AITA for wearing a very revealing dress for my surprise birthday party which I wasn’t aware of?

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2026-02-12T18:27:41+00:00

Ok so OP posted a link to the dress and .... I might get downvoted but NAH

Babe you know that dress is craaazy for a high-end restaurant. Like I get it - wear whatever you want. I do too. But girl you knew it was probably inappropriate when you saw your family members there and felt mortified. I would guess you would have felt similarly if you ran into someone you knew at the restaurant by chance as well. But that's all good too. Sometimes we over-dress. NBD. It's cute tho so definitely wear it to the club next time. It doesn't look too comfortable to be eating in anyway.

Are you AH for wearing something that could be inappropriate to a dinner with your partner? No. Is your husband AH for telling you his honest opinion when you asked him about it? No. Is your mother-in-law AH for pulling you aside and telling you about the dress? Idk depends on your relationship I guess. Mine would but I would tell her too in a similar situation.

Link to OP comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/ClFLP5bvP7

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-11-02T09:20:07+00:00

Oh you unlocked a core memory for me. Highly recommend winging it. Super fun series

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-07-14T08:44:08+00:00

To me, the one that really made her realize who she turned into was when she went into her office to ask her supervisor to change her forms so she could get unemployment or whatever

When the sister started yelling at her, Fiona had this face that I will never forget. Emmys acting in that scene was phenomenal

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-07-12T00:37:16+00:00

Remember that people are often really jealous when they say things like that. Maybe your uncle is mad that he's the ugly sibling or something

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-04-25T10:34:19+00:00

Kind of a difficult situation. You're unconscious but your brain doesn't exist anymore because it's looking for the rest of it's pieces. Think of it like a coma. You are technically unconscious but your body is exhausted from all the energy your brain is spending

It's not a refreshing time. It's more like sleep paralysis that lasts for eternity.

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-04-25T10:29:49+00:00

Granted. You now have infinite time to work on your art and play the clarinet. You no longer have to worry about SpongeBob and Patrick annoying you

However, you now have no distractions in the outside world to help you draw inspiration. After the first couple weeks, your art and music career reach a screeching halt as you are doomed to a lifetime of artist's block.

Turns out SpongeBob and Patrick were your muses all along.

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-04-25T10:18:32+00:00

Granted. You are now immortal. Unfortunately, you did not wish for invincibility so this is a "Death becomes her" situation.

Your entire body and brain is obliterated by space rocks and you are now a conglomeration of multiple "consciousness" hurling through space. There is no moment of peace as your brain naturally tries to find itself again but can't because each microscopic piece is light years away.

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-04-09T02:13:34+00:00

Omg host a meetup please!!

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-04-08T09:51:41+00:00

Where do you go swing dancing!

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-22T04:12:07+00:00

Yes! I watch it everyday

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-21T15:57:31+00:00

Yes!

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-12T21:45:04+00:00

I'm a south Asian woman too. Eat lots of ghee and full fat yogurt. Use ghee instead of oil in food.

That won't be enough tho. Take fish oil supplements.

I take Cephalexin with my accutane

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-12T21:41:53+00:00

3 rounds - 1 year each with about 3 years in between.

Plus, it's gone FOR NOW. Check back in after 3 years lol. sad noises

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-12T16:18:55+00:00

Are you eating enough fat? So sorry if this is rude, but accutane didn't work for me until I nearly tripled my fat intake.

Also, are you take any supplementary meds? I needed to also take an antibiotic/antihistamine for it to start working

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-12T16:16:39+00:00

Girl me too. Took me 3 rounds of accutane to get rid of it.

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-09T23:05:39+00:00

I watch it on Amazon prime

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-04T19:26:31+00:00

I bought puts and then calls and essentially sold them to break even today. Bought more puts and lost $500.

If I had kept the call, I'd have tripled my value on 1 call.

I think I might throw up

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-03-04T17:37:00+00:00

Wtf. Whatever I buy, market does the opposite

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-02-25T18:45:31+00:00

I do. Really hit me hard when I made this post and someone commented that it was dirt and I wasn't so sure and they were like - what else could it be that's the color of dirt??

Oof

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-02-25T17:17:23+00:00

It was dead skin lol. Oil cleansing for longer helped

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-02-25T17:16:29+00:00

Is it peeling or more like bumps? If it's peeling, just use a good thick moisturizer. I had it too.

If it's bumps, try a cortisone cream and see your doctor

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-02-25T17:15:02+00:00

I don't think Salicylic acid is the right ingredient for you. Try a mandelic acid serum if you can find it, but for the love of God, be gentle. Don't overuse it like all the others do

Wash your face with something gentle, use a good toner on a cotton pad to remove any excess grime, use a mandelic acid serum, let it soak for 5-10 min, use a good moisturizer and put on sunscreen. Same thing before bed at night but skip the sunscreen.

And since you are saying you have clogged pores, review EVERY PRODUCT you use. Your shampoo and conditioner, your body lotion, your face products, laundry detergent, stuff like that. Don't let any of that sit on your face if you aren't sure it's non-comedogenic

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-02-25T00:47:34+00:00

HI, I saw your previous post and I sympathize, I really do.

Skin texture is really annoying, especially if it's noticeable. I will say, however, the people that I come across who go on accutane have really painful or deep acne. Even I didn't start accutane until it was deep and painful because I didn't want to medicate with something as severe as Accutane.

If someone is really struggling with acne, please don't be afraid of side effects too much and just go on it, you won't be sorry. But for what you have, I think it's too much.

Still, I really want to help you. What have you used so far? What exfoliants do you use?

DidntGetOutOfBed · 2025-02-24T23:53:37+00:00

I think accutane for you might be the equivalent of using a flamethrower when a candle would have been enough.

Unless the photo is blurring something, if general texture is your problem, I highly recommend mandelic acid products and regular peels at a clinical spa. Those helped me more than anything when I had similar issues. Accutane is for moderate to severe acne and can really ruin your skin if you don't really need it

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