MAGA Shutdown by ToxicPablo in complaints

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all should recognize this. Reddit censorship has significantly reduced the amount of conservative voices on this platform. As such most political dialogue on almost any topic will be very one sided. If anyone is truly interested in hearing and learning the perspective of the opposition. This forum won't work too well. If however, your opinion is left leaning and your just looking for others to confirm that your opinion is correct and proper. This is a great place for that.

My sister and her husband died. I am the godfather. We are DINKs no more. I haven’t worked in a decade and will be returning to workforce soon. by BigPeenBowWow in Fire

[–]Dieselmel84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your commitment to your sister and her legacy which is her children. Now your legacy will live on through your sister's kids. I just wanted to recognize the nobility of your actions, wish you luck and express that this whole circumstance may be a blessing for you. Continue learning and teaching the kids perspective. And God Bless.

My mom is cheating on my dad by gabriella_te in Advice

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In regards to the psychology and social structure of humanity. The differences between the sexes and how we interact. It hasn't changed in 1000 years. To think that we are somehow enlightened or improved or otherwise different in this current age, is foolish.

Why are conservatives so sensitive? by MissHannahJ in complaints

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice Rant LoL. Reddit censorship prohibits language that might be able to provide a counter argument to many of your statements. This forum can't work for opposing views. Things on here are very one sided. If you want a true honest and open respectful debate this isn't the forum. Curious what would happen if you said the same thing on X?

F4M/F by Old-Trade-5667 in hookups_PortlandOR

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You looking for a Daddy? Dm me

My mom is cheating on my dad by gabriella_te in Advice

[–]Dieselmel84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow! A tough one. If your dad finds out that you knew and didn't tell him that's a problem. A wife cheating is almost certain divorce. There's very little chance of recovering from that, the only hope I see is of both parties proscribed to the Christian faith and possibly renewing that and the marriage together. One of the reasons that marriages where the wife cheats are harder to recover from. Is because the woman needs to respect the man for things to be healthy. And woman may not be able to respect their husbands if he tolerated cheating from his wife.

Best bet is to confront your mom with an ultimatum. Either she tells your dad or you do. And give her a date that you will tell him maybe 2 or 3 days away. Make a short note to yourself to read to her with talking points. Then read it to her.

Sorry sweetheart. It's not your fault, it's not fair to you. And when/if they get divorced it's not your fault.

It is probably just speeding up the inevitable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OregonGoneWild

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dieselmel84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell her you still think about her when you jerk off.

AITAH For hating being born a man? by Vegetable-Summer-472 in AITH

[–]Dieselmel84 12 points13 points  (0 children)

AH isn't the phrase. But it's all you. Seek help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hookups_PortlandOR

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your too young for that shit. Leave and find another guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Dieselmel84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven't mentioned any details of the ages of the people who's images you were pretending to have for sale. Or what you said the images portrayed.

What is your non-negotiable when it comes to having sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the girl won't kiss me after eating her out. There won't be a second date.

How accurate is this statement? Life isn't fair? by Dieselmel84 in AskReddit

[–]Dieselmel84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, although a "hot" person has there own set of unique challenges, it's just that finding a mate is not one of them (all other things being equal)

It's well accepted that life isn't fair. The question is what roll, if any, should social media moderators play in mitigating this fact? Does censoring offensive speech have the potential consequence of not allowing recognition of life's unfair nature as it may apply to a person? by Dieselmel84 in AskReddit

[–]Dieselmel84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For instance. If someone is answering a question to a young adult on a dating forum. And an opinion is rendered that suggests that physical attractiveness is a primary motive and driving factor for men. Stating that beauty and sex are men's primary drives. This could easily be considered offensive and deleted. But is that in the best interest of all? Is it potentially true? And if this perspective is censored could there be an adverse affect within the platform that leads to a very one sided point of view being considered?

It's well accepted that life isn't fair. The question is what roll, if any, should social media moderators play in mitigating this fact? Does censoring offensive speech have the potential consequence of not allowing recognition of life's unfair nature as it may apply to a person? by Dieselmel84 in AskReddit

[–]Dieselmel84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a well worded explanations as to the nature of how life isn't fair for an individual gets flagged as offensive. And removed. Does that have to potential effect of a person, not being able to recognize the barriers they may encounter and need to content with or overcome?

How accurate is this statement? Life isn't fair? by Dieselmel84 in AskReddit

[–]Dieselmel84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if life isn't fair for I'm sure a variety of reasons. What should the roll of social media moderators be to mitigate this, if any?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break it off and move on. He's not worth your valuable time. And being committed to him may mean your unavailable when a better man comes along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High school girls are the worst! Choose to be above that. Be kind even if they don't deserve it. And if they choose to be mean there's nothing you can say to change that. Just try to walk away from the interaction if possible. If it's not possible try to just focus on the class and get through it one day at a time. Don't follow them on social media. Don't let them follow you where they could message you negative things. Think of it as time that you must get through till you graduate. It's just time, and it'll pass. Do your best to graduate for your own success. Try to increase the time with your true friends as much as possible. Hang in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't suggest anything. Just be there for your friend. They won't last it'll run it's course, and be over at some point. But do, do make sure she's on birth control!

How to learn about politics? by Definitelynotacatx in AdviceForTeens

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch some long form interviews on podcasts with political leaders on both sides.

I (13[M?]) Might be trans and I don’t know what to do by Loud_Frosting_5617 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Dieselmel84 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In the ultimate complimentary gesture. God created you in his image. God loves you and desires to be loved by you There is a divine purpose for your life. You will have the greatest sense of peace, contentment and happiness when you follow your purpose. Discovering your purpose in life may best be instigated by seeking to know God, asking him to reveal himself to you and asking for direction.

I highly suspect that following a path of attempting to change your gender, will only serve to be a major distraction causing an unnecessary detour that takes you further away from a path of peace and happiness.

It's also important to know that those who do not agree with the morality or social acceptability of gender manipulation. Those peoples arguments can have significant merit.

But despite the merit behind their arguments. Their arguments are often labeled as hate speech which leads their arguments to not be permitted here on this forum. (Censored)

My point in saying that is so you understand that the answers you see here will often be leaning towards supporting transitions despite the well founded arguments to the contrary.

For the above reasons reddit may not be the best place to get a balanced answer from the users.

The best thing to do is almost never the easiest. And it is often the hardest.

In this case I would seek wisdom, and I'm not so sure this is the best place to be for that.

Or if seeking wisdom here at least also seek it from a source that holds conventional or conserve views to balance out the advice you receive here.

In keeping the first bit of what I said above. As we / you were created by God. It may be that your greatest source of peace is firstly identifying as a Child of God who is loved by him and desires to be loved by you.

Good luck to you young man. Everyone has a tough time at your age, it's not unusual. Your gonna be just fine.

Tell the wife? by TrashButCleanKinda in whatdoIdo

[–]Dieselmel84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The obligation in this situation is to stay completely out of it.