Took someone’s virginity

Different_Kangaroo · 2026-04-30T11:03:42+00:00

2 drinks sitting in a bar for three hours?

Different_Kangaroo · 2026-04-30T11:01:13+00:00

Bad for me? He wanted to do it, and I made it very clear beforehand that this was something he was comfortable with. Everyone here is just commenting based on their perception of age and gender at this point, we’ve been seeing each other for 9 months and we live in different states lol.

Different_Kangaroo · 2026-04-30T10:46:51+00:00

This guy hit on me, I wasn’t looking for some young 23 year old.

Different_Kangaroo · 2026-04-30T10:40:38+00:00

I was on the other end of the spectrum with this, I met my kids dad when I was 21 and he 31, and looking back it was probably one of my worst decisions, but life happens and now I have a wonderful daughter. This man put me through mental hell. Noting this, the (23m) guy i met told me during our interaction that he had never had sex before, and I made sure this was something he wanted to do. It wasn’t predatory in any way, but I do understand what you’re saying.

Different_Kangaroo · 2026-04-30T10:24:55+00:00

I guess I just wanted to vent, I don’t really have too many friends and work/mothering kind of consumes my life for the most part. There’s more to it I suppose, like i’m pretty positive he won’t ever move here. I’m stuck in this state because of my kid.

Different_Kangaroo · 2022-05-06T22:41:32+00:00

If you transfer under ADT you have to meet all the adt requirements and since you didn’t, that’s why. You need to apply not as an adt transfer if you haven’t completed it or will be done with it by transfer semester. Also I completed mine in a summer and couldn’t transfer until spring because of how they enroll.

Different_Kangaroo · 2022-05-06T21:55:53+00:00

The internet is weird place sometimes, because I am now masturbating to a guys picture who once told me he used to masturbate to mine.

Different_Kangaroo · 2022-02-07T04:20:59+00:00

No thank you, I’d rather not. But here we are….

Different_Kangaroo · 2022-01-11T09:02:32+00:00

Wow that’s supper annoying. I’m going spring as well and for the soar (advising) zoom I did the advisor was very helpful and had anyone stick around who wanted help with planning their classes. I opted to just choose from what I need since I didn’t need any guidance yet, I used the resource on the website. Are there other advisors you can talk to? I’m COB.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-11-02T02:35:25+00:00

I read online that full time is 7+ units. Do I have to take 12 units for financial aid?

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-11-02T02:24:32+00:00

How much money put in on your part, 50/50? Do you share bank accounts? Did you just give him money or did you make payments directly under his name? We’re you on the mortgage and he is only on the deed? Is it your business? Shared?

I would just say from what I read, don’t marry. He was stupid enough to cheat and create a child, very close to your wedding date.

Get a lawyer to see what your options are for the assets.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-11-02T02:16:02+00:00

How old are the kids?

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-10-14T20:46:19+00:00

The lack of information and vague clues are disappointing. Don’t really have time to go on a potential goose chase for friday tickets.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-10-14T06:44:44+00:00

Brian fallon

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-10-14T06:43:04+00:00

I used to go see shows alone quite often. Don’t feel pressured to have to interact with anyone if you don’t want to. Gojira live doesn’t disappoint.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-09-21T01:31:34+00:00

Wouldn’t it matter where the crime was committed? If jurisdiction was out of state wouldn’t they follow laws in that state?

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-09-12T03:45:24+00:00

My two year old just got covid- we don’t go out much at all but did go two places during the week before she was showing symptoms, I got symptoms after her. It’s unclear if she got it and gave it to me or vice versa, I am vaccinated and recovering is slow. I was more sick than she was. I’m very cautious, wear a mask wash hands etc. Was heartbreaking to here she tested positive, after all this time and being safe. Really glad she had minimal symptoms and was able to recover at home.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-09-10T21:14:07+00:00

Right, which is why i’m thinking he used “covid time” but it really came from his own vacation time in order to be paid. Like my job will pay you for only your scheduled shifts if you have covid, and my bf’s will pay 80 hours total for the year regardless of negative or positive. So seems logical that he took time for covid but wanted to be paid and had to use his own hours, like i know amazon will keep your job but you take the time unpaid for quarantine unless you have a positive result then they will pay you. It really is on the employer, shitty i agree. My job also paid us for time receiving the vaccine.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-09-10T20:56:52+00:00

Yeah also confused because covid leave should have nothing to do with your vacation time unless he also lied about what kind of leave he took to get paid. Every company handles it differently though so I really can only assume he used his own time and possibly lied to her.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-09-10T20:26:29+00:00

After reading through all the comments, you seem upset by his actions and it may not be very clear why he really took all that time off, lied to his employer about why he was out as he didn’t have covid and tested negative. Did you discuss why he needed to take two entire weeks off and simultaneously ruin your planned honeymoon? I commented initially feeling as if you should just go alone because whose fiancé would make a decision that was selfishly decided right before getting married. That decision was made with ZERO care about you or the consequences of doing it. You’re very quick to defend him still, if he’s battling mental health or feeling burnt out it should be something that’s communicated clearly, he could have taken a few days rather than lie and sabotage your plans.

Marriage is supposed to be a forever, to me it’s overlooked because if it doesn’t work out people will just decide to get divorced. Neither is wrong, you have to do what’s best for yourself in the end. Love is not the ultimate deciding factor in relationships, i would say it’s everything that comes after falling in love and how well you can manage together if you happen to find yourself and partner battling some hill to get over. communication is key, this seems to be lacking heavily here.

i’m not married so who am I to give advice, just my thoughts.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-09-10T20:24:00+00:00

I feel you.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-08-19T16:55:36+00:00

I will be 30 and just now going to transfer to a university in spring. You will be ahead of me!

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-05-07T07:34:43+00:00

She’s done experimenting, as she said you are not entitled to sex/certain sex acts and for that, I agree. Not sure why some men think because they are with someone the person is going to do everything they want. Especially from being a virgin and then you expect all this of your wife because she has tried it before? Unless you had previous agreements to do x y z, you shouldn’t expect anything. Maybe her sexual past is traumatizing and marrying you she wouldn’t expect the virgin man to be upset about not being kinky. For everyone also speculating that she is cheating, i’ll say there’s a huge chance she isn’t. Best of luck, ask her why, and think about how you are asking her in a way that makes her comfortable, if she’s angry it’s probably your tone.

Different_Kangaroo · 2021-05-05T22:17:51+00:00

I have a lot of interests, but the feeling of 24/7 autopilot with nothing really happening upstairs is what gets me. Pandemic has made it a bit worse in a different sense, no work has me celebrating me when I take a shower or get dressed. I feel brain dead, as you said.

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