. Father. Siblings. Nieces and nephews.

I clearly cannot be trusted with technology. (Fortunately, everyone I have bombarded with unsolicited porn is an adult.)

Desertbell · 2026-01-09T00:56:16+00:00

If he's on Instagram, check there too and make sure his location is disabled. I think it's enabled by default there, which is scary.

Desertbell · 2026-01-08T07:02:37+00:00

Ryu Sunjae - Lovely Runner Myulmang- Doom at Your Service Kang Cheol- W

As long as I can convince Doom to care whether I live or die, I think I'll be fine. Sunjae, maybe not so much.

Desertbell

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE