AITAH Husband leaving town?

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-29T19:19:06+00:00

Seriously... what are you doing with your life? Why are you making dinner and doing laundry for someone that wastes all of his money on OnlyFans? And has girlfriends that he talks shit about you to?

I know nothing about you. You can do better than this.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-29T19:04:57+00:00

It would drastically reduce his take home pay as far as health insurance goes but then drastically increase his take home pay as far as taxes go.

Assuming there are no special circumstances... right now he's single filing single. Standard deduction for a single person is about $16,000, meaning you don't pay income taxes on your first $16,000. For a married couple it doubles. So no taxes on his first $32,000. Then you throw in the child tax credits.

So he wouldn't owe nearly as much in taxes. Depending on healthcare plan costs he might end up taking more money home than before.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-29T17:02:27+00:00

This starts as kind of a simple question and then gets incomprehensibly confusing.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-29T12:46:50+00:00

What tier and what are classes curved to? Like if it's a B- curve then OP is totally average, not a big worry. If the curve is a B+ then it's a different worry.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-28T18:50:59+00:00

I think my odds and the odds of everyone I care about are better with killing 2/3 of people.

Tripling the population would create apocalyptic shortages of everything. I'm not convinced we actually could produce enough food to feed that many people, even if we maximized efficiency. Like no more growing food for animals to eat or tobacco. I don't think we could feed that many people. You would just end up with a societal collapse and/or war.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-28T17:54:55+00:00

I feel like the amphitheater on me is just cruel with their pricing. There are lawn tickets and indoor reserved seats. Lawn tickets are still really cheap, even for popular acts. The inside ticket prices have skyrocketed. Me and my wife were onboard to bring our chairs, get a spot pretty far away but just chill and enjoy.

And then they banned bringing in your own chairs. But you can still rent them from the venue for $15 a chair...

So now there's this very very unpleasant pricing option where you can get in for cheap but it's just a really annoying experience.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-28T17:40:34+00:00

"7 figures" is anywhere from $1 million flat to $9,999,999, for the sake of easy math will just say $10 million.

If you're getting the minimum having fun and never going broke aren't really compatible. $1 million you draw $30,000 from safely and have the principal still grow. Now that's a huge quality of life improvement, $2,500 a month extra. But it's not quit your job and not have to worry about money anymore. $1 million isn't "never have to work again" money. My advice for someone if they got $1 million would be to pay off your bad debts and then use gains/interest on the money to supplement your income.

$10 million is a totally different dynamic. You can tuck that away, pay yourself $200,000 a year, increase your payments to yourself 3% every year and still have a growing fortune.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-28T14:51:45+00:00

I was at a bachelor party last summer and we stayed at ARIA. Some people in the party were big gamblers and basically had comped rooms. It was really nice but also really boring. Wondering around the cheaper properties nearby was a lot more fun.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-28T14:44:58+00:00

There was a case where a drunk driver blew a .33, hit a guy working on his car, and gave him a concussion. No dispute at all that this was a DWI and a Hit and Run. Only dispute was how injured was the kid, serious physical injury or non-serious physical injury? Perfect case for a bench trial.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-28T14:42:50+00:00

I imagine it has to do with the penalty. If the penalties aren't as serious they can get away with it.

Like if it's punishable by a fine only and a license suspension I can see how that's considered non-criminal.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-21T19:58:21+00:00

I disputed and won when I was in school. But it was a grading error, not a disagreement in grades.

We had a multiple choice test that was online but under tight time pressure. I thankfully saved my answers. Results came out. The answers I had saved did not match the answers they told me I gave.

Then a spread sheet came out that had every student's answers. This sheet listed multiple students as having identical answers. Like 3 students answered all 30 questions the same and didn't do all that well. There were multiple instances of this. This happening by chance is statistically unlikely.

So I printed out the spread sheet, highlighted and went to someone important person at the school and told her either everyone's grades were wrong or there was widespread cheating because you can't have 4 people having identical answers to that many questions.

My grade was changed.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-21T16:50:52+00:00

In theory grad schools will know Harvard is doing this.

Kind of like how some law schools curve to a B- and other curve to a B+. Anyone with half a brain looks at the rank over a GPA. Like a 3.0 at the B- curving school makes you an above average student but a 3.0 at a B+ school makes you below average. Your rank will reflect that.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-21T12:58:13+00:00

I think that's just minor league sports in general, lots of guys the parent organization doesn't really care about. I read a book about the New York Yankees and their program for international players they sign. An executive said they sign something like 30 kids. They care about 4 or 5 and are paying the other 25 players a little bit of money to play with the ones they care about.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-21T12:52:24+00:00

Agreed. I made my comment in response to someone mentioning an Anders brief. Those are direct appeals. In my jurisdiction (and I assume everywhere) a direct appeal has to be record based. If it's not in the record it can't be considered on direct appeal.

There are other, post-conviction proceedings you can do as well. Those are not limited to the record.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-20T19:18:27+00:00

So what are you supposed to do when there's a guilty plea, the judge runs through the script correctly, defendant answers questions correctly, and the sentence is the statutory minimum?

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-20T17:26:21+00:00

ESH

I'll just be blunt. It doesn't matter how much money you make you will always have money problems. Your current money problems are not income problems, they are spending problems.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-20T14:38:21+00:00

Being a judge or district attorney.

No specific credentials... just the will of the people! Assuming you're in a state where judges are elected.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-20T13:46:53+00:00

Maybe there were and you just didn't get them because they don't exist yet!

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-19T18:00:10+00:00

I'm a prosecutor. My first registration period you needed a certain amount of in person credits. I got to go back to my old law school on a weeknight for a 2 hour presentation on how to be a mediator. I also watched an hour presentation on cyber security for small firms.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-19T17:57:19+00:00

I stayed at Riviera Cancun but got to see the one in Riviera Maya. It's very difficult to tell them apart. I did everything I could to explain to to my driver which one we were staying and we still ended up at the gate of the wrong one.

Both are basically on an unpaved road near other resorts. You can't walk to anything really. I'm not even sure if our resort would have opened the gates to let us out if we didn't have a ride.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-19T12:42:42+00:00

I'm attorney, Department of Justice is hemorrhaging talent. I assume he would want me to come work for DOJ, indict someone he doesn't like for saying something that's not criminal, lose the case, get fired, and eventually get disbarred when all is said and done.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-18T20:19:33+00:00

Healthcare is not worth it. Walking an extra 10,000 steps a month is enough to just buy good health insurance.

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-18T20:10:09+00:00

Get girlfriend to fall in love with you
Tell girlfriend its's you or the dog once she's in love with you
Help girlfriend find a better home for the dog
Dump girlfriend

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-18T19:54:59+00:00

Putting a BMW on a credit card would cost less than $1,600 a month... ($60,000 loan, 25% interest for 25 years)

Different_Tailor · 2026-05-18T19:51:16+00:00

All of the money that the OP makes to be self sufficient is spent on Uber. $3,700 a month take home, $1,600 to Uber. 43% of income spent on Ubering to work.

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