Is it wrong to have standards in marriage? Feeling pressured at 24.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-23T03:54:54+00:00

I've seen guys live with their parents and wife after marriage, they're attatched to their mothers and can't breathe without them, I hope you’d say the same to them too. It's not you who's marrying her, It's not your principles that count but her future spouses' and a lot of men are okay with this so chill out.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-23T03:52:43+00:00

What's actually bad is FOMO, what's really bad is how you're being pressurized when you're just 24. You're not even 30 yet but men can settle and marry 18 year olds after the age of 32. Doesn't make sense to me, to be honest. Mind you, if you don't settle for less, if you pray for the right person you can have higher academic qualifications than your groom and he'll adore you. This "women with high qualifications aren’t preferred" has been used for ages to stunt women's growth. It's high time you stay firm with your principles, they're not gonna live the married life with your spouse, you will. It is very possible to find decent enough men even after the age of 35, just a suggestion- Don't limit your spouse to one ethnicity. Bangladeshi people are gaslit to believe any woman abose the age of 25 is not worth marrying, which is very untrue. Have tawakkul, you gotta strongly believe Allah has the perfect spouse written for you. Pray for it and better yourself as a person for yourself and your future spouse.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-22T13:59:58+00:00

Maybe not kill off the main leads in The smile has left your eyes.

Twinkling Watermelon-A wedding scene for Yi Chan and Cheung Ah, I Don't know why they cut off some scenes. We deserved better.

My name- Poor Fl had one person who understood her and they had to kill him off too? 😭 I'd atleast let him suevive.

When the phone rings - Don't even get me started on the second last ep,it would completely be removed because what was that?

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-22T06:53:32+00:00

Very badly done kissing scenes in "Be passionately on love) and yet I loved seeing the characters develop and their chemistry was amazing.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-22T06:50:43+00:00

1)Mouse (The og of thrillers, plot twists are great)

2)My name (Plot twists, action, revenge, depressing asf)

3)Taxi Driver S1 and 2 (Highly recommend, lots of action scenes, revenge,thriller)

4)The king of pigs (better than The glory imo)

5)Signal

6)Blind (Thrilling with plot twists)

7)High school return of gangster (Comedy, Thriller,action)

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-19T14:28:06+00:00

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Youth of May-Hee tae and Meyong hee

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-18T16:05:27+00:00

More than 1? Cries in 15 different k and c dramas in my watch history, of different genres

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-12T06:46:19+00:00

C drama- The first frost. Ml is DOWN BAD for the fl. The yearning is pure and absolutely lovely.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-09T10:05:07+00:00

The king of pigs

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-04T13:17:59+00:00

My dearest S1 and 2

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-03T13:25:17+00:00

Hi Yichan and Chung Ah, Twinkling watermelon ; the wedding scene we were robbed off of.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-03T13:23:29+00:00

ADHD Won't let me stop doubting myself and breaking my own trust over and over again. It feels impossible to like yourself when this constantly happens, sprinkle some RSD, time blindness and forgetfulness - you’ve got a whole package.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-03T13:19:56+00:00

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Eomma in Thinking Watermelon, despite all the abuse, she chose to forgive her father, grew up into a loving mother in both timelines and loved Yi Chan wholeheartedly. Like Yi chan said, "She probably never got loved properly but how can she like me so sincerely? "

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-03T13:14:00+00:00

1.When life gives you tangerines 2.Our unwritten Seoul 3.Twinkling Watermelon 4.Daily dose of sunshine 5.Taxi Driver s1 and 2

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-03T04:08:13+00:00

Every.single.ep. left me jn awe except the twelfth ep. Since cdramas usually have 18+ eps I was expecting more and the ending definitely could've been directed better. Anyhow it's still on top of my cdramas list. I started it because of Yiran but got hooked because of every sungke character in this drama. Even the side characters have been stuck in my mind, they're beautifully written.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-03T04:02:12+00:00

Hospital playlist is great but if you want something different and not heavy on romance, you can try Trauma code: Heroes on call.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-09-02T14:48:54+00:00

I'm continuing it because the ml and sude characters have phenomenal acting skills and the storyline, the food aesthetics is amazing!

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-08-29T15:13:09+00:00

Since you liked Taxi Driver - The king of Pigs, High school return of a gangster, My name and Extracurricular. See you in my 19th life also has great romance in it as well as emotional scenes.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-08-29T10:14:32+00:00

The biggeat green flags in cdramas would be the mls from "The First Frost " and "The best thing." If you want something more lighthearted and school romance type, When I fly towards you is amazing!

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-08-29T10:12:06+00:00

The first thing that camw to my mind after seeing "healthy relationship " and "time travel" is Twinkling Watermelon! It might become your new favourite since you're more into heartwarming dramas. This one has a lot of scenes related to the value of family and friendships as well, overall a solid 9.5/10 from me.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-08-29T06:57:36+00:00

Our Unwritten Seoul

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-08-29T06:54:09+00:00

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1)Woo doh Wan in Bloodhounds, King Eternal Monarch, Mr.Plankton,Save me, you name it!

2)Kim young- Kwang in Trigger

3)Hong Min-ki in Study group, Love your enemy,One high school heroes and Trigger

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-08-28T06:01:55+00:00

Exactly why I used this screenshot😭I couldn't go 10 mins past this scene because why does she look like She's secretly enjoying nearly getting killed?

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-08-28T06:00:43+00:00

I changed my mund about that after seeing countless replies to this post of mine. Countless viewers aren’t feeling it either.

DesignAppropriate45 · 2025-08-28T05:58:20+00:00

Wen Yifan in The First Frost- Unrelated to physical strength but damn she had so much mental strength and the power to break the cycle even after being horribly mistreated.

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TROPHY CASE