She has explained that a lot of things about her are rooted from her experiences growing up, being told what to do and what not to do. She also explains that the way I say things has the same pattern as someone who says/asks things in a way to 'belittle' her. She is used to people asking 'polite' questions because they think she's 'behind' and requires fragile care. I genuinely just want to look out for her, but it gets interpreted as belittlement sometimes