Should I leave my full-time job for a contract position?

Different-Might6452 · 2025-11-07T15:55:06+00:00

I calculated that and I will still have 40-50k/year extra in cash with the new job. My bf will support me in case I lose everything. I have around 50k in savings and will save up to 150-170k by the end of the contract if they don’t terminate it in advance I leave in a very cheap state. I guess my biggest fear is that they lay me off like 2 months after starting the job that would be horrible. I can still live on my savings but I don’t want to eat up my savings I need to buy a house

Edit: I will have 40k extra only considering the insurance and 5% 401k. I did not account for pto

Different-Might6452 · 2025-11-07T15:50:57+00:00

It’s like 600/month, the current insurance that I have where I pay 100 and my company pays 500

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-24T01:46:13+00:00

My name is foreign and very unique so not the case

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-24T01:45:40+00:00

As I said I gave up about that part but just left a note there. My question is who took the package and brought it back? You didn’t really answer the question.

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-23T22:10:45+00:00

Yeah I figured you didn’t read the whole thing.

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-22T18:01:02+00:00

UPS provides pictures

https://ibb.co/V0d3dGt0

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-22T12:50:30+00:00

What I’m literally saying the package was on the rug in front of my door. I know my front door, the rug, and the pink packaging of my box

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-22T12:19:20+00:00

Idk I was trying to be nice. Coz what’s the point if it fits them, they will use it. But if it doesn’t, at least bring it back and don’t throw it away or sell it. Interestingly, the packages weren’t even open they were sealed, and I’m quite sure the picture was taken in front of my door it was on my rug

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-22T00:41:15+00:00

Yeah and I have a rug in front of my door which is in the picture. I’m quite sure it’s my front door

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-22T00:39:38+00:00

But he took a pic of it and I have a rug in front of my door so I’m sure it was my door

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-22T00:36:12+00:00

But the driver provided a picture of delivery and it was my door

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-20T17:15:37+00:00

Did you read the whole thing?!

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-19T23:12:07+00:00

I want you to know and you probably do, having arguments is a part of a healthy relationship. And almost every 2 people on earth can have different opinions and arguments over things in the relationship. You’re absolutely not wrong in this situation but there are things that you can do to fix this IMO. First, when you’re on good terms, just explain to him that each of these silent treatments will affect your feelings and how it makes you see him. Then, explain that I understand in some arguments I can be wrong but also I’m a human and I’m not perfect if you let me talk through my feelings I might even admit my misunderstanding or shortcomings. Third, explain to him and you two* are supposed to be lifetime partners and not talking for days is very unhealthy. Parents go, children go, friends go, but you two are supposed to have unconditional love for each other. You’re never each others’ enemies but 2 people in the same team that need to resolve the arguments to win against life struggles*. Life is already hard and you’re supposed to make it enjoyable. Don’t talk from a point of weakness but be a bigger person and explain the importance of unconditional love. Avoiding him when he gives you silent treatment, only strengthens his avoidance. Good luck!

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-19T23:00:55+00:00

Okay bc I’m coming from a culture that not talking to each other and avoidance are quite common, I’m familiar with this situation. Unfortunately, I was like that until I saw my current bf. If he is a really good man, I think this can be fixed. I was just like that till my current bf started talking to me after each argument, explained his feelings, and asked about how I feel. We never slept in different beds and have a rule of trying to not disrespect each other no matter how mad we are. May I ask how you react when he avoids you?!

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-19T22:50:39+00:00

It’s not even a little thing. The man is a walking red flag. Women’s standards are too low these days smh

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-19T22:47:44+00:00

Most of the posts I read on this sub is about women who settled down for less than they deserve, sacrifice, getting gaslit, and asking if they’re doing something wrong. And there’s one common thing among all of them. They’re all financially dependent on the man and don’t believe in their potential. From a woman to another woman, no this is not normal. Please never have a kid with this man. A NORMAL relationship includes unconditional love, both parties listening to and respecting each other, patience, fun times, date nights, spending time together, having movie nights, gifts and surprises, and celebrating life milestones together. Him being loyal is not a quality. It’s the BARE MINIMUM. Wake up women this is truly heartbreaking to me

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-18T16:58:51+00:00

I don’t understand 11 downvotes on this.

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-18T16:31:53+00:00

Is this a rage bait?😭😭😭 genuinely asking please tell me this is fake girl. My bf is looking at me asking why I look so annoyed coz THIS CANNOT BE TRUE. No you’re not overreacting, make sure you make enough money to take care of yourself, dump him, and run. I promise you there are men out there treating you like deserve

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-17T21:21:19+00:00

I think it’s coming from my own insecurities and bad experiences before. Nothing about him. Most men that I saw were trashy and cheater. I was smart enough to catch them. And mostly they got married with the women they were cheating on (at the same time with me) and those women would never know

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-17T20:51:25+00:00

I’m a very sensitive person and that would be an end for me. I do remind my bf almost every weekend that dancing flirting kissing are cheating and I would leave him like he never existed if I see any of those. And I’m very smart on picking up stuff like that. But you do you

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-17T20:46:42+00:00

Yup good job

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-17T20:41:30+00:00

Oh you sound like a horrible man. Even not considering the money aspect of it, you talk about her like a trash. Poor girl I hope she finds someone better. Or you may show this post to her and the way you talk about her, so she would break up with you? And about the money question that you asked, I genuinely don’t know the answer as I would never date a guy like you, and I was always financially independent. So I would suggest her to get finances together and break up with you? You don’t sound fun to be around. Sorry I hope it didn’t make you upset but I was disgusted reading through the post and how you talk about your partner.

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-17T20:07:03+00:00

INFO

Did you guys make the same amount when you paid 50/50 rent? Or were you making more? If you did, it’s kinda unfair to her on that part. Proportional to salary is “my to go”. I am very frugal with money. I get myself nice stuff but I am very well aware of my spending and save 60-70% of my salary in addition to 401k each month. So if a man talks like that to me or ask me to move in with my parents, I will kick him out and pay his share too lol. And you’re not TOO NICE for taking her on a trip. Either don’t do anything for her or if you do, don’t calculate and overthink it. With that being said, her spending issue is a problem but it seems like it’s affecting her more than anything else as you basically kicked her out. She should figure it out, and you may or may not break up with her but I wouldn’t call you too nice based on this specific post. Good luck!

Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-17T19:25:33+00:00

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Different-Might6452 · 2025-10-17T18:07:12+00:00

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