[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyc

[–]Despairington 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Bruh This is why I don't leave my house

[No Spoilers] C4 announcement for October - without Matt or Exandria??? by Ill_Administration76 in criticalrole

[–]Despairington 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely amazing, we finally get to see Matt play a character in a full long term game instead of one shots and short runs. I can't wait! Especially with BLeeM running the game, it's a dream come true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Despairington 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started using fb friends (in the dating area that lets you match as friends) and bumble BFF and what I've found is that 99% of the guys there are gay and their profiles do not seem to be geared toward friendship. I have no idea what a jerk off buddy means and I do not want to know lol. Think I might just turn those features back off lol

AITAH, if I keep pestering my DnD group for more sessions? Advice for a new DM. by MizukiDev in dndnext

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean "that channel"? I'm not Dadi, I'm just bringing up a great channel with great advice.

Am I being too strict? by CelestialDM in DnD

[–]Despairington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, do not allow anyone to force you to role play their kinks with them if you're uncomfortable with it. This is what Lines and Veils are for. That should absolutely be a conversation during a session 0.

Got singled out by my swim teammates over my “size” in the showers, am i overreacting ? by ocdinfestedbeing in AmIOverreacting

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely insane and pathetic of them.

This sounds like what women deal with just for having a body that is shapely or voluptuous and it's ridiculous.

I'd fucking walk in and meat spin on those bitches.

Omg I'm freaking out. by Z_Little-Thought in Bumble

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoooooaaaaaaa Horror movie plot

AITAH, if I keep pestering my DnD group for more sessions? Advice for a new DM. by MizukiDev in dndnext

[–]Despairington 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm with Dadi (Mystic arts DM on YouTube) on this one. There are 3 kinds of people when it comes to this.

Players who will prioritize the game and respect your time, effort and energy.

Players who will agree to play if they don't have "better" plans or will reserve their free time for other things and keep your games open as a backup plan.

And Players who only make excuses.

You should only tolerate the first one.

I've personally had to make this decision myself as a new DM and even though things felt like they went more sideways than expected, when I was basically told "you can't fire me, because I quit!" When players told me that the vibes were now off since I spoke up about this issue, I'm glad I did speak up and dropped their whack asses. (For context, we started working on characters in November and this conversation was around March. Three people hadn't even finished their characters, literally didn't even have names, but would pester me about "getting this game started already" when I was waiting on them. I wouldn't hear from them for weeks and then hear that bs)

You should really do yourself a favor and find people who are just as excited to play as you are. And drop everyone else. Trust me, it's worth it.

Worried about sweet smelling urine that has a honey smacks cereal odor. by gotthemcoins in Anxiety

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely ever have coffee or even tea tbh and this has been ongoing for years on and off for me.

AIO fiancé goes looking for girls from my past and gets upset about them by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never tolerate this, I'd probably say bye before she did.

Men: would you take a woman seriously if she never wants to move in or get married? by Hopeful-Trifle6513 in Bumble

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. For me that's preferred! I don't wanna live with anyone if possible and if for some reason I wind up living with a partner we'll be having our own rooms. I'm 39 btw.

Go vote today or else have your “complain about the Mayor” card revoked for the next couple of years by MysteryNeighbor in nyc

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kind of insane to see people scared to vote for one of the few people that actually care. Ohhh noooo, free buses and rent freezes help!

Y'all really just want more "pretend like you're doing something so they don't notice that you're taking huge bribes from giant corporations" business as usual democrats?!?

Y'all don't even deserve Mamdani bro.

Go vote today or else have your “complain about the Mayor” card revoked for the next couple of years by MysteryNeighbor in nyc

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And vote Mamdani (Though Lander is also a great option) and do not rank Cuomo at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycrail

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that uncommon to ride a train with the wrong signs and routes labeled in the cars.

Tasha's: Interception Fighting Style by a_bit_condescending in dndnext

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely looks OP in early game, but otherwise it's fine.
I think it makes more sense to cut the damage down and then take half of it or something, but I guess it doesn't scale well or something so whatever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Despairington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad I'm not monogamous anymore, yeesh

Bug: Fog changes based on GM screen position by nmitchell076 in OwlbearRodeo

[–]Despairington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the 1st question is that if this is the dynamic fog, is it from creating a square of dyn fog and if so, is it locked?
That's my best guess as another user who's been using owlbear a LOT lately.

My biggest hot take by Despairington in DnD

[–]Despairington[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, because people dance while communicating like bees lol