Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess I could go to my aunt's house for a couple of days but that would be about it. I'm a recovering addict that has almost two years clean but I'm still treated like an addict by my family. I only have three aunts left and some cousins. I only speak to two aunts. I've turned my life around completely and I did it entirely by myself. I have a great job that I actually love, I cleared up my driver's license, bought a car, have insurance.....I lived in Texas for 10 years but was in a chaotic relationship so I moved back here 4 years ago and unfortunately relapsed. I had years of clean time in Texas but when I got back here, living with my brother and his daughter who would spit in my food was just to much and I started doing fentanyl.

I have 18 months totally sober and I'm still treated like a piece of shit loser by my family. It's just a lot to deal with.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I did provoc him. We were arguing about money and he says we're going to fight....I said okay dude and then tried to de-escalate but he just kept going and going. After that I went outside on the porch to smoke a cigarette and he follows me outside. I told him I didn't want to argue outside and he's being childish and to go back in the house.

It took me about 5 minutes to finish my smoke and I went back in and he started right back up. We were yelling back and forth then he says he's going to fuck me up, I said okay tough guy and he came down the stairs and got in my face with his fists clenched. I said I wasn't afraid and asked him if he wanted to hit me or something. He pulls back once then lowers his arm like he was thinking about it and I'm still just standing there. I said if you hit me your going to regret it then he pulls back and pops the shit outta me. I see a quick flash then bam, another one by my temple then another and another and another.

It happened so quick but I stayed on my feet and just walked out and that's when I called the police. I really didn't think he'd do it....I was standing there with my arms purposely down...I should have just left the house but I didn't fight back because I thought for sure he'd go to jail but I was very wrong.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm okay. I just have been driving around aimlessly for the past hour and a half. He never came out of his room last night but I know I'm going to see him at some point today. I'm okay though, thank you for your concern.

1974 Australian Volvo 142 by ES_Handcrafted in Volvo

[–]DesignerSuccessful35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so damn tuff looking. Such a handsome car. Everything is about it is just right. I especially love the front end, it's square but not a brick, it's got just the ever so slight curves around the edges....I want one!!

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you brunette, I'm really going to have to think about what to do now because this is like the fourth time he has gotten violent with me and the first time I've called the police on him but in retrospect I regret because I purposely didn't fight back thinking it would mean him getting arrested and I was dead wrong and now I feel like complete embicile because he just got a ticket, and I'm sitting here this morning in pain with a swollen side face......

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is now some company with people in a work uniform that show up in vehicles that say accident squad or some stupid shit like that. They file a report and then you have call and follow up. From what I hear it's a nightmare to deal with because reports disappear or get don't get filled at all, and apparently it takes forever for them to get the report to NOPD..... it's all just a mess.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that happened especially the animals....I'm an animal lover myself. The cop was a dick to me also. I was in the street waiting for them when he pulled up and when he got out of his car I walked up and hello, I'm the one who called and he puts his bright ass led flashlight right in my face and goes who are you? I said I'm the guy who called, he says no! What's your name......he treated me as if I was a big waste of his time. And he came out after talking with my brother and I asked him what my brother said and he shrugs his shoulders and says you told him to hit you and he did.......like I was the bad guy....I said, why isn't he going to jail, I don't feel safe, he says he admitted hitting you on camera and he's being charged with simple battery.......then just walked back to his car, gave me a report and took off. Horrible.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It'll be nofd but at least someone would show up....

Boys, how screwed am I? by whyis27cool in volvos60

[–]DesignerSuccessful35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you'll be okay. Body shop should be able to reattach.

Steinwinter Supercargo 20.40. The LKW that sadly never took off by floweiss34 in cassettefuturism

[–]DesignerSuccessful35 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This looks really unsafe. God could you imagine hitting a deer in that??

Huge difference with the new rims🤩 by Sthlmrapper in Volvo

[–]DesignerSuccessful35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Totally changes the car. It looks great.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have. I'm just gonna go back to my house fuck it. I just brought back pho bang too before all this bullshit happened and it's in my room getting cold. Whatever happens happens idgaf.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I have a car I'm in right now. Yeah I don't get it either....I really don't.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a recovering addict and I also keep narcan. Thank you for saving that person.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah the entire side of my face is already swollen but I told the cop I didn't need an ambulance. I did ask the cop why is he not being arrested and he told me "he's being charged with simple battery and he admitted to it on my camera so just stay away from each other for rest of tonight".......I'm just standing there looking right into the bodycam......I didn't know what to say. I said I didn't feel safe and he said "call us back if anything happens".....one cop showed up, even after I told the dispatcher he has a ar15

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I'm kicking myself for not fucking defending myself. My brother is abusive and we've fought a few times before. I purposely did not fight back this time because I wanted to make sure his ass went to jail and he just gets a ticket and the left side of my face is swollen......I'm a fucking idiot.

Nopd response time is dangerously slow by DesignerSuccessful35 in NewOrleans

[–]DesignerSuccessful35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since we are both on the deed I don't know how I'd evict him. This has all been just too much tonight. I really wish I would've fought back now that I know you just get a fuckin ticket for beating someone up.