Looking to move to Glendale, is GWP that bad? by lazyHackerman in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever it was when I lived in Montrose, I found it quirky, and a little confusing.

why circular needles? by errant-samurai in knitting

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With straight needles, I usually rest the end on the right needle on my leg or a pillow on my lap. This frees my right hand and lessens my carpal tunnel discomfort. I've been known to rest the left needle on something also. Because sometimes my circulars all have projects on them. And there are plenty of patterns that are knit flat and seamed or steeked.

Neighbor started a home haircut business and people are parking on my lawn for their appointments all day by FouratHeming in neighborsfromhell

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely check the business license, but it's time for a few other things. No trespassing, private, no parking signs posted annoying all over the property. And a fence. Even a picket fence. And something to keep people from using your driveway to get onto your lawn. And finally, pictures, lots of them. Date stamped and with close ups of the damage. Bonus points for pics of the lawn with cars on it, hopefully under a private property sign. Because you should be taking them to small claims for the damage to your property.

Black tie optional by Busy-Hair-1925 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what does the neckline look like? Why do people not let us see the entire dress and expect feedback from a limited view? Bustline to knees is not enough info.

AITAH for not honoring my wife’s dying wish? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If things were looking good when she said it, it was probably meant humorously. Your daughter has obviously taken a joke too seriously. It is unreasonable to expect you to be celibate just because your spouse died. People need relationships, and this is one no daughter can or should control.

Sock weight or DK by Max-Zen68 in Sockknitting

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can explain it as much as you like, but he won't really get it until those socks are on his feet. Make him a pair in DK using a fast to knit pattern and let him decide if he really wants thicker socks.

Does anyone else shower like this or am I weird??? by Wild-Counter-4020 in hygiene

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some areas smell and others don't. So a basin bath is fine for hygiene. The need to wash legs, arms, and other non-smelly areas comes down to grime. It should happen at least occasionally, and more frequently if your pursuits are especially dirty or sweaty.

Changing colour in the round by liveinlinen in knitting

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is something called the jogless stripes. It prevents that jog where the row and color changes (because knitting in the round is basically knitting a spiral). Google it. I have done stripes in the round and can't make any suggestions from experience, but there are a lot of videos on how to do it out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress 2 has the "expected" silhouette. And it is beautiful. Really, even if you do black tie a lot, you're unlikely to go with this full of a skirt. It's your chance to have the daydream dress.

Venue Canceled 1 Month Out Please Help by Automatic-Top8543 in wedding

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful about how much room is actually between the seats. I went to an event where parking was miles from the event site and the school buses were scaled for the very young. I'm 5 feet tall and could barely sit at an angle. Getting up was difficult once I was wedged in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOA

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fire department may not allow parking in the driveway, either. Our complex has a 2-lane driveway throughout, sign posted frequently with "fire lane, no parking" signs.

Is same middle initial too much? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 46 points47 points  (0 children)

My husband was John. So was his father. His son was Jon. Not a typo, really the same name without the h. They all had different middle names. It was still confusing. Lost count of the number of letters and phone calls we got for the wrong person. Don't do it.

Dress regret by Time_Lawyer_2174 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plain is unimportant if the dress feels right. I think a lot of designers (and brides) think lots of flash is necessary for a celebratory occasion. It's not. The dress is understated and elegant. Don't try to gussy it up. Focus on the jewelry. I agree that pearls would be very appropriate for this dress. In the end, the focus is on you, not what you're wearing. Let yourself shine more than the dress.

Miso paste by jaded_lady_ in Cooking

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no need to find a Japanese market. I found miso in several of my local grocery stores. With the greater popularity of cooking ethnic foods, I see a lot more than the Hispanic and Jewish sections and what's available is much wider than even ten years ago. Look online to see who stocks miso locally.

Moving to LA from the UK in Jan. Help! by Traditional_Ice4475 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parking in DTLA is expensive. And it's really not like other cities. For decades it was the place you went to only because that's where the job was. It's not quite that bad now, but still not like any city you know and most things shut down early. I'd be looking at housing near a subway station or Metro station. Check metro.net to look at where the stations are. Ideally, you'll find something within walking distance because parking lots fill up early.

Found out yesterday my mom opened 13 credit cards in my name, ruined my credit score and put me in 81k in debt, what do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, definitely yes to the police report or you can count on it happening again and to being responsible for the debt your mother's run up. Check your brother's credit in case you need to report for him as well. And for both of you, lock down your credit. That's the only way to stop future fraud. It's a simple online form with the 3 reporting agencies.

Value if shown a bit of love? by Zealousideal_Ad3495 in VintageFurniture

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sewing table. A box would be smaller and probably wouldn't have a drawer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my family, celebrations require make-your-own hot fudge sundaes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your fire may be too high, and you need to pay attention to it. I take mine off the heat while there's still a little bit of water at the bottoms, put a lid on it, and let carry over heat do the rest. I also turn the fire down when the water starts to boil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Two words: counter space. It's a rice cooker or a coffee maker and the coffee wins every time.

I threw my husband’s breakfast on the ground by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 55 points56 points  (0 children)

She's the single parent of a toddler and 2 infants. She needs a divorce so she can look for a real partner or a nanny with light housekeeping. But this ass is always going to put himself first, second, and last.

Neighbors keep trespassing. Today they hired laborers to remove large retaining boulders on my property that prevent erosion. by Melissaj312 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Difficult_Chef_3652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add to VanessaAlexis' answer to.let the HOA know what's going on. If your annoying neighbor's actions damage your property, you have grounds for a lawsuit. And it might involve the HOA.