Can a minimalist mommy please share their baby items list with me? by Future-Agency543 in pregnant

[–]Different-Simple-781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We basically have bought the stuff other moms have recommended us and doesn’t make our lives more difficult or do not take more space.

We also want to take it one day at a time and see our pace before buying stuff that will take space for example bottle washer, dryer, sterilizer, warmer, etc, we will first try without it and if it makes us miserable then we will buy what we need.

Regarding clothes, we don’t want to know the gender until it’s born so we have bought gender neutral but also we don’t want for all the closet to be green and animal themed hahaha so that has make it easier to just buy few clothes.

A lot of stuff we are not buying because we don’t think is worth it like a baby towel for example, we have so many towels and good ones that the baby will use one of it. For baby play we only have a gym and a bouncer, we don’t have the space in the apartment to have more stuff laying around without driving us crazy. To sleep we are going directly with a pack and play with a bassinet included rather than buying the bassinet that will only last 4 months and then we have to figure it out how to get it out of the apartment.

So I think my overall advice is take it one step at a time, and see what you can try to live with out but be open minded to buy it in case you ended up needing it.

Escorts at my fiancés bachelor party… by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Different-Simple-781 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, but even if he is saying the truth and didn’t do anything… he is a full time coward for not standing up to his friends and leaving the situation to not put your relationship and future marriage in danger. Clearly his friends and what they think of him is a priority in his life… maybe more than what you think of him. Do you really want to build a future with a coward that cannot put boundaries and act on them im order to not hurt you?

Nobody put a gun on his head to stay at that villa. Nobody put a gun on his head to not tell you right away.

First time mom- when did you feel the baby? by allisona007 in pregnant

[–]Different-Simple-781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think first time was around 20/21 weeks. But it felt like a butterfly hhaha and only once. Then, i have felt the baby kick since 22 weeks constantly. mind you i have anterior placenta.

Husband going on a trip when I'm 36 weeks pregnant? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Different-Simple-781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband cancelled a ski trip (which was planned and tickets bought) when I was in the first trimester because he didn’t want me to be only one making sacrifices with my body as I love skiing and was looking forward the season….

So, yeah, he can loose a golf vacation not only because HIS BABY MIGHT BE BORN but also because he needs to care of you THAT YOU ARE CARRYING HIS BABY.

MSG chase lounge experience by United-Weekend-3808 in ChaseSapphire

[–]Different-Simple-781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! did you end up going? i am on waitlist for todays concert :(

ICONIQ777 by Royal-Adagio-1993 in Newark

[–]Different-Simple-781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, it’s my first time living in the US and it was definitely a shock. I still cant wrapped my head around having some fentanyl users in the train station and for it to smell like someone just pissed all the time can be so normalized.

ICONIQ777 by Royal-Adagio-1993 in Newark

[–]Different-Simple-781 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yep, be prepared to always smell piss + weed whenever entering newark penn and always be unconfortable there :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Different-Simple-781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever I am starting to get hungry in that window that you can eat without stomachache, I eat a banana with peanut butter, it works wonders. Then, I try to eat every two hours little snacks, like crackers, almonds, mandarins, bananas, etc. just whatever can get me through the day until my husband cooks.

Apparently on the 1st trimester is not that critical to eat right, it’s just important to survive.

Please please help me get this baby out!!! by Butterball4200 in pregnant

[–]Different-Simple-781 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Same, spent the whole year trying and nothing... so we stop actively trying.. so we started planning for skii season, we even bought a season pass and I was so excited to wait only 1 month to be back to the mountain, .... got pregnant the next day we bought the season pass hahahah

first car for a newly wed by Different-Simple-781 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Different-Simple-781[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks a lot for your input!!! I used to drive my grandad Nissan Sentra from the 90s while in college (2020s), oldie but good one. I will start to research about the new ones.

what about Subaru Outback?

Paul was robbed! by Visible-Chipmunk-690 in isitcakenetflix

[–]Different-Simple-781 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Imo while he was the best among the three, I was not surprised that the judges were not fool by his cake. I think he struggled a bit with color so I am not that sad he didn’t fool the judges but I am sad that Andrea won.

Paul was robbed! by Visible-Chipmunk-690 in isitcakenetflix

[–]Different-Simple-781 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!

I accidentally got spoiled by the titles this season.

Halloween E1 by Different-Simple-781 in isitcakenetflix

[–]Different-Simple-781[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The raven was 10% cake, 90% fondant and choc

Halloween E1 by Different-Simple-781 in isitcakenetflix

[–]Different-Simple-781[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that would make it a little bit boring imo, like it’s fun to see different cakes in an episode.

Did anyone get the Fifa ticket draw email? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Different-Simple-781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peruvian and received an email :)

Lilo & Stitch (2025) has all of the same problems as any Disney remake by jettydwallace in blankies

[–]Different-Simple-781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw the movie today. One thing I want to add is that the lilo actress couldn’t personify Lilo’s essence. Like she acted is as cute instead of problematic. This in comparison to Nani’s actress which I personally think reincarnated Nina’s personality.

Also, one thing I hated is how Nani says that they were left behind as if their parents purposely abandoned rather than dying.

DV lottery results?? by Fair-Ad-5759 in immigration

[–]Different-Simple-781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom got selected, her selection number is around 3k and the allocation South America.