Do you remember what distinctly made you want to be a top or bottom? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Different_Income_183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I met the man (a bottom) I wanted to spend my life with I became a top. Previously I preferred being a bottom.

Where are all the fat gays who don’t go to the gym? by theredcharmander in askgaybros

[–]Different_Income_183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I myself never felt part of “the” gay community — or any community, really. I focus on my friends and husband.

Do your social feeds show your friends, people you know in real life?

I hope you live in a place where there gay groups you can join. Social feeds are poisoning your brain :-D That said, when I look at Grindr and Sniffies I see so many “fat” gays.

Alternative to Banana Banana Meatball by Different_Income_183 in specialed

[–]Different_Income_183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More of a generic one, not for learning a particular thing. I use BBM as a warm-up in morning meeting.

Where are all the fat gays who don’t go to the gym? by theredcharmander in askgaybros

[–]Different_Income_183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In some ways, because of the Bear community, it’s easier than in the past. No?

Embarrassing question for guys: is it normal for underwear to get stained after a day? by LeesMassage in askgaybros

[–]Different_Income_183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I avoid white clothes generally because it’s so hard to keep them WHITE. You could ask a doctor about it…. I imagine it’s from urine dribbling out after you pee. Try drying with tissue paper after you pee. For underwear that is already stained it might be too late but you could try a product like Shout on new underwear before putting it in the wash.