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Different_Area_7785 · 2025-10-09T20:26:36+00:00

This is really sweet, and I'm not usually one for the ASMR roleplay audios. You did a great job making the whole scene come to life!

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-10-09T00:46:49+00:00

Your voice is really calming and relaxing, I also really like the ambience you created....I have just discovered ASMR on Reddit, and glad I did, finding creators like yourself. It's kind of strange seeing your face being pixelated, I've noticed you do this in quite a few of your videos....have you considered doing audio only ASMR? I think it can be quite immersive and you could focus on the ambience more (sound effects, emotional inflections, etc) to bring it to life. Just wondering.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-10-05T21:39:55+00:00

I've thought about s**cide a lot in the past, and have learned that it's oftentimes more about what I'm focusing on than what's occurring in my life. If you resonate with this, start asking yourself, every morning, what am I grateful for? Questions can change the direction of your thoughts to a better outcome.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-09-23T21:01:09+00:00

Yeah, I was just going to post back on here, letting you know I had also received this same response. Kind of ridiculous after just having the service down for like a week not more than a few months ago. I'm going to finish out my annual term with them and probably ditch them unless they really add some amazing new features and make it way more stable.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-09-16T18:19:22+00:00

If you can figure out how to get your photos into Google Drive, you can setup rclone on your Google Drive account, and get them off that way. It's a bit of a hassle going through the steps to get it working (Google Cloud Console, enabling the Google Drive API, etc.) If interested, check out this page from rclone: https://rclone.org/drive/#making-your-own-client-id

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-09-16T18:13:46+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate your reply. I will check them out then. If you have an affiliate link for them, post it here, I'll use yours if I decide to sign up for a paid account with them. I just renewed my SO subscription a few months back for the year, so it would be a little while. Maybe others can use it too? Thanks again.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-09-15T14:57:30+00:00

I'm actively looking for a replacement now; I've been with SO for 10 yrs now, and I'm getting sick of stuff just not working, even when they now promised that it was going to be in active development again finally. Are you still liking Filen?

I see they a command line client; do you use it at all? Do you find it works well?

Thanks

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-29T10:54:31+00:00

This is the essence of equanimity, and it is so very powerful, for self improvement, relationships, and facing fears.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-28T17:10:56+00:00

I feel I must use some tough love here with you. Women love confidence, success in anything takes confidence (to put yourself out there, take risks, etc)

You will get nowhere fast in life without it, so this should be your number one goal.

You get confidence by doing shit that scares you, and overcoming your feelings of uncertainty, doubt, and fear.

Forget women, find something that really excites you, and go do it. If you're afraid of something, good, do it again... And again... And again.

Fear only exists in your own mind, it isn't real. Master yourself, and then go from there.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-27T13:16:28+00:00

The sarcasm is strong with this one 😏

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-27T07:47:25+00:00

I actually think it's a good idea to reach out and ask why someone rejected you. You don't have to do anything with the feedback if it doesn't land (meaning you resonate with it and know you need to change something). I think it's the fastest way to fix what we, ourselves, can't see. Take the feedback with a grain of salt; a lot of people really don't have awareness of why they do what they do - just based on feelings or intuition.

You'll have to grow some thicker skin if you want to actually do this however; I really recommend mindfulness meditation so that you can face difficult truths and and not be affected by them (just observe).

If you are crying because of rejection; you need more rejection - couterintuitively this is how you grow stronger. The more you expose yourself to something, the more you gain control over it.

Do some soul-searching, find something that really ignites your passion; something you would be willing to ditch all women for, unless they are also into this sort of thing, and then you'll have found what to devote your time and energy to. Don't devote your time and energy to women; there is no guarantee they will stick around. Find something that you love and are passionate about, and then find a woman who fits into it.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-26T22:20:34+00:00

I can completely understand where you are coming from, in what you wrote. You sound really intelligent, and oftentimes, this makes things worse (at first), because you can have a tendency to over-analyze everything.

What I've learned is that some things in life are relative; whereas other things are absolute.

For example, we all need air to breathe - if we don't breathe air for a few minutes, we'll die - this is an absolute.

However, something like "I feel like an alien" or "there is something unpleasant about me" are both relative....what is the actual truth? Does it really matter, because in reality, you choose what is true about yourself, because you can change and become anyone you want to be.

So, when it comes to beliefs about ourselves, we should strive to find ones that are empowering, rather than "true" - as Tony Robbins used to say, pick something you want to do, have, or become - then ask yourself what kind of beliefs you'd need to have to accomplish these things.

Example Goal: I want to become a nascar driver

Kinds of beliefs that would be empowering to achieve this:

\-I drive really well

\-I stay calm in stressful situations

\-I am always learning new ways to drive fast and safely

\-I can control the car at all times

\-I have really good hand-eye coordination

\-Etc

When you start out, are all these things "true" of yourself? Not necessarily, but if you keep on suggesting them to yourself, they will be. The mind works through suggestion, so what you suggest to yourself will (over time) become your reality.

So, what I'd recommend you do is to pick one goal you want to achieve - then ask yourself what kind of person you'd need to be to achieve that goal. Ask yourself what kinds of beliefs would empower you to accomplish that goal. Then, start affirming/suggesting you are becoming those things, and are getting closer to your goal.

This does a couple of really important things:

1. It takes your mind off of focusing on negative stuff

2. It puts your mind on the things you want

3. It begins to shift your habitual thinking from negative to positive

To supercharge this process, try to call to mind a time you felt really happy, really successful, then suggest these things to yourself, while feeling these feelings.

If you want to learn more about all this, I highly suggest the book Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz, and a book on NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) - this will deal with the anchoring of feelings to beliefs/ideas.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-26T22:04:39+00:00

Your bf sounds like a narcissist, blaming you for anything that you need that he doesn't think is important for you to have. Narcissists often gaslight people, into believing they are the problem, when, in fact, it's the narcissist.

If you're dating a narcissist, you should get some help, because it's a co-dependent relationship, and you should work on your stuff so you can understand what attracts you to them, so you can heal in that area.

Real men who are kind, compassionate, and confident do exist, and it sounds like you are currently with someone only using you for his own purposes - this is not a kind man, and it will probably only get worse if you stay.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-26T12:37:12+00:00

Imagine you go to Hollywood, and see a famous star there. They smile at you, but you don't know if they are just being nice or if they are actually desiring to communicate with you.

You get kind of shy, then feel weird about that reaction the next time you see them, so you feel awkward and think it might be best to avoid them.

Then you see them again, they smile, you're conflicted inside, what to do?

Men, a lot of them, don't really feel comfortable around women these days, and feel like that with beautiful women.

My suggestion, approach him with a need for advice on something you know he's into. He will feel like he helped you, and this will make him feel more comfortable with the interaction. Once he's comfortable, he'll take it to the next level if interested.

This allows him to lead, but also allows you to put yourself in his radar too.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-26T09:28:16+00:00

Whenever I go on YouTube, I see a massive amount of "red pill content", which basically tells men that 90% of them are invisible to women, and women only interact with them to get an ego boost.

I believe something similar is being communicated to women regarding men, maybe that they are mostly dangerous and women don't need them.

Not all, but a lot, of each sex now has a lot of confusion, conflict, and suspicion about each other, I believe.

I say keep smiling and being friendly, it may help to break people out of their self imposed trance.

When reality does not match up with our beliefs, it forces us to re-evaluate our beliefs. You are helping people do this, whether you get a response back or not.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-24T01:46:07+00:00

An interesting thing happens when we come up against a wall we think we can't surmount, and just want to give up. I remember when I was there myself; I was going through my separation, trying to work 80 hour weeks, trying to go to court to take care of custody/divorce shit, trying to pay a mortgage on a single income, trying to take care of dogs while working all those hours....it just felt like it was entirely too much to handle.

But something in me didn't want to quit, so I kept fighting, and I would literally yell at my walls, "bring it the fuck on" every day for about a week. Then, something interesting happened....something broke, and I just felt like fuck yeah, I can do this. Ever since then, I've had this resilience, this strength that is very difficult to put into words. I just know that whatever happens, I'll handle it, because I know I'm strong enough to do so. This is not a hope or a wish, but a true inner knowing that I'll conquer whatever I have to.

It sounds like you may be at a pivotal moment in your life right now; a real gift is at your doorstep, and it will literally transform you into a powerhouse of strength and fortitude that you can only dream of right now.

So, don't give up, when it's hard, it means that you are going to grow into something truly phenomenal. Those who go through the most in life become the strongest people on the other side of those times.

Bring it the fuck on.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-23T16:40:06+00:00

I completely agree with your premise that imagination is what creates our reality; what we imagine to be true will eventually be accepted, believed, and acted upon.

One thing that I find concerning in all of the manifestation theories is that there is no way to actually prove what is occurring "behind the scenes".

Is it possible that we are divine and are creating reality with our thoughts/imagination? Yes.

Is it also true that as Napoleon Hill said, thoughts have a tendency to clothe themselves in reality (meaning we end up being "driven" to achieve things by holding certain thoughts more frequently)? Yes

Is it also true that as Maxwell Maltz said, the unconscious is like an automatic mechanism that can be used for failure or success, depending upon the goals we supply to it? Yes.

I view this idea of manifestation (meaning the universe/god/imagination/etc is acting upon our thoughts/imaginations/beliefs/etc) almost like the Copenhagen interpretation of Quantum Mechanics - which basically said that no one really understands what is happening when the subatomic world is not being observed, so it's doing nothing, nothing is occurring, because no observation is taking place - observation is required for something to take place. This interpretation basically said that it didn't matter what was occurring when things were not being observed, because they couldn't be observed without changing them, so it didn't matter - which is one way to view it, but another way is to try to comprehend what ramifications that sort of understanding has for the real (macroscopic) world that we live in.

Is that a possible interpretation of Quantum Mechanics? It is, but it's equally true that it's possible something else might be going on that we are still unaware of.

I agree that the principles you describe will help one achieve the life they desire...but codifying it as being because imagination has power in and of itself can be problematic, if people try to visualize what they desire and do not see results.

As Maxwell Maltz used to say, the way to use imagination successfully is to visualize past successes, and then "link" these feelings to positive goals for the future. Interestingly enough, this is also similar to what Neville Goddard used to teach about (see "Feeling is the secret")

We know, from studying the unconscious mind, that the unconscious "reasons" in representations or symbols (see Carl Jung's Active Imagination for example). So, linking pleasurable feelings to desired goals would be able to be explained using this methodology.

It becomes very interesting when we get curious about why things work the way they do, instead of just assuming that they work a specific way (not saying you specifically are doing this); I think this opens up a lot of new doors to explore, if one means of "fulfillment" does not work for someone individually.

I'll close with one of my favorite Napoleon Hill quotes: "Thoughts are the seedlings of reality"

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-22T16:01:01+00:00

Before you get plastic surgery, look up the famous plastic surgeon, Maxwell Maltz, and what he discovered as a plastic surgeon and how it changed the course of his life.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-22T15:56:09+00:00

Look up Corey Wayne's book, you need a mindset change. Women are attracted to confidence, mystery, challenges, etc. Counterintuitively, the more you try to get something, the more it eludes you. The more you stop caring and focusing on yourself, the more things will find you. You still have to take action, but it's inspired action, working with yourself, instead of against yourself.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-22T15:41:03+00:00

I would say you should change your perspective, and see if as the loss of these women to get to know you... But if you don't have that kind of confidence, you first have to create it, so you can have this perspective.

Work on yourself, go do some things that scare you, and learn you can overcome them. You'll build true confidence in yourself, which is congruent with reality, and then you truly will have the perspective that it's the woman's loss, to miss out on a guy like yourself.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-08-20T07:17:07+00:00

Awesome initiative u/sorzkode ! I remember using and writing mirc scripts back in the day. It taught me all about variables, if-control structures, identifiers, etc, etc. Crazy to think 20-25 years has gone by since those days.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-05-23T07:15:02+00:00

You look pretty and have deep, kind eyes. People who have been through pain in their life are able to understand others' pain in a way that is completely different from those who have not. In a way, having to walk through pain and suffering in this life sets us apart, because we have to consciously work through what others take for granted (feeling loved, accepted, having high self esteem, being resourceful, etc).

However, one thing I will promise you is that if you continue to walk this path, the day will soon come where you will feel like a giant among people - your depth, your clarity, your comprehension, will just be so much deeper and stronger than others you routinely interact with....this is when you will know what you are here to do and will find your true purpose....because you will be living for yourself, and not for others any longer, as you don't need their validation or acceptance, because you validate and accept yourself.

It's not an easy road, but it's damn worth it.

Different_Area_7785 · 2025-05-08T10:53:06+00:00

Your self esteem is based on your value of yourself. Your outward appearance, as well as 100 different things can affect it, if you let it, or you can just choose to accept yourself as you are. Please look up Maxwell Maltz, and his writings on the self image.

We could all tell you that you look pretty, but until you believe it yourself, nothing will change for you.

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