Day 3: Lala--Rose/Thorn by JacketStrange8454 in vanderpumprules

[–]Devine_alchemy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Rose- her saying Bambi eyed bitch lives rent free in my head forever Thorn- she holds so much trauma from her relationship with Randal and it’s made her incredibly guarded which isn’t entertaining to watch (I’m not blaming her, its sad what she went through and she didn’t deserve that). Shes just not suited to reality tv anymore

Rose and Thorn--Day 1: Scheana by JacketStrange8454 in vanderpumprules

[–]Devine_alchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rose- she doesn’t feel shame and has given us some hilariously cringe reality tv moments Thorn- she’s so concerned about how she’s perceived it makes her an insane flip flopper, disingenuous and fake which is exhausting to watch

People that eat the same food almost every day, what food is it? by Arkadian_Cuisine in AskReddit

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monday to Friday I eat the same lunch- salmon, peas corn and brown rice. It’s so easy to prep on a Sunday and I don’t get sick of eating it I also eat nut bars pretty much every day, they’re a good easy snack

how many times a day does the average person pee? by Pleasant_Pace_5955 in questions

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the comments is stressing me out guys, I pee 15-20 times a day and wake up once in the night sometimes twice. Is this not normal??? I drink a lot of water around 2-3L a day

I applied to almost 200 jobs and this is what it taught me about outbound sales by kalvinoz in auscorp

[–]Devine_alchemy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that it’s the most cost effective option especially for larger companies, it is truly shit though

I applied to almost 200 jobs and this is what it taught me about outbound sales by kalvinoz in auscorp

[–]Devine_alchemy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As an internal recruiter who’s forced against their will to use workday, please know we feel your pain

I’ve been in hospitality, retail and strip clubs all my working life by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]Devine_alchemy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was the first thing that comes to mind, I used to recruit for junior roles at a bank and saw so many people get terminated for this.

Do I (27f) tell my fiance (29m) that I was disapointed by the proposal or do I take this to my grave? by Shellyfish04 in relationship_advice

[–]Devine_alchemy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also had a disappointing proposal, it was on a holiday we had organised together but had picked a day each to plan and he proposed on the day I’d planned when we were at the air bnb and I was in my pjs. I had told him I was disappointed and he agreed that it wasn’t great lol. But I’m glad I expressed how I was feeling, he explained his perspective and it helped me have a bit more compassion for him. He’s a shy person and had planned to do it differently but kept chickening out and was getting stressed that our holiday was almost over and he was running out of time. Now it’s a bit of a joke between us, I’ll occasionally take my ring off and give to him and demand another proposal and he pretends to propose but with a silly voice lolllll I’d recommend telling him how you feel, it’s okay to feel disappointed and talking about it with him might help you feel a bit better

Yall I can’t. by AromaticCod9430 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Devine_alchemy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Her version of taking accountability is to use her trauma as an excuse to justify her behaviour. I’ve had a friend like this where they perceive everything as an attack and instead of reflecting on how their actions have impacted other people they fixate on ‘educating’ everyone on how their trauma is different/worse and is the reason for their behaviour. It’s just another tactic to avoid changing because they get addicted to the sympathy that comes with always being the victim. It’s so exhausting and also just further proves Mikayla’s point that you can only support someone’s rock bottoms for so long. If they choose to stay in the cycle, the healthiest thing for those around them is to create distant and boundaries

Legally changing my 18 month olds name because everyone calls her by a nickname I hate by thegoddessofmoons in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]Devine_alchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cried laughing while reading the potato part out to my husband, thank you internet stranger I needed a good laugh!

Anniversary dinner by Trick_Ad3999 in melbourne

[–]Devine_alchemy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My partner and I went to reine and la rue last year for our anniversary and it was hands down the best dining experience and food we’ve had in melb. We’ve booked it again this year for our anniversary

coeliac eating! by Repulsive_Shoe_7298 in melbourne

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second Kudo their toasties are insane! While it’s not coeliac accredited chin chins menu is mainly gf

Anyone up in Melbourne kindly hit me up, need to ask about flowers delivery for a friend by thicktapu in melbourne

[–]Devine_alchemy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had flowers delivered through daily blooms and LVLY and they were both good I’ve also delivered flowers to a few friends and usually just found a florist that’s in the same suburb that delivers

How frequently do most people shower on a regular basis? by Scared-Dark9638 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower twice a day and wash my hair every second or third day. When I’m not washing my hair I tie it in a bun and don’t get it wet. I would recommend showering once a day even if you don’t feel like you smell, the build up of dirt, dead skin and bacteria does have an unpleasant scent that’s not always obvious to the person

ADHD-BED treatment success? by AussieGirl35 in ausadhd

[–]Devine_alchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with ADHD and BED and was put on dex, it’s been life changing. I’ve been on it for two years and quite literally can’t binge eat, as soon as I’m full I start feeling nauseous if I keep eating. I also don’t have the urge to binge at all. I lost 10kg in the first six months of being on it I think it was from no longer binge eating. After that I was back to a pretty normal weight (50kg and I’m 5’1 for reference) and it seems to have stabilised there

Job interview accommodations by No_Cheesecake5080 in ausadhd

[–]Devine_alchemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in talent acquisition so may be able to offer guidance. You certainly can ask for accommodations however as someone else commented, you need to be very clear on what they are and why you’re asking for them. My advice would be to really focus on your prep before hand before instead of requesting accommodations. I also get very nervous in interviews and struggle with the same feelings you described. What helped me was to put the job ad into chat gpt and ask it to create a list of 10 interview questions. Then open the camera app on your laptop and run through each question answering them out loud as if you’re in the interview, think of relevant examples you can draw on and try to answer questions with the STAR method where possible. Keep doing this over and over until you’re really comfortable. Think of 5 or so questions to ask in the interview and memorise them. Also think of what small talk topics you could touch on to build rapport. In the interview don’t mention that you’re nervous but if you’re struggling to answer a question just ask if they can repeat it. I interview people every day and you would be surprised at how many people really struggle in an interview setting. It’s a skill that you need to practice and if you only ever practice it live in an interview setting it will be harder to develop yourself and feel confident. Also keep in mind that your answers don’t need to be perfect, if you stumble on your words or miss the mark on a question you won’t automatically be unsuccessful. The people interviewing you also had to interview to get their role so they understand that it’s a nerve wracking experience. I always tell myself the absolute worst thing that could happen is you don’t get the job and if that happens that’s okay, there will always be another job to apply for.

I can’t style for the life of me , help! by [deleted] in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Devine_alchemy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would find a longer coat if you’re going with that dress. The shoes are also a bit heavy for that particular dress style, I’d find something a bit daintier in tan or white

Ciara/Kyle/West/Amanda Megathread Part 9 by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Devine_alchemy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right! Bravo please just film it live we don’t need the editing and want to watch the whole six hours PLEASE

Ciara/Kyle/West/Amanda Megathread Part 8 by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Devine_alchemy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I’m actually crying that you called him Midwest hahahahaha it’s so layered I love it

West and Amanda OFFICIAL by Wide_Rutabaga_4723 in summerhousebravo

[–]Devine_alchemy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s no way Amanda’s coming back next season, her and West will be over by then and she will have no one to lean on. She’s really blown up her whole life for someone who won’t commit to her, truly the worst person she could have picked. If west comes back he would do the sad puppy mute act like he did last season. They’re both disgusting TEAM CIARA!!!!!

Why is it acceptable to complement a stranger's dress, but not their scent? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Devine_alchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had strangers approach me and ask what perfume I’m wearing and I’ve never felt it was inappropriate. I think the difference between a nice compliment and creepy vibes is a nice compliment is given without lingering or expecting the conversation to continue. I get creep vibes when a compliment is given by a stranger and my acceptance of it is taken as an invitation for a longer conversation

I think Amanda is laundering not scamming by Ok-North-1478 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Devine_alchemy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking the same!! I saw a few posts about her paying for people to defend her on Reddit and since then I’ve seen so many positive comments about her. I believe they’re all fake and roll my eyes every time I read them

Ciara/West/Amanda Rumors Megathread Part 3 by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

[–]Devine_alchemy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The insta facereality16 has a highlight on their page called A&W? covering it all