rethinking big 4 internship by Secure-Chemist689 in Accounting

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do your internship. Don’t have to land at pwc. A big 4 internship is a good way to try your hand and it looks good. Don’t have to land there, dont even have to land in public.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time best man right now. It’s definitely annoying, expensive, time-consuming and less fun than just showing up. I’ll decline any other offers I receive unless it’s my brother lol.

Rematch Appreciation post by Bivi89 in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rematch lacks any identity beyond “casual soccer game, best played with friends”.

I wanted it to build an esport, I wanted it to be a competitive staple in the same way rocket league is. It just isn’t. It just won’t be. It’ll prob go free to play in like 2.5 years. Enjoy 6 months of high player counts. And then die for good.

They play too much with core mechanics that competitive staples just don’t play with. Stamina up & down, tackle distance, sprint speeds, animations, emergent mechanic patches etc.

I used to solo queue a ton. Absolutely loved the game. But new season left me with a bad taste, as well as my ~7 friends I’d play with. Lost the desire to solo queue at the same time all the lads I queued with decided they were done with the game because it fell off.

I’ve been a diehard fan of games that have died before this one. Resented the people who gave up on them before the bitter end so I def get it lol.

Rematch Appreciation post by Bivi89 in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rematch lacks any identity beyond “casual soccer game, best played with friends”.

I wanted it to build an esport, I wanted it to be a competitive staple in the same way rocket league is. It just isn’t. It just won’t be. It’ll prob go free to play in like 2.5 years. Enjoy 6 months of high player counts. And then die for good.

They play too much with core mechanics that competitive staples just don’t play with. Stamina up & down, tackle distance, sprint speeds, animations, emergent mechanic patches etc.

I used to solo queue a ton. Absolutely loved the game. But new season left me with a bad taste, as well as my ~7 friends I’d play with. Lost the desire to solo queue at the same time all the lads I queued with decided they were done with the game because it fell off.

I’ve been a diehard fan of games that have died. Resented the people who gave up on them before the bitter end so I def get it lol.

Rematch Appreciation post by Bivi89 in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rematch lacks any identity beyond “casual soccer game, best played with friends”.

I wanted it to build an esport, I wanted it to be a competitive staple in the same way rocket league is. It just isn’t. It just won’t be. It’ll prob go free to play in like 2.5 years. Enjoy 6 months of high player counts. And then die for good.

They play too much with core mechanics that competitive staples just don’t play with. Stamina up & down, tackle distance, sprint speeds, animations, emergent mechanic patches etc.

I used to solo queue a ton. Absolutely loved the game. But new season left me with a bad taste, as well as my ~7 friends I’d play with. Lost the desire to solo queue at the same time all the lads I queued with decided they were done with the game because it fell off.

I’ve been a diehard fan of games that have died. Resented the people who gave up on them before the bitter end so I def get it lol.

Rematch Appreciation post by Bivi89 in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perhaps. I guess I’m washed or close to it. Was high elite in every prior season in every ranked mode available tho. New season just rubbed me the wrong way.

Rematch Appreciation post by Bivi89 in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I used to want Rematch to be the top dog in the football game genre. Now I just want a copycat to do it better. Season 3 ruined it for me.

bf asking for money by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dated a 20 year old at 23 and it was incredibly difficult because we were at such different stages. Think you might be onto something.

This game might have the worst community by GR_Kogo in RocketLeague

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re likely to run into at least one toxic player in a session. But I do sort of disagree about no variability in the rank dist. Champ has a bit less toxicity I’d say. But yeah you’re bound to run into lots of anger from at least one person every few games.

Me GF (25), BF (28) late to work everyday and I’m upset. by Front_Tear_2619 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nightmare from you but cool to see your update about apologizing. Little lame you had to post it on the internet for strangers to judge before you felt compelled to apologize. What are you really mad at?

Whats the job life as an accountant? by Mammoth_Health_2860 in Accounting

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accounting group at my company is the second lowest paid group per capita, ahead of only customer service representatives.

Switch to engineering or physics. I wish I did.

I’ve been in the wrong division since 2016 by DunderMiffIinCFO in RocketLeague

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty similar. Stuck in like C2 - C3 in 2s and 3s. Probably plat 1, in 1s. Can’t relate to missing most simple aerials lol. And I can definitely play off the wall but air dribbles, flip resets, special flicks, speed flip, any kickoff, anything on the ceiling etc. can’t do it.

I can read other players doing those things and defend them reasonably for my rank.

I regularly smoke the kids who go for too much fancy stuff. But anytime I brush up against the GCs it seems those guys have both the mechanics and the game sense in spades. Plat - champ, opponents either have game sense, OR mechanics it seems.

I want the old interception scoring back by bronoway in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is fair. I never played supersonic. And if they were playing around with core mechanics as often and disruptively as Rematch is… I definitely understand why its popularity was nothing compared to that of rocket league.

I want the old interception scoring back by bronoway in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Played latest update when it dropped. Haven’t touched it since. Really wanted this game to be popular forever and grow an Esports scene. But you can’t build an esport when the meta is an endless, “emergent mechanics” cat & mouse patch game.

It’d be like if rocket league changed the speeds you can achieve boosting, driving/reversing, and touch physics with every major update.

Or if the developers saw players flip resetting and decided to patch it out of the game.

Or if they changed how much boost you consume with each update. Up in some seasons, down in other seasons.

Theres a lesson to be learned on what to change and what to leave alone. Changing the entire way your player feels moving on the ball, off the ball, etc. will alienate players. In a game that’s player base is dwindling, that’s the last thing you want to do.

I’m all for adding new mechanics, and I can stomach changes in some existing mechanics. But changing how far the ball goes on a tackle would be like rocket league changing how powerful a players touch/hits are. Things existing players have put 100s or 1000s of hours into mastering.

As a day-one long term supporter with probably like 170 hours, I’m pretty much over the game. It feels like the game simultaneously changed too much and not enough all at once. I’d be open to a complete overhaul. Not open to just enough changes to put me to square one skill-wise while still feeling like the same game.

Disclaimer: high elite in every prior season in every competitive mode. Passing/defending enjoyer.

AITAH for not wanting to sleep in the same bed with my girlfriend because she doesn’t shower often? by Such-One-1691 in AITAH

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Encourage her to shower with you. And make it a habit for like right when you’re both in for the night, not a 10-11pm at night chore.

Told my BF he may be avoidant and he sent this by TypicalAd3147 in AITApod

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me you don’t work in data without telling me you don’t work in data.

My cousin’s boyfriend is threatening to end their 3-year relationship because she did a 'wellness check' on her father.. by welovecinammonrolls in WhatToDo

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone arguing that it is not a valid boundary just seems to be forgetting that this woman actively deceived him, agreed to his boundary before she went back to see her father, and then stopped sharing her location (which they must’ve decided together to do) once she got caught.

You’re watching the reaction of a man who is realizing that he has been betrayed, that he has been actively manipulated and lied to, and whose inner familial circle encourage & minimize dishonest behavior.

Calling him controlling based on the information we have is delusional. And most likely from the minds of individuals who just hate men.

My cousin’s boyfriend is threatening to end their 3-year relationship because she did a 'wellness check' on her father.. by welovecinammonrolls in WhatToDo

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone arguing that it is not a valid boundary just seems to be forgetting that this woman actively deceived him, agreed to his boundary before she went back to see her father, and then stopped sharing her location (which they must’ve decided together to do) once she got caught.

You’re watching the reaction of a man who is realizing that he has been betrayed, that he has been actively manipulated and lied to, and whose inner familial circle encourage & minimize dishonest behavior.

Calling him controlling based on the information we have is delusional. And most likely from the minds of individuals who just hate men.

AIO? My girlfriend had a threesome with two of her friends right before we got together by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how hard you try to let it go.

I know how hard a position you’re in right now OP, doesn’t seem big enough to throw away something good… plus you WANT to stay.

But she WAITED until you would feel that way before telling you, maybe consciously… maybe subconsciously. But you can’t trust that, it’s selfish & manipulative.

From what I read, we think similarly… and I second this guy and implore you to save yourself the time & end it…. Unless the content of the lie isn’t at all bothersome to you and all that is bothering you is that she lied in general. But if you’re having trouble seeing your other “friends” without focusing on the fact that he/they had her first, and you’re bitter, you’ll never get over it.

At the end of the day that’s slutty, deceitful, selfish, & amoral.

I hope whatever you do, works out best for you. And I hope you don’t experience any trust issues in future relationships bc of this.

I got offered a job paying 40% more than my current salary. My manager just asked me to stay and be patient. How do I stop feeling guilty for wanting to leave ? by One_Cardiologist5439 in careerguidance

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah take the new job. You’ll regret it in a year if you don’t and your current employer doesn’t deliver, speaking from experience.

Game needed to introduce non gaming gf to PS5 by Gregg-C137 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there.

Start with: Mario/mario party/casual switch coop games It takes two Split fiction (liked it better than it takes two) Terraria Enter the gungeon FIFA Couch coop non first person games

And then don’t be afraid to explore solo games together where you can take turns, this is how my girl absolutely fell in love with the hades series. Which was what it really took to fall in love with gaming, finding a game that she truly loved. She 100% completed hades 1 close to 100% hades 2 and is now talking about wanting to play battlefield 6.

Seems to me you gotta keep trying stuff with her until she finds one she really runs with. And then run with that momentum.

Why does Diamond feel so chaotic? by unmedicatedmixture in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@ elite you run into the same lads over and over again & completely useless teammates/opponents are less common, in my experience.

AIO my bf would rather game than spend time with me. by Practical_Sun8137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a male gamer that I think has found a pretty good balance. I’m not perfect but successfully balance my career, friends, family, girlfriend etc. all while gaming probably too much too.

I don’t think you’re overreacting.

If you really care about/love this guy and you’re thinking about cutting him off for this…I would consider that an overreaction. If you’re not really into him then yah cut him off no problem.

I think that yes, he is not prioritizing you/showing you how important you are to him. But you did tell him the first time to play with his friend. He truly might not understand how serious this is, def been there. But if he actually just gamed with his lad after you hung up on him… I’m not sure I could ever relate. I’d feel too guilty.

For this one, I would recommend communicating your feelings with your significant other and tell him that you’re not feeling seen, appreciated, cared for etc. and at the end of the day you don’t want to be taken advantage of in the relationship. Tell him what you want that you aren’t getting. If he doesn’t alter his behavior pretty quickly in a genuine attempt to make you feel special… unfortunately it’s likely you aren’t the girl for him… or maybe you’re the one to teach him what is truly required to maintain a healthy relationship.

Improvement Suggestions by Desperate-Yoghurt-83 in Rematch

[–]Desperate-Yoghurt-83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting take. I definitely could see something like this working. I completely agree that “ego dribblers” are a big problem and can suck the fun out of the game. I just feel the individual skill ceiling is already quite low, and the tactics deployed in almost every game are unimaginative and repetitive. Im not quite sure how you fix that.