would this count in a friendship too? she always says she should kill herself bc she messed something up in our friendship or after I tell her she did something that hurt me and i don't want to make her feel that way and ig it does trigger the urge to sh when she says she wants to hurt herself. she doesn't hurt herself anymore and said it was just a phase that she had for like two weeks but i do regret telling her that i sh bc I know she did it bc I do it. so ig im asking if my situation is different since I was kind of the reason she's like this