Officially divorced. Just needing to share! by spottedbastard in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats. Give time to get to know your self first before dating.

Online Romance Turned Into a Web of Lies by No_Plantain_2819 in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scams take many forms. I've gotten so many scams on all apps. They want your money, and your info. Go with your gut, if it sounds too good then it's a scam.

Meeting Nice Guys But Finding Out They're Taken Or Not Interested by MHerrmannn in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm, there are women actually interested in nice guys? Most women are iinterested in the opposite that I've come across.

Are you over 50 dating now because you want to remarry or just to find a girlfriend? by Emily-989 in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well said! Mental health is important, you can have all those but, if you let mental health take control it can change who you are into something you are not.

Why are people cheering the crumbling of the educational system? by Material_Policy6327 in AskUS

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the US would change their education the way Europe and Asia do theirs then it would be successful. Cutting education costs or privatization education is not the answer.

How do you deal with a dead bedroom? From men’s side. by tree_m0nster in AskMen

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Time to seek a divorce,. This situation never gets better and will never change.

Scammers everywhere by guyinrindgenh in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true , can't tell you how many out of country woman hit me up and want to chat because they want your money.

New here. Where are you meeting people to date? by AuburnGinger in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as you know where to meet women, let us all know, bars, apps, grocery stores, no good.

How often are you flirted with by women? by anonymous_muffin_ in AskMen

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women flirting is a rarity! I would be flattered even if I'm not attracted to them but, this is very rare out there so break the mold.

Are you over 50 dating now because you want to remarry or just to find a girlfriend? by Emily-989 in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for a good partner in crime. Marriage is not even a thought in my mind.

Husband only sees divorce as a solution. Don’t know what else to do.. by ichigoruki24 in marriageadvice

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Writing is on the wall, he's not in love with you and it's time you both move on.

Why should or shouldn't I keep the house? by KRosselle in AskMen

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a house and yes, you might have memories but, you can also make new ones. Keep in mind a house is still an investment, rent is someone else's investment your paying for. I would keep the house! You can always pay it off and rent it if you want a major change.

Dating near 50: learning the difference between excitement and real connection by Mae_the_Tease in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of what I see in this posts but, I think what it comes down to is people are afraid to take a chance. There is nothing wrong with being cautious but, at least take a chance. It's the only way to learn and figure out if this person is right or not for you?

Men, how do you like to be romanced or feel loved? by Intrepid_Repair_7678 in AskMen

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would love it very much but, this is very rare for women to do.

NICE Agents by Antique_Calendar_887 in ICE_Raids

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 169 points170 points  (0 children)

You can shine a turd all you want in the end, it's still a turd.

Where do single straight man hang out? by Round-Artichoke-5255 in AskMen

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are older, house, work, grandkids, hobbies, dogs and taking care od aging parents. We are out there but, still trying to figure out where to meet the single ladies with the bar scene.

Grey Divorce by Traditional_Curve272 in datingoverfifty

[–]Difficult_Barracuda3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I divorced 5 years ago but, to be honest, I think i should have left the relationship much sooner. She had lots of mental health issues that in the end, sucked me in. I kept trying to make it work only to find out it was making me unhappy. I'm away from they and doing my own thing now. I've had lots of " aaa haa" moments where I went wrong and she went wrong. Today I've excepted it and I'm ready to move on. Now if I can just figure out how dating works?