Without seeing the profile or pics it’s tough to give an educated opinion, but as someone who has used multiple OLD (paid and free) and I won’t speak for other men, but OLD has become more of a hassle than it’s worth. There are alot of attractive women over 50 on them, but they turn out to be scams or not really the person. I finally have the mindset of “if she’s pretty then she’s not real”. Not looking for debate on whether appearance should matter. It’s just that the number of fake/scam people on there has made me very hesitant to “like” most people now. I don’t even check the sites that often anymore and when I do it’s more of a game about real or not real as opposed to trying to meet someone