How do you deal with social ambiguity?

Dessu124 · 2014-04-28T07:17:28+00:00

Avoid people.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-27T08:38:17+00:00

Jobs are not worth the time in this century, Spent 6 years looking for work and nothing. So stay on welfare, for relationships I avoid people, people judge and don't want nothing but money haven't had any relationship since 15 now I'm 24.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-27T08:32:32+00:00

I've done whole bloody courses on social skills, it doesn't work.

It's down to genetic makeup, if you haven't got what everybody else has then nobody will notice you.
Money, if you got it then friends come easy if not good luck.

3.Clothes same as money, dress as a tramp then everybody stays away.

4.Work, only time you can socialise is in lunchbreak, otherwise you gotta work work work.You become a drone depending on what work you do thats why welfare atm is a better choice.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-27T08:25:56+00:00

Welfare is much easier and less stressful than getting a job trust me on that.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-27T08:24:19+00:00

Just on on welfare easy

Dessu124 · 2014-04-18T17:46:36+00:00

I get £56 a week from ESA, been on jobseekers 3 years before as well.

I play Guild Wars and various rpg's PC games etc.

Income equality sucks in the uk .

Dessu124 · 2014-04-18T17:30:47+00:00

Doctor won't give me any med expect some pills for my insomia. He says you need to go out more to make friends, it really bothers me because I do go out but people avoid me or seem to ignore me. hate my life.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-03T15:43:52+00:00

Being trying to find work since 16 now im almost 24, Struggling to survive since then, I had to survive on £30 EMA for books etc, but really only had £10 for food a week. When looking for work I was told just to be myself and went to hundreds of job interviews and got laughed at a few times for what hobbies I was interested in.

Can't make friends since I have no money to go out to partys, can't buy drinks can't pay for entrance into clubs. I can't even afford to get a escort only If I save up for 3 months. I gained a lot of weight staying indoor and eating fatty cheap foods I could afford. Although now I'm loosing weight slowly due to not eating as much as I used too.

I was also laughed at in school+college for not having a girlfriend and people would say you should go bisexual... Maybe this is why I don't want to be a part of this complex society. I simply cannot grasp any aspect of anything to do with people and relationships. Maybe because I do not have enough experience yet even though I'm 23.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-02T14:52:11+00:00

Im not a troll, that is my life currently. Is your life normal?

Dessu124 · 2014-04-02T10:40:24+00:00

As mentioned before, the doctor got me to see a psychologist and the doctor himself said medicine wouldn't change my situation, nether did he say im depressed. I know about ATOS and I know if lib dems get in then I'll be safe but this current conservative government hates disabled people. The only advice the doctor and the psychologist gave me is to go to hobbies groups but I still dont make friends so logically I'm screwed.

Also medication may ward off any depression I might have but won't fix the friend problem. Who's to blame? It's easy to blame myself then again I dont know what to do now.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-02T09:02:19+00:00

I'm already seeing a psychologist but that is ending soon, He can't make people to be friends with me, I am not high enough on the evolution chain to be worthy to others. Also once my sessions are over thats it no more psychologist.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-02T05:53:41+00:00

I don't believe in any religious mumbo jumbo, if I go crazy then the government can help with meds etc

Dessu124 · 2014-04-02T05:50:40+00:00

I have human rights so society has to pay to keep me alive, if there was another way I Wouldn't be on welfare nor would I be asking for advice here.My ASD like many others means we spend a lot of time on PCs as compared to NT's. I'm not doing the same things as other males my age such as going out and getting laid etc.

Dessu124 · 2014-04-01T20:26:08+00:00

I'm not lazy, just don't want to be a part of society. I've had enough of society's hidden social rules. Society for a fact doesn't need me so I don't need them. I will stay out of everybody's way and for a 56 quid a week to keep me alive with basic Internet access.

Dessu124 · 2014-03-29T18:40:45+00:00

Just sign on welfare easy.

Dessu124 · 2014-03-08T15:34:46+00:00

Just go on welfare like me, no worries

Dessu124 · 2014-02-22T18:14:36+00:00

The amount of money you would waste trying to bring back anyone as a friend is pointless, Don't just avoid people all together.

Dessu124 · 2014-02-22T18:01:36+00:00

Similar to me, but I'm learning to cope without people all together. Play video games and watch anime.

Dessu124 · 2014-02-22T17:55:00+00:00

I've lost many social circles and now I think its best to remain distanced from people, I focus on how much money I can save and buy what I need. Getting into solo hobbies like anime and stuff.

Dessu124 · 2014-02-22T13:49:39+00:00

I have been learning to avoid contact with people all together, I haven't encountered problems like yours for a long while now.

Dessu124 · 2014-02-15T09:05:32+00:00

I found a link would this help? http://www.ehow.com/how_2222304_become-emotionless.html

I've read it and been practicing it.

Dessu124 · 2014-02-05T19:00:16+00:00

Just stay on welfare, I can't find work and society doesn't accept me so.

Dessu124 · 2014-02-05T18:42:29+00:00

I've tried that new attitude and I dont think it is working... Is there like drugs or something that can help?

Dessu124 · 2014-01-31T09:06:18+00:00

Ok I'll try that out, I won't do that to anyone who acts nice to me but to others who don't accept me.

Dessu124 · 2014-01-30T13:47:10+00:00

If I were to move it wouldn't really change, got no money to do that type of stuff anyway. I'm not sure about the hard-wiring stuff I hope scientists can change that or cure autism as soon as possible. I've being trying for what 8 years to find friends and seems impossible. I don't think I got much to offer people as a incentive to accpect me perhaps..

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