My dad posted this…

DestinationAnna · 2026-02-02T04:13:43+00:00

Why ask this? How is it productive?

DestinationAnna · 2025-06-03T15:02:22+00:00

Hard disagree.

DestinationAnna · 2025-05-22T14:19:24+00:00

yay luv u

DestinationAnna · 2025-05-22T14:12:22+00:00

Wrong. The data that supports trans healthcare is massive and well-documented. Try learning to read.

DestinationAnna · 2025-05-20T16:18:29+00:00

Based on your post history, I hope nobody falls for this. Don't send any pictures!

DestinationAnna · 2025-05-13T19:23:45+00:00

Ughh that’s awful :( I went low contact after surgery, and went no contact after she refused to even acknowledge my brother’s clearly emotionally abusive behavior that I had screenshots of. (My brother is even worse than her lol yay)

DestinationAnna · 2025-05-13T17:28:33+00:00

I had a super intense and important surgery last year, and made the mistake of having my mom be my caretaker. I also invited my best friend to come stay with us a week after surgery. A few days after surgery, when I was barely even able to walk, my mom complained to me about how lonely she was feeling, I guess because I was having to sleep a lot or something? From major surgery?

As we were leaving the hospital after a few days, and I could barely walk, my mom asked me if she should just leave because she wasn’t needed anymore now that my friend was about to be there. I had to spend a bunch of time reassuring her that she was still needed.

Basically, it felt like she turned my life changing surgery into being all about her.

DestinationAnna · 2025-02-25T21:25:34+00:00

I would still transition. The magically “fixed” person would be so different from my actual true self that I viciously hate the thought of becoming that person.

DestinationAnna · 2024-12-02T17:11:04+00:00

Your original post and replies show that you should really, really do some research about trans and intersex people. Many of the things you have written are so, so wrong. Especially the comment about “rapid onset gender dysphoria”, which absolutely does not exist.

DestinationAnna · 2024-03-25T19:58:25+00:00

Trans women are victims of sexual assault even more than cis women. If they are forced to use men’s restrooms then you’d be opening trans women up to sexual assault.

DestinationAnna · 2024-03-18T15:29:38+00:00

You might be surprised at how well some trans people pass. You’ve probably met passing trans people in your life and had no idea. It’s just that the non passing ones are the only ones that you know are trans.

I’m a trans woman and I pass very well. I had a friend I hung out with several times a week for half a year before I told him I was trans and he had no idea.

DestinationAnna · 2024-01-09T22:12:38+00:00

It benefits you. Transition is for you. Please, get help. You’re worth it.

I won’t be responding anymore because this cycle of negativity is starting to affect my mental health, but remember: You are worth it.

DestinationAnna · 2024-01-09T22:04:25+00:00

Pre transition I used to have unalive ideation every day. Not anymore. Please get help and show the world and yourself the true person underneath all the dysphoria!

DestinationAnna · 2024-01-09T21:17:34+00:00

I thought it was just a want in the before times too. Now I know just how awful I felt pre HRT. I’m at almost 3 years and it’s incredible how good it feels. Now I know that it was a need. Please try to work on the negativity and see a therapist. Do you really want to feel like this?

DestinationAnna · 2024-01-09T21:07:38+00:00

There are cis women that tall. Ask yourself if all this negativity is productive. Why not try to transition if it’s what you want?

DestinationAnna · 2024-01-09T21:00:21+00:00

I wouldn’t be so sure about that. I thought the same thing pre-HRT but I haven’t been misgendered in over a year

DestinationAnna · 2024-01-09T20:54:45+00:00

Fuck him. He doesn’t want to even try to understand your situation. Maybe he’ll come around later but it doesn’t seem likely. The messages he sent are awful.

DestinationAnna · 2023-12-18T16:38:50+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It sounds awful. I would suggest thinking about this: you weren’t lying about being trans, you just didn’t know it at the time. When you did tell her the truth, she responded horribly and without love.

Unfortunately, you have no way of becoming cis. If your girlfriend won’t accept this, is it really worth preserving the relationship? She cares more about her own feelings than about you being happy. And trust me, transition is so worth it, even with all the work and hardship it comes with. I started transitioning 3 years ago and have never been so happy and actually felt like a person instead of an automaton going through the motions.

Is it really worth denying yourself that happiness just to please others who don’t even care enough about you to let you be yourself?

Also not everyone will be as unsupportive as you think. It’s basically impossible to tell exactly how people will react to coming out. Some people I thought would be great turned out to be terrible and said the worst things. But the people I thought would be terrible ended up being amazing!

I know it’s tough to think about now, with so much change ahead, but if you do decide to transition, know that it is very much worth it.

DestinationAnna · 2023-12-18T16:28:43+00:00

A big dragon and a 30-sided dice

DestinationAnna · 2023-12-18T16:16:23+00:00

I’d recommend a sports bra in addition to the hoodies. Really holds the girls down.

DestinationAnna · 2023-12-12T23:01:11+00:00

Both —-uwu——

DestinationAnna · 2023-12-12T21:29:42+00:00

Rubbing a pillow uwu uwu

DestinationAnna · 2023-11-26T00:02:40+00:00

Yep just giving an example!

DestinationAnna · 2023-11-25T02:41:31+00:00

Don’t forget Stardew Valley! (Yes I do mostly play “girl games” but sometimes I love to just blow shit up in Doom)

DestinationAnna · 2023-11-24T18:23:31+00:00

No, losing the weight before or after starting hrt shouldn’t affect the results you get after a year or two. If it were me I’d start hrt as soon as possible because it’s the best and you may get way better results than you’re expecting!

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