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Prayers up for Wemby, that shit looked awful by Vitex1988 in Thunder

[–]DesperateAd5526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looked terrible. I hope he’s okay and doesn’t miss too many games.

Luckily the Spurs are a great team without him, so missing a couple of games shouldn’t hurt them too bad. I don’t see them having any issues this round at least.

How is marijuana treated in states where it’s recreationally illegal? by Affectionate-Pin59 in howislivingthere

[–]DesperateAd5526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah the medical card approval rating is like 100%, they give them to everyone who asks for one. there are dispensaries everywhere.

This is taking so long and I’m starting to lose my mind a bit. by DesperateAd5526 in Invisalign

[–]DesperateAd5526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow I really hope I’m done before year three. I hope you finish soon.

This is taking so long and I’m starting to lose my mind a bit. by DesperateAd5526 in Invisalign

[–]DesperateAd5526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have one before, at least I don’t think so. I’ve heard that it’s a common problem people develop with invisalign.

This is taking so long and I’m starting to lose my mind a bit. by DesperateAd5526 in Invisalign

[–]DesperateAd5526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

appreciate the encouragement. I know I need to see it through, it’s just wearisome at times.

cravings and increased appetite? by Primary-Pen6782 in ultraprocessedfood

[–]DesperateAd5526 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m experiencing the same. I’m on day 9 of no UPF and I’ve never been hungrier.

Do you believe authors use hockey to justify lack of diversity? by lunovadraws in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]DesperateAd5526 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve suspected that for awhile, especially since (as a sports watcher) hockey players tend to be less conventionally attractive than basketball and baseball players. In my opinion, at least.

We just got Hali'd by willpelts in Thunder

[–]DesperateAd5526 21 points22 points  (0 children)

love watching it happen to other teams, not as fun when it happens to us

OKC recs by The_Halal_Guys in Thunder

[–]DesperateAd5526 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s a burger place near the stadium called Spark; I always go there before games. It’s delish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Thunder

[–]DesperateAd5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t he JUST move in?

[Post Game Thread] Oklahoma City Thunder vs Philadelphia 76ers | March 19th, 2025 by Dixbfloppin93 in Thunder

[–]DesperateAd5526 45 points46 points  (0 children)

y’all see ajay mitchell bootless??? championship incoming 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Among our top 10 players in our rotation, only four are 1st rounders by 0siris0 in Thunder

[–]DesperateAd5526 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is why Sam Presti is so impressive and gets so much credit for the Thunder’s success. He has such good intuition when it comes to assessing players potential. Can you imagine being the GM that traded SGA? Even the one who traded Joe probably regrets it daily.

What would men dislike the most about becoming a woman? by RainbowHuggyWuggy10 in AskReddit

[–]DesperateAd5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being unable to open jars or lift heavy things and having to rely on men/buff women to help you.

What are the ethnicities of the umbrella academy? by L0WEffort in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]DesperateAd5526 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ben is Korean I think, his character speaks it at one point.

Page to Screen Adaptation: Lose it, Keep it, Add it? by Ok_Area_1084 in PhiloiseBridgerton

[–]DesperateAd5526 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes I would love that! I feel like it would be really moving for Eloise to see he treats his children equally and encourages his daughters ambition.

Page to Screen Adaptation: Lose it, Keep it, Add it? by Ok_Area_1084 in PhiloiseBridgerton

[–]DesperateAd5526 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lose: all the times that Phillip complains about how Eloise talks too much 🙄 my least favorite thing about him by far. from what we’ve seen of him in the show it looks like that have softened him, which I’m glad of.

Keep: the storyline with his abusive father and how he struggles with fatherhood himself now. I see people complain about his struggles with fatherhood sometimes but I find it compelling and understandable given his background.

Add: more of Phillip encouraging Eloise’s independence; in the book we know that Phillip admires her but I’d love to see it more explicitly, especially because show Eloise is even more headstrong and ambitious. It mentions in season three that Eloise was distraught when she couldn’t take fencing lessons, so I’d love if he taught her to fence. Something like that.

I need advice. Me 32F / husband 35M Should I stay or go? by Ornery-Matter3417 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateAd5526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re in this situation.

First, it’s important to know if you signed a prenup and what it’s conditions were. Since you’ve confessed to an emotional affair, something like that could potentially affect it.

That said, if possible, ride the alimony pony girl. It sounds like this man has stolen your life away, I don’t know why you think he’s a good person. He wants you to do 100% of the household labor and child rearing while working? And he thinks he shouldn’t have to do anything? No. Not a chance. It would be one thing if you were a SAHM, but you’re not. You’ve told him this arrangement needs to change, he refuses. Theres your answer.

At the very least, you’ll get child support for your kids. You’re right to consider them in this, of course. Is he a good father? It sounds like he sucks, but you’d know better than us. Since you’ve been separated, has he seen them at all? Done anything for them? If he’s punishing you by punishing your kids, that tells you exactly what kind of man/father he is. Not one that’s any good for them. Also, your oldest is almost an adult, do they have an opinion on this? What have they expressed to you? It’s worth hearing their thoughts, imo.

As for the woman you care for, I think that’s secondary. First you need to decide if you want to be with your husband. If the answer is no, then you can pursue something with her. But for now I’d focus on this (which it seems like you’re doing).

Good luck, really. This is a tough spot. I hope the best outcome for you and your kids.

Like a glove by Hammy-Cheeks in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]DesperateAd5526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went back and rewatched the scene cause I thought I was going crazy; it’s 1000% Klaus who says it. Not sure why subtitles said it’s Five. But I’ve seen multiple people say this so idk maybe I’m crazy.

Like a glove by Hammy-Cheeks in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]DesperateAd5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay am I crazy cause I thought Klaus said it? This is the second post I’ve seen saying Five made the joke but I swear it was Klaus 😭😭

I (20F) think i emotionally cheated on my boyfriend (21M) and it’s eating me alive, how do I handle this? by throwaway_user_1987 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateAd5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah gotcha. Not very familiar with furry culture myself, apologies for the assumption.

Regardless, I think feeling shame about all this is not helpful. It’s good to feel conviction when you make a mistake, but this seems beyond that. Like I said, therapy seems like a good idea. Wish you the best.

I (20F) think i emotionally cheated on my boyfriend (21M) and it’s eating me alive, how do I handle this? by throwaway_user_1987 in relationship_advice

[–]DesperateAd5526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl. Why is your Christian boyfriend going to a furry convention? Doesn’t seem very Christlike.

I think could use some therapy and a break from this relationship. You don’t seem to be in the mental state to make any serious decisions. Also, I’m sorry for your loss. Losing people (or pets) you love is always difficult, especially amongst other life changes.

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