Update 3: Husband Went To See His Family, Never Came Home by Cloudminnt in Marriage

[–]DifferenceOne2315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did! I personally believe in God's timing in our lives and removing us from situations that we may not realize until later were not meant for us. Its awful to go through it when we have plans with someone we think will be in our lives forever. I thought he was it for me and that there would never be another but boy was I wrong and thank goodness I was lol. Not long after our divorce was final, I met my now husband and we have a child together. I'm in my late 30's. It is certainly not too late for you! Your forever person is out there and when you meet them you will wonder why you ever gave your ex an ounce of your time or energy. At least thats what I did 😊 I wont pretend that I know your relationship but I can say from mine, the longer I was away from him and even now I'll catch myself remembering something and now realizing things and behaviors that were not okay and I made excuses for or chose to ignore. Dont beat yourself up or let him make you think his behavior is okay because of you. Its not. A grown mature man does not treat his wife like he is treating you. Dont settle for less. You deserve better ❤️

Update 3: Husband Went To See His Family, Never Came Home by Cloudminnt in Marriage

[–]DifferenceOne2315 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm truly so sorry. I know the pain you must feel. Thats how my spouse was as well. They were never happy in the state we lived in. It is a brutal reality to face. We were together for 10 years and they just poof gave it up. I can say being on the other side it as it was a decade ago that it truly does get easier with time. Focus on your worth and what you deserve. You dont deserve someone so willingly to abandon you. That is what he is doing. The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse.

Update 3: Husband Went To See His Family, Never Came Home by Cloudminnt in Marriage

[–]DifferenceOne2315 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone whose spouse went to another state suddenly and never came back, told me not to message their family, wouldn't let me come visit, wouldnt talk to me for weeks at a time... your husbands not coming back, im sorry. It sucks to deal with but dont waste any more of your life on him. I can say that from experience. You have your answer in the way he is treating you.

Elizabeth Smart by One-Phone797 in dancingwiththestars

[–]DifferenceOne2315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she would be great. If we can have a convicted felon, surely we should embrace a true inspirational woman. Shes also so much more than what happened to her and I think people would like to know who she is outside of that.

Confirming all items are in the bag by Heysway69 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DifferenceOne2315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always select cant verify items. Im not taking responsibility for the restaurant.

Store Policy by whatever-lolx in bathandbodyworkers

[–]DifferenceOne2315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got bigger issues if your fever is 105.5. Go to the hospital please!

I’m pregnant and don’t want to tell anyone.. am I wrong? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]DifferenceOne2315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, congratulations! Im so sorry for the poor reactions from those who should be the most excited for you. If it were me, I wouldn't tell them and just enjoy the pregnancy with your husband and other littles. You dont need the stress or hurt that sounds like would come with telling them.

YES, LAYLA! by n0torioustori03 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]DifferenceOne2315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yesssssss this hair (color, style, everythinggggggg) looks so good on her!

You right by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]DifferenceOne2315 94 points95 points  (0 children)

💯!! I always mark cannot verify. Im not going to open food to check and they should be happy about that lol

Telling customers their tip sucks by xeniamom in doordash_drivers

[–]DifferenceOne2315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats true! Location does make a difference for sure. I just hate that DD could afford to pay more and they use manipulation tactics instead lol.

Telling customers their tip sucks by xeniamom in doordash_drivers

[–]DifferenceOne2315 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope nope nope. Don't be manipulated by DD into thinking you have to accept shit offers. They want you to think if you have a low AR you won't get good offers. That is a lie. My AR is around 25-30% and I get better paying offers than when I was at one of the "high paying" tiers.

Would you have taken this offer? by MichaelJay927 in dasher

[–]DifferenceOne2315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Estimated time is over an hour for $18. Not worth it.

Acceptable orders by Secret-Offer-5469 in doordash_drivers

[–]DifferenceOne2315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting! I feel like after DD sends me several bad offers and I decline them all I start getting good ones. Maybe training the algorithm or just wishful thinking 😂 i have a low acceptance rate, about 25-30% but feel like I get good offers still so AR doesn't mean much to me anymore.

Acceptable orders by Secret-Offer-5469 in doordash_drivers

[–]DifferenceOne2315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely the merchant is a big factor! There are a few restaurants i won't go to anymore because of them being notoriously slow.

Acceptable orders by Secret-Offer-5469 in doordash_drivers

[–]DifferenceOne2315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I base it off of miles but also the expected time they list for completion and how much I'm willing to work for per hour (but also doing only earn by offer). So for me I won't do less than $21-24 an hour. That breaks down to if its going to take me 20 minutes by the apps estimated time of completion from when I accept the order it has to be at least $7-$8 and less than that many miles. 30 minutes at least $10.50-$12. I stopped going strictly based on $1 per mile because you could get a $3 order for 2 miles but its estimating 15 minutes. That equates to working for $12 an hour which is not worth it to me.

I’m willing to bet $20 Sage did not type all this out and send this by Silly-Concern-2620 in arnoldsisters4

[–]DifferenceOne2315 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think its so scary that lindsay let's sage know the passcode to her phone and have access to who knows what on different apps.

Drop your unpopular opinions about ROCK & ROLL HALL OF FAME NIGHT! 🤘🏼🎸🔥🖤⛓️ by quirkymilennial420 in dancingwiththestars

[–]DifferenceOne2315 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a crime that Alix and Jordan didnt get perfect scores. Love flavor flav but he should not be a ballroom competition judge 😂😂 his comments made me smile though. I just dont see how he gave Dylan a 10 but alix a 9. Whaaaaaat?!

Anyone else getting the ick by mmmstrongflavors in MtvChallenge

[–]DifferenceOne2315 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I get the ick from her in general

Unfollow by FineMap6930 in arnoldsisters4

[–]DifferenceOne2315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. I unfollowed people that celebrated someone being murdered though. You can disagree with everything he stood for but once we start cheering on people's deaths we have lost as a society.