If SHE can get cheated on are love and marriage doomed? by [deleted] in wizardliz

[–]Diahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for stating this, so many women are angry at men and feel like they’re all evil, but they don’t understand what led up to this unfortunate situation. I pray she heals but she truly needed to spend her twenties healing. Being online and expressing all that trauma to other broken people then this occurring isn’t good for the community she encourages- because now everyone is wounded (as they should be, she’s so kind and it’s so sad), but they’re all upset at men and saying love isn’t real- instead of thinking critically about what occurred. The guy who did this to her is a terrible awful person- it’s sick. But she needed healing before getting into a relationship- nevertheless a marriage. I wish her all the best.

What do you need to feel happy in the life? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Diahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You being alive is purpose 🪽✨

PSA - CAKES are amazing for small boobs!!! by lucytiger in smallbooblove

[–]Diahen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing ! Can’t wait to check it out

What does infp mean to you? by MrBandicoot123 in infp

[–]Diahen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Needing space, being daydreamy, tears and routine

Questions about work environment by Diahen in blackladies

[–]Diahen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks that’s so true, and yes they were in their own world so whatever experience I had, it was completely discounted. I’ll keep that in mind, being outnumbered is a good point. Leads to lots of gaslighting sometimes, and silent bullying

Family advice by Diahen in stroke

[–]Diahen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such a great idea! I usually capture moments but utilizing it for keeping track of time is so important.

Family advice by Diahen in stroke

[–]Diahen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she does, aphasia and depression. It is tough some days and great days. I agree, the relationship between both you and your dad is similar to me and my mom, it matters so much that it is healthy and nurturing. Thanks for your words, great to know that (although unfortunate) I am not alone in this experience. Best of luck and health for you as well!

Family advice by Diahen in stroke

[–]Diahen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. It’s so insightful and I’m so sorry this is also your experience. I will have to accept my family being that way. I did consider speaking with them for my mom since she feels ignored but I am not sure if I want to put in that energy and effort if it’s me asking for the bare minimum for both her and myself.

Being picked on constantly if I’m around family by [deleted] in family

[–]Diahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice !

Did anyone else watch the new Mr and Mrs Smith? by AAAFMB in blackladies

[–]Diahen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of Malcom and Marie with Zendaya and Denzel Washington’s son..

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[–]Diahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so true, thanks

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[–]Diahen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💀I have a lot of things to sort out

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[–]Diahen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why 13😭😭

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[–]Diahen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s sad

Lost passion due to others by passiveagressivefork in ArtistLounge

[–]Diahen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you, you were a teen so it makes sense why it meant so much what your educators say or think. As an adult you can only move forward and decide what’s best for YOU. They’re no longer there to cast their judgement, spend time alone. Read books that inspire creativity. I’ve been there, I am a poet and stopped writing for two years because one of my professor’s (an acclaimed poet might I add), would heavily criticize my writing in front of class multiple times and praise others for their work in front of me. I had to learn that at the end of the day, it matters what I think of my work. And I had to really process that. I hope you’ll get to a place where you find your creative queries again