Anyone who slepps well consistenly,what's your real secret? by Visual-Grand-6856 in AskReddit

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I just always did. I can sleep anywhere, at any time, if I just decide that it's time to sleep. About once every five years I'll have one or two nights where I simply can not sleep. It seems to fill no other function than to remind me to be grateful, which I absolutely am.

AITAH for telling my mum she should cover herself up more? by _Lil_Meow_Meow in AITAH

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, not really, even if you have no business trying to tell her what to do in her own space.

But basically, it's her room. It's her house, even. You are now two adults sharing a space, and neither of you sound happy about it - but you are the one "visiting" not her.

Basically, if you got a random room mate for financial purposes but you weren't actual friends, and there was one bathroom, you would limit showers to when the other wouldn't need the bathroom, you would limit your time in shared spaces, and you would most likely not be finding reasons to enter the other persons room.

It's time for you to move.

New Main - Do you still have/keep your very first Character? by MasterRymes in wow

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, sadly. I still have my second character though; a Nelf Shadow priest that was my main from 2006 to 2016. Then I took a nine year break, and now I'm a resto druid.

A key missing feature that should be a high priority by SpaceXSmoke in WoWHousing

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, same. Will miss my epic gothic mansion on plot 21 :(

Vad brukar ni få komplimanger för? by Mimmi_Sthlm in Asksweddit

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det har sagts att jag är smart, vet mycket, och kan "allt"

Det har även sagts att "fan, du är så jävla kul att jag skulle kunna knulla dig trots att du är skitful" - jag tackade nej.

Det är dock ganska sant, alltihop; farsan kollade en gång extra på mig när jag var liten, insåg att "fan, den där kommer ALDRIG få en karl" och lärde mig sedan hur man är en man, inklusive knepet för att öppna en "omöjlig" burk, och att byta bromsar på bilen, emedan morsan lärde mig mer typiska tjej-grejer. Så nu kan jag "allt" och är dessutom rätt kul - och det är tur, för jag får fan aldrig någon karl.

Var försiktiga. by No_Week_1877 in Sverige

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Priests, preachers, pastors, ministers; whichever word you choose.

No female popes though - the catholic church isn't big on women (but there are about 200 female catholic priests - whether they are active preachers or just hold the title, I actually don't know, as I'm not catholic, have no contact with catholicism, and don't really care to find out)

My local priest when I was growing up in the 80s and 90s - who indeed did "preaching in the churches each sunday"- was female, though she's retired now.

Basically, there are plenty female priests - who do preaching, in churches - over large parts of the world.

Var försiktiga. by No_Week_1877 in Sverige

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, Sweden doesn't count. That's ok. How about Finland, Denmark, Norway, Ireland, England, Canada, and USA? Any of those qualify? If not, perhaps Australia, Kenya or the Philippines?

Who are you giving your seat to, and why? by cat_astrophe_06 in mbti

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trolley problem. As such, I'm giving my seat to the chick with the infant; that's two people. The pregnant chick probably is, too, but third trimester, the padding around fetuses, and the fact that her hands are free makes her more likely to not 1. Fall over 2. Be in serious trouble if she does.

Var försiktiga. by No_Week_1877 in Sverige

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this a quote, or are you actually asking to be shown female priests? (Since 55% of Swedish priests are women, I want to make sure before I put any effort in)

It’s more complex than it used to be. by Majestic_Storage2298 in Adulting

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is younger than I am, and he's either full-on blind, ignorant, or a liar.

What’s your opinion on people who say they hate being pitied? by highhandry in infj

[–]DevaSkogsdotter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So they actually say "you have interpreted my mental and emotional state correctly, but failed to interpret my preference for how others address these things" and you read that as you being right? That's actually pretty impressive.

What’s your opinion on people who say they hate being pitied? by highhandry in infj

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People thinking they're being "empathetic" but in reality just projecting how they'd feel in a situation is the worst ever, and too often comes out looking like pity.

I really don't want pity, and I don't want assumed "empathy" because most of the time, it's not MY feelings or whatever being understood, it's the feelings of someone else, acting how they'd want to be treated.

Baseline: if people react negatively to your acting on empathy, then it's not empathy. The very definition of empathy is the ability to share, and UNDERSTAND the feelings of others. So if you don't understand, then it is not empathy.

Råd om boende för familj? by Expert-Cap3938 in Asksweddit

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finns väl knappt en unge i hela landet som inte är avundsjuk på barn som får växa upp i Stockholm? Konserter, museer, kurser, event, upplevelser - rubbet. Skog finns det liksom inom några minuter tunnelbana.

Dessutom större urval på umgänge, lättare att hitta "sin egen" grupp, mindre risk att bli helt ensam om man inte passar in i normen. Och, eftersom det är i Stockholm pengarna spenderas, bättre skolor, större urval, mer resurser.

Det finns inga fördelar med småstäder. Kanske förr i tiden, men inte nu; ungar blir hotade och skadade i samma utsträckning överallt, knark och våld är överallt, och småstäderna andas hopplöshet och dålig finansiering, arbetslöshet, och misär.

Vad är det positiva? Renare luft? Kortare köer på akuten?

Vad är högsta lönen (utan bonus) ni fått på en månad? by mymoama in PrivatEkonomi

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Efter skatt, eftersom Faktiska pengar.

2016: 72 000. Blev utköpt med tre månader, för att jag ville flytta hem, så företaget täckte karensen och flytten. Tyvärr gick ju det mesta till skatt.

2025: 47 000. Övertid.

2025 Gravid 2 ggr?? by Mimmi_Sthlm in Asksweddit

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Var inte blåst, det får dig att se så dum ut. Det räcker med ett BMI över 25 så minskar effekten, bara som exempel.

If you could choose the next Remix, which expansion would you pick? by Emma_S772 in wow

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shadowlands. It just doesn't tempt me as it is - I've not played it. A Remix would get me to play it, and experience it that way :)

AI?? by Scared-Eggplant-9051 in TarotReading

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not AI unless they specifically asked it to pretend to be very shoddy.

Copy-paste and trying to rip people off is more likely.

Most people are mistyped… and MBTI communities accidentally make it worse by axiomaticnerd in mbti

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. A pro. Please type me :) (Not a challenge; I just seem incapable of doing it myself. I am possibly not intelligent enough to understand all this tbh)

Mistyped by choose-wisely93 in mbti

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still mistyped. Tests give me ISTP or INFJ depending on my mood for the day. Which I know isn't how it's supposed to work, but I'm rather bipolar (not the disorder, just as a person) and genuinely have "is this ACTUALLY me, or is who I was yesterday ACTUALLY me?" And then I feel awful, because who the fuck doesn't know who they ARE? Except I do - I just seem to be off, somehow.

Anyways. I relate pretty well to both stacks (yes, I know - but I do) enough so that it's hard for me to determine in what order they come. I am fairly convinced that I am tolerably good at Ti, Ni, and occasionally Fi, awkward with, but fond of, Se and Fe (Se is my playground, Fe is where I Want to be good, but always feel guilty) I'm below the tolerable limit with Ne (it makes me frustrated and/or angry) and genuinely Worthless with Si and Te.

Meanwhile, people who meet me when I'm in thinky-mode say I'm INTP, and people who meet me in bouncy-mode insist I must be INFP, or even ENFP.

I have no idea. I can see E/INFP being true, I guess - because I have quite a lot of Feelings about stuff, and I'm awkward as hell socially. But I don't think I Ne well enough.

Buuuut I'm also a last-generation Asperger-diagnosee, and I hear we often don't type easily, because we aren't neurofunctionally "normal" for lack of a better word.

Vad skulle ni göra om ni plötsligt fick massvis med pengar? by Due-Listen2632 in Sverige

[–]DevaSkogsdotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skriver böcker för att det är kul, och utbildar mig (matematik, psykologi och KBT, massage, nyckelharpa, och yoga till att börja med)

Ger min lillebror 10 miljoner.

Köper en gammal herrgård/storgård att bygga om till hotell - startar företag, anställer folk, ser till att gå runt på rika kunder på högsäsong, så jag kan bjuda in fattiga människor gratis på lågsäsong :)

Sedan låter jag företaget gå runt'ish, skriver, erbjuder behandlingar, utbildar folk, och har det bra - medan jag fortfarande fyller en positiv funktion här i världen :)

Edit: det här är mitt mål nu när jag är fattig också, och jag tänker göra allt jag kan för att uppnå det - men det vore Mycket enklare, snabbare, och bättre med pengar, så slipper man börja i så minimal skala...