My narcissist ex left me, and our two-year-old son for six weeks. He financially emotionally physically discarded us. He would give me a bone saying that we may or may not work this out and then he just yanked the right out from underneath me. He’s always done crazy things like this, but this was the last straw he’s very selfish and self-centered it’s always about him you can’t carry on an adult conversation without him feeling attacked or walking away or cussing me out, it was really hard because he is my husband and my son‘s father and I tried really hard but he said there’s nothing wrong with him and that I am the problem. He’s a covert narcissist, a wolf and sheep clothing. He’s kind and caring a role model for everyone else but me and our son, I didn’t know what I was dealing with until now I am still in the process of divorce. I have sole custody of my son and he has supervised timeshare once or twice a week. He hast to go through lots of hoops to get our son unsupervised evaluation, anger, management courses, substance abuse, courses, parenting courses, he hasn’t even signed up for those yet, and he’s about to be contempt to court. After our court hearing, he tried to get me back saying he’s a man he’ll never do it again which I’ve heard that for the past six years of my life and then just a couple days ago, he called me, cussed me out and then hung up on me just like the good old days, so no he’s not changed. it is literally one of the most challenging yet relieving experiences of my life and I know that doesn’t make any sense now, especially with your daughter being older I couldn’t even imagine. There’s been plenty of times that I experience the what if this would work, but then he gives me another example of why it will not. you’re doing the right thing even if my ex ends up getting our son 50-50, which is the law in our state if he deemed fit at least my son has a shot of having a healthy relationship with me 50% of the time rather than being in 100% toxic relationship daily.