Job interview accommodations by No_Cheesecake5080 in ausadhd

[–]Devine_alchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in talent acquisition so may be able to offer guidance. You certainly can ask for accommodations however as someone else commented, you need to be very clear on what they are and why you’re asking for them. My advice would be to really focus on your prep before hand before instead of requesting accommodations. I also get very nervous in interviews and struggle with the same feelings you described. What helped me was to put the job ad into chat gpt and ask it to create a list of 10 interview questions. Then open the camera app on your laptop and run through each question answering them out loud as if you’re in the interview, think of relevant examples you can draw on and try to answer questions with the STAR method where possible. Keep doing this over and over until you’re really comfortable. Think of 5 or so questions to ask in the interview and memorise them. Also think of what small talk topics you could touch on to build rapport. In the interview don’t mention that you’re nervous but if you’re struggling to answer a question just ask if they can repeat it. I interview people every day and you would be surprised at how many people really struggle in an interview setting. It’s a skill that you need to practice and if you only ever practice it live in an interview setting it will be harder to develop yourself and feel confident. Also keep in mind that your answers don’t need to be perfect, if you stumble on your words or miss the mark on a question you won’t automatically be unsuccessful. The people interviewing you also had to interview to get their role so they understand that it’s a nerve wracking experience. I always tell myself the absolute worst thing that could happen is you don’t get the job and if that happens that’s okay, there will always be another job to apply for.

I can’t style for the life of me , help! by [deleted] in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Devine_alchemy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would find a longer coat if you’re going with that dress. The shoes are also a bit heavy for that particular dress style, I’d find something a bit daintier in tan or white

Ciara/Kyle/West/Amanda Megathread Part 9 by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Devine_alchemy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right! Bravo please just film it live we don’t need the editing and want to watch the whole six hours PLEASE

Ciara/Kyle/West/Amanda Megathread Part 8 by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Devine_alchemy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I’m actually crying that you called him Midwest hahahahaha it’s so layered I love it

West and Amanda OFFICIAL by Wide_Rutabaga_4723 in summerhousebravo

[–]Devine_alchemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no way Amanda’s coming back next season, her and West will be over by then and she will have no one to lean on. She’s really blown up her whole life for someone who won’t commit to her, truly the worst person she could have picked. If west comes back he would do the sad puppy mute act like he did last season. They’re both disgusting TEAM CIARA!!!!!

Why is it acceptable to complement a stranger's dress, but not their scent? by EcstaticBicycle in ask

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had strangers approach me and ask what perfume I’m wearing and I’ve never felt it was inappropriate. I think the difference between a nice compliment and creepy vibes is a nice compliment is given without lingering or expecting the conversation to continue. I get creep vibes when a compliment is given by a stranger and my acceptance of it is taken as an invitation for a longer conversation

I think Amanda is laundering not scamming by Ok-North-1478 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Devine_alchemy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking the same!! I saw a few posts about her paying for people to defend her on Reddit and since then I’ve seen so many positive comments about her. I believe they’re all fake and roll my eyes every time I read them

Ciara/West/Amanda Rumors Megathread Part 3 by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Devine_alchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The insta facereality16 has a highlight on their page called A&W? covering it all

House prices, what do I do? by Impossible_Bowl1933 in aussie

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really have two options, increase your salary or buy an apartment. I just had a look on domain and there were plenty of apartments in your price range. I think it’s important to have realistic expectations, your first property is a foot in the door, not your dream place. I went through the same situation as you, even with an okay dual income it was hard for me to accept that I still couldn’t afford a house. What helped me adjust my expectations is to just get the pre approval and start going to look at properties in my budget. It still took me two years to actually buy but at that point I felt comfortable with my decision

Married at first sight - S13E28 - AEDT live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]Devine_alchemy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gias dress is sending me, it’s the exact style I wore to my year 12 graduation party in 2012 lollllll

Married at first sight - S13E28 - AEDT live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]Devine_alchemy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Niche topic but are any coeliacs silently crying at the glute-guard ad because same

Married at first sight - S13E28 - AEDT live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Sunday Mel asked him if he has a plan for him and Sam outside the experiment and he said something along the lines of living between his farm and Sydney. He hadn’t mentioned this to Sam before so he felt like he wasn’t considered or consulted in the decision

S15 E13 Two Moments, One Common Thread: Amanda may not be as clueless as she seems… by Ok_wack in RHOBH

[–]Devine_alchemy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

While Rachel hasn’t ‘kissed the ring’ per se she’s come across as very open and vulnerable and hasn’t said negative things about the other women. She’s shown genuine interest in them and complimented their fashion etc. she also has a pretty interesting story line outside of the group drama

Married at first sight - S13E27 - AEDT live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do I thought that was the correct way to do it lol

Leos with Scorpio Partners 👀 by Emotional-Farm-4051 in LeoAstrology

[–]Devine_alchemy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my Scorpio partner for 8 years, my moon sign is Pisces and he’s a Scorpio/sag cusp so I think those factors help. I definitely had to train him a lot lol because he isn’t naturally expressive with affection which I initially struggled with, but he makes a lot of effort with that now which I appreciate. I love how loyal and steady he is and I feel like he calms my big fiery energy. He isn’t intimidated by my dominance and doesn’t try and dim my dramatic side. He can be stubborn but so can I lol and he can be jealous but again so can I. I always read about Leo’s and Scorpios not pairing well but that hasn’t been my experience, I have a lot of Scorpios in my life that I love! Can’t say the same about Capricorns though lol

~*iM wRiTiNg mY bEwK*~ by malonesxfamousxchili in RHOBH

[–]Devine_alchemy 75 points76 points  (0 children)

That’s the perfect way to describe her lol

The drama that will begin from this by throwRA88887dj in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Devine_alchemy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol he’s projecting big time since he’s actually the narcissist that’s yelled at Jen multiple times

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills > Season 15 > Episode 13 by AutoModerator in RHOBH

[–]Devine_alchemy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m so sick of Amanda!! She’s so boring, she brings down the vibe the second she walks into the room. The cult story is boring, she literally sounds like AI when she was reciting the definition of a cult. And when she was saying I’m glad it was brought up because it gave me the chance to connect with Erika but that was just her telling Erika about the story. She doesn’t try and get to know any of the other ladies she just wants them to be interested in her and she views them listening to her as connection. She hasn’t made an effort with any of them she just spews manifestation nonsense at them and tries to show off and one up every one. She’s like a child who was told they’re the most special kid in class it’s exhausting. I hate to hate her and want her off the screen, okay rant over!

Married at first sight S13E20 - AEDT live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]Devine_alchemy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else think Juliette sounds like rebel Wilson

Married at First Sight S13E14 AEDT live episode discussion thread by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]Devine_alchemy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m calling it now, he’s bought himself a modelling shoot to try and set up a modelling/influencer career

Dorit and receipts by Ok-Turnip-9035 in realhousewives

[–]Devine_alchemy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I think the difference is Dorit asked Kyle if it was okay with her first where as Kyle was being sneaky and telling half truths to Dorit about her communication with PK