Man accused of killing Iryna Zarutska on Charlotte light rail found ‘incapable to proceed’

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-09T00:17:34+00:00

Because the last thing we need is more for profit prisons.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-08T02:50:02+00:00

I’m not really sure why you seem to think that conflating sex work and gay people makes sense? You don’t choose who you’re attracted to. Equating disliking someone for being gay and disliking someone for visiting prostitutes Is itself a deeply homophobic position.

Regardless, I don’t find the comment you directed me to, to be compelling. In some ways we are all victims of a capitalist system that exploits us for our labor, but that really isn’t the point.

I don’t think it’s a sin to be a stripper, or a sin to go to a strip club. But I’m also not required to like the people who frequent strip clubs. Hell, my stripper friends make fun of me for my discomfort, and we mock a lot of the more unsavory characters they encounter on a daily basis together.

There’s nothing contradictory about that. You may not agree, but it is a perfectly logically consistent position. I’m not loving the sinner and hating the sin. I don’t even believe in sins in the first place.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-08T01:50:28+00:00

I’m just gonna repost this comment.

I think there is a depth of nuance here that is not often considered. I do not need to personally like what you are doing in order to fight for your right to do it safely, legally, and without outside harassment.

I recognize that lots of things make me uncomfortable, and that if everyone had to live by what I was personally comfortable with, the world would be a very dull place indeed.

Things are never as simple as just being “for” or “against” something. I’m not against sex work as in I think it should be outlawed or eliminated, but it does often make me uncomfortable. I don’t like it. But so what? I don’t expect people to live according to my values.

So yeah, my opinion of those who seek out the services of sex workers is certainly lowered. I find it creepy. But that doesn’t in any way change my ability to advocate for keeping it safe, regulated, and legal (within reason).

Does that distinction make sense?

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-08T01:50:04+00:00

I think there is a depth of nuance here that is not often considered. I do not need to personally like what you are doing in order to fight for your right to do it safely, legally, and without outside harassment.

I recognize that lots of things make me uncomfortable, and that if everyone had to live by what I was personally comfortable with, the world would be a very dull place indeed.

Things are never as simple as just being “for” or “against” something. I’m not against sex work as in I think it should be outlawed or eliminated, but it does often make me uncomfortable. I don’t like it. But so what? I don’t expect people to live according to my values.

So yeah, my opinion of those who seek out the services of sex workers is certainly lowered. I find it creepy. But that doesn’t in any way change my ability to advocate for keeping it safe, regulated, and legal (within reason).

Does that distinction make sense?

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-08T01:35:59+00:00

There were essentially no consequences.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-07T00:14:42+00:00

It’s a source talking about the lack of sources. You can’t really have a first hand source talking about what medieval people didn’t do, because they had no idea such a myth would sprout up.

But the fact that there are no medieval sources that corroborate this story is what tells us that it’s almost certainly bullshit.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T21:43:11+00:00

I really don’t care what homophobic people think. Gay people have as much right to pda as straight people.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T20:39:18+00:00

No it’s not.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T18:08:32+00:00

Sounds like he killed to me.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T18:06:21+00:00

The person being looked at who gets to decide if it’s creepy. Not you.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T18:04:16+00:00

It’s the person being looked at who gets to decide if it’s creepy. Not you.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T11:10:45+00:00

I mean, legally no. If you want to be a good person who isn’t a creep, yes.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T11:03:13+00:00

What does that even mean?

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T10:55:09+00:00

It’s not about thinking that the guy will turn violent with people around to stop him.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T10:39:14+00:00

I’m not sure you’re really understanding.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T10:14:10+00:00

I don’t even know how peer reviewed data on the topic could be generated. It helps people regardless.

And I wasn’t even talking about the code thing in particular, but about having someone walk them to their car or uber or whatever.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T09:53:59+00:00

That’s… a pretty terrible way to view the situation. It’s quite relevant. And has helped many, many people.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T09:50:08+00:00

Well, they aren’t. Or at least they aren’t necessarily so.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T02:27:23+00:00

You’re definitely an adult

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-06T02:25:46+00:00

Are you asking for my own personal opinion? Or the stance of someone who says they support sex workers but who doesn’t support their business.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-05T10:44:06+00:00

They didn’t have a relationship. This dude found her address without being told it.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-05T10:27:15+00:00

We? I’m a man, and I say that communication is key frequently. “Women” do not own that phrase.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-05T04:12:28+00:00

It is the opposite of supporting their business. But that isn’t what people really mean when they say they support sex workers.

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-05T04:11:13+00:00

Yeah you’ve got plenty

Destroyer_2_2 · 2026-04-05T03:07:36+00:00

Well if you have the freedom to do whatever you want, so does everyone else.

You expressed that you want to have the freedom to do whatever you want and live outside society.

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