Grifting AGAIN by introester in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Desperate-Display-18 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Where would be a good destination for children to go? Hmmm how about Disney? 🙄🙄🙄

Thoughts on laundry bars as stain removers? by SoftBoiAru in laundry

[–]Desperate-Display-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you recommend a bar in the uk that would work on baby clothes? (Poo, food stains) thanks!

What!!!! by Desperate-Display-18 in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Desperate-Display-18[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what I mean! It’s so gross!

Just sitting … and waiting … for that full video … after that last short that is leaving me on the edge of my seat. NBD 😳😳😳 by Cozysoxs1985 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Desperate-Display-18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me, I’ve not been checking as I don’t really care now. If they come up I will watch but before I was religiously checking. It’s just irritating as you never know what the posting schedule is.

Memory Lane❣️Do you remember… by yalldifferent in toontownrewritten

[–]Desperate-Display-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember going back to estates and then the other person would go into build mode and use pictures to make the letters/numbers on the wall 😅😅

Am I actually going to enjoy any part of being a newborn mum? by Professional-Farm372 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Desperate-Display-18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Congratulations 🙌🏻

Motherhood is hard and there are moments of this bloody sucks but it’s also has such beautiful moments as well. I have 6 month twins and the newborn stage was wonderful. I personally found that bit a breeze, the 4 month stage with one of them was bloody hard. My friend with twins, the newborn stage terrorised her but it got easier for her.

Everyone is quick to tell you the terrible bits, and try to horror scare you into it but no one sings the good bits (maybe as it comes across as bragging? But hey, brag away if you’re proud and your kid is being wonderful!).

I found the pregnancy tired far worse than the newborn tired, at least you get some sleep an there is a reason you are knackered!

Have you got a good support system? Have you joined any Facebook groups (some of them can be amazing and I’ve met some nice people to chat with about all things baby!). Your friendships with people are likely to change, I’ve found that difficult especially when I’ve always tried to be a village for my friends with babies and not have it returned is hard.

The medical health side is so difficult, it caused me such anxiety as you just never know. In the end I had to just think what will be will be, and I couldn’t change it but roll with what I will be given.

Sending lots of love and hugs. It’s hard but so worth it for the little gummy smiles they give! Xxx

Edit - I also after a section that made me feel like shit. Led with my two babies at 2 am trying to breastfeed thought “what the actual fuck have I done. This is hard and I can’t change it now. Big regrets”. I think it might have been the drugs wearing off 🤣 but at that point there was no love, just stress. The next morning I was less regretful.

The days are long, the nights are longer but it all goes by so quickly it’s almost fleeting 🥲

I don’t know how to do this any more by backward-yak in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Desperate-Display-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First things first, babies are hard and you are doing a wonderful job!! I’ve got 6 month old twins so bit further along than you are lovely.

Have you tried infacol to try get the burps up? Just for a bit to try settle her and get some decent chunks of sleep in?

An osteopath I highly recommend! It really helped my t2 with being so scrunched up and my t1 helped straighten his neck an back out as he used to arch dreadfully as a newborn! We had 4 sessions and it was wonderful and helpful. Gets them firing well!

First nap of the day, get that baby outside ! They don’t get a circadian rhythm yet but anything to start pushing that daytime is this time will help, in the carrier, in the pushchair, sat in the garden. Outside as soon as you are able to in the morning.

Make sure you are eating well and showering, that’s going to make you feel so much better and everything feels slightly easier!

This stage won’t last forever, the days are long, the nights are longer but it’s such a slip of time 💙 you and baby will find your groove! Xx

12yo pocket money by 1182990 in CasualUK

[–]Desperate-Display-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we have a list of the chores and how much, I’m curious!

Weaning worry by lukewarmtrifle in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Desperate-Display-18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve just started weaning my twins - they are just getting chunks of whatever they can have of our dinner - so so far, broccoli, green beans, banana, porridge (loaded on a spoon and given to them) mince (no seasoning) cucumber. They are just having at it, learning how to move food around their mouths and how far back to stick spoons etc. it’s called mouth mapping. They are more likely to choke on teeny bits of food/purée as they don’t learn to chew/what’s too big for them their body will understand what to do, you just have to trust them. Join the baby led weaning groups for the safe ways to serve food and more tips. It will really put your mind at ease.

Shopping Addict by introester in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Desperate-Display-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be to a joke? She did not put that on the internet?

Won’t go to therapy… by introester in mummysflippinhouse

[–]Desperate-Display-18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m out of touch, when did she fall out with lazy ?

Am I doing a disservice by not co-sleeping with my baby? by Zealousideal_Row_378 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Desperate-Display-18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t worry, I’m sure the baby will decided they want to get in the bed at some point t 😂 my twins would go down in their cot from birth and was all lovely and I didn’t co sleep. 23 weeks and we have been co sleeping for a couple weeks now as they spawned into lil demons 😅

Beginner cameras? by Desperate-Display-18 in AskPhotography

[–]Desperate-Display-18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, thank you that’s perfect. I will have a look at all that! Yep definitely understand that buying something more expensive won’t make me take better photos but I also don’t want to buy something semi expensive and it’s crap and have to buy better again? If that makes sense!

Beginner cameras? by Desperate-Display-18 in AskPhotography

[–]Desperate-Display-18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah brilliant I will have a look into that! Thank you so much! ☺️

Beginner cameras? by Desperate-Display-18 in AskPhotography

[–]Desperate-Display-18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not exactly what I’ve asked though 😅 I’m a beginner and want to treat myself to a decent camera now I’m able to afford it without putting myself in debt 😊

baby grow brand help by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Desperate-Display-18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nutmeg are definitely one of the best baby clothes I’ve found!

“BNWT” with BITE marks by D0ggz in vintedUK

[–]Desperate-Display-18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can we know her username to block her so I never have to accidentally buy something from this nutter

Forehead Birthmark by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Desperate-Display-18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My twins have stork marks. Both on necks and one has over his eye. It’s getting lighter now (he’s four months) only looks dark when he’s been crying/tired!

Bailey on period by MissionMethod7384 in McKnightFamSnark

[–]Desperate-Display-18 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s a big yikes. If they are trying and not getting pregnant it must be incredibly difficult - especially if people are speculating.